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If you had a girlfriend, would this make you nervous/uncomfortable?
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Ignatz Mouse
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If she's your friend, tell her exactly why her behavior (including any coming on to you) is wrong. If she cares about the guy, she wouldn't be so flirty and gettign drunk w/you. If not, she's stringing him along.
There's a simple 4 step process to get you out of this nasty situation.
1) Get her totally trashed
2) bang her (repeat as necessary)
3) make sure that when she gets dressed she puts all her close on backwards/inside out
4) call her boyfriend to him to get that skanky bitch out of your appartment
1) Get her totally trashed
2) bang her (repeat as necessary)
3) make sure that when she gets dressed she puts all her close on backwards/inside out
4) call her boyfriend to him to get that skanky bitch out of your appartment
Ninja Scooter
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Slo said:
i like how you think.
reggieandTFE
Member
It always depends. I hang out a lot alone with my best friend's girlfriend and its made him (and me) a bit uncomfortable at times, but unlike the cheesy guys in bars I would and could never, ever touch her.
Regardless if you were banging her brains out, don't you think the boyfriend would be a little pissed that his gf is getting boozed up at another guy's house? I have a feeling that once that guy fucks up, she's going to press onto you heavy and try to give you the P to 'pay him back.' Drinking with her and eating her food may be cool now, but one thing I've learned about most women is that what you came in the door with is usually different than what you leave with. She may be cool now, but she can easily involve you in some drama. She doesn't even have to fuck you... If she wants to get her boyfriend mad, all she has to do is give off the IMPRESSIOn that she's done something with you. What you choose to do is ultimately up to you, but I'm just providing a little bit of precaution. She can easily involve you into her affairs if you're not careful... But if she's not that smart and the cooking is damn good, why throw away a good thing?
Sounds like a fucked up situation. What the fuck kind of boyfriend does your "friend" have? What kind of guy is ok with her girlfriend spending 3 Friday nights alone with some other guy at his fucking place? Maybe you should bring up the situation to your friend, and to her boyfriend too. 
I see it this way: if the boyfriend doesn't mind picking his woman up from your place every other night, and has no apparent beef with you, then there's nothing wrong. If you wanted to be absolutely sure, you could talk to the boyfriend directly about this stuff and see how he feels about it.
I would be pretty uncomfortable if my girlfriend was getting drunk at some other guy's apartment into the wee horus of the morning.
I would be pretty uncomfortable if my girlfriend was getting drunk at some other guy's apartment into the wee horus of the morning.
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Takuan said:
unless the boyfriend thinks he's picking her up at one of her girlfriends place..
does he know its you who shes hanging out with??
Chittagong
Gold Member
Her current relationship is without doubt a corpse, so I'd say FHUTA hard as much as you can. While taking the time humpin and talking her to do the fair thing and dump the poor guy, you could try to keep it more subtle, otherwise even the dumbest will realize that it's time to call Cheaters and it can get messy with screaming and slapping and such.
That's my thirty cents.
That's my thirty cents.
BigJonsson
Member
TTIWWP
Let her make her own decisions. You don't do anything. If she wants to stick with the bf cool. If she gives you the oppurtunity, reject it. Make her jump your bones before you go through with anything and then save the bf the grief by telling him she initiated it and he should dump the bitch. Or you demand she brakes it off with the guy. I wouldnt hit it though until its broken. If she cheats by making the first move, starts making out with you, have the sense to stop it.
I remember one girl who hung out with me all the time while she still had a bf. It was cool for awhile. We'd have coloring contests, watch movies, cooked.. hung out basically. We did this often and the bf knew. She even was talking to him when i was over a good portion of the time. Eventually though we're on the same couch, both laying down. She keeps turning back to mention something funny about the movie. Most insane sexual tension ever. Did it like 10 times before she turned around once and just started making out with me. I let that run its course but told her she needed to break up with her bf the next time she got a hold of him.
But anyway, hanging out with a chick is a bad idea. Only saving grace being you never initiated it so see where it goes but let whatever happens be her choice to make
I remember one girl who hung out with me all the time while she still had a bf. It was cool for awhile. We'd have coloring contests, watch movies, cooked.. hung out basically. We did this often and the bf knew. She even was talking to him when i was over a good portion of the time. Eventually though we're on the same couch, both laying down. She keeps turning back to mention something funny about the movie. Most insane sexual tension ever. Did it like 10 times before she turned around once and just started making out with me. I let that run its course but told her she needed to break up with her bf the next time she got a hold of him.
But anyway, hanging out with a chick is a bad idea. Only saving grace being you never initiated it so see where it goes but let whatever happens be her choice to make
Bingo.Tazznum1 said:
demon, i've been where you are -- hanging out with a girl who was taken. Cuddling and taking her out to dinner. It was cheating. i knew it, she knew it, and her boyfriend knew it. i gave her all the affection she was wasn't getting from him, and he gave her all the cock she wasn't getting from me. They eventually broke up, and we hooked up several times after that, but she ended up moving 600 miles to be back with him. Ironically, i moved to the same state a year later (family issues), and we're now 45 minutes away from each other.
So what you're really asking is if this guy is gonna kick your ass because his girl is getting drunk with a guy who's better looking and getting his girl drunk. The way things are going in my life right now, if i were in your shoes i'd hit it and force her to break up with her boyfriend. i wouldn't plan to have a long-term relationship with her, just a fun, short ride while expanding my options, like her friends for example. Getting your ass kicked by her ugly boyfriend is sure to win her to your cause.
Have fun!
Littleberu
Banned
Get your own girlfriend Demon.
"Ohhh, stealing other's girlfriend is so much more exciting!! BECAUSE I'M PRETTIER TOO!!"
Just wtf are you thinking?
"Ohhh, stealing other's girlfriend is so much more exciting!! BECAUSE I'M PRETTIER TOO!!"
Just wtf are you thinking?
Invite both her and the boyfriend around and propose a threeway. Then proceed to let the bf get drunk and fall asleep and then do her guilt free. When the bf comes to, just make sure he's told that it was great, and that was the best orgasm you've ever had. Spurted like the cow that jumped the moon.
You know just because one person is being an ass doesn't justify another person being an ass to them to give them their just deserved. It makes you no better than them, possibly even worse. So don't take advantage of someone in some self deceiving attempt to punish them, when it's really about wanting to sink to their level and join them. Be the better person, and not the ass.
How right you are!!Dan said:
But if you must know, she called me up earlier and wanted to get together, and asked if I wanted her boyfriend could join or if I would be uncomfortable with taht, and I said sure. They came over and we watched their Mr. Show dvd, drank a little, then we hit a couple bars. She wanted to go to a gay bar first, and I thought what thhell. Well, my first time being hit on in a bar, even if it wasn't by a chick. Man those guys had a disappointed look as they walked away form us. At least it was an ego boost.
that's pretty much it.
I just think they're pretty comfortable with each other hanging out a lot with folks of the opposite sex. I dont' fucking know. maybe I wouldn't feel this way about the whole thing if she didn't lead me on when we first met. i honestly don't see me making a move on her ( at least long as she's attached), but fuck......she is somethin. :|
Oh, and she barfed into her hands right after last call. that was awesome.
Fresh Prince
Banned
So you're leaving it in a state of ambiguity...interesting.
Fresh Prince
Banned
No direspect to you. I just thought it was one of those 'I'm at the end of my teather-let me get it sorted for once and all' threads.
Fresh Prince
Banned
Maybe it's good to leave it to 'fate' (if such a thing exists).
ConfusingJazz
Member
I am starting to think that girl wants one thing. The clues are all there, hitting on you to make try to get you attracted to her, taking you to a gay bar, hanging out with her boyfriend to get comfortable with him. This can only mean one thing, she wants a...
Next time you two are alone, getting drunk, and flirting, push things a little further and see how she responds. If she's lets you go further, take it as far as it'll go until she says you should stop. If she does, tell her you're sorry, you're drunk, et cetera and whatever. Major emphasis on "if" here.demon said:
Granted, this scenario will only complicate matters if you end up having sex, but you're obviosuly headed in that direction, so cross that bridge when you come to it.
ConfusingJazz
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speedpop said:
Makes my manwich argument all the more likely...
Fresh Prince
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With the internet anything is possible....
RobotChant
Member
They're softening you up for a threesome. Seriously, what guy wants to hang-out with his girlfriend’s male drinking buddy. FThemBothUTA.
Really, how was the gay bar?
Really, how was the gay bar?
relentlessflame
Member
Well, I wasn't thinking of the "with a guy" part, but I was thinking that the boyfriend may be cheating on her when she's over at your place... In that scenario, he either thinks she's too honest to be cheating on him too, or he may even figure that she is cheating on him, but it doesn't bother him due to his guilty conscious... If that were the case, I'd guess that the situation would be just about to explode...speedpop said:
Ah, what the hell do I know!?! It's just something that came to mind while reading this thread. Really, who knows what they are thinking...
A lot like a normal bar, except they played a lot of Cher, and it was a total sausage-fest. Plus whenever she got up to leave to go to the bathroom I felt as if some guy was going to come up and hit on me. And I was pretty much right.RobotChant said:
ConfusingJazz
Member
demon said:
Was it her boyfriend that didn't know how to take a hint?
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