Why didn't you guys make threads? It's senseless to compare reactions considering we're posting in an English-language forum with many members who live in (or know people who live in) the Boston area.
I sometimes wish shit like this didn't deeply saddened me. I feel drained from all the mayhem today.
It should be pretty easy to stop being bothered by it if you keep in mind that based on location it may/may not be effectively nonexistent to you.
For instance, I do not live in Haiti, I do not plan on ever visiting Haiti, nor do I know anyone who knows anyone who lives in Haiti. Essentially, Haiti does not exist to me, and whatever events may happen in Haiti, (For example, the earthquake a few years back), do not, (as far as my world is concerned), have any effect on me.
It's just a line of thinking that may be helpful if you really just want to "stop feeling" stuff about these types of situations.
I'm a junior; otherwise I would have made oneWhy didn't you guys make threads?
Americans don't care about bombings in Iraq, it's too far removed.
20 car bombs coordinated across multiple cities is a huge move though and suggests that the insurgents in Iraq are still well organized.
It's senseless to compare reactions considering we're posting in an English-language forum with many members who live in (or know people who live in) the Boston area.
From 2003-2010, there were 1,759 terrorist incidents in Iraq alone. It's depressing but after hearing it essentially daily, it becomes common place. It sucks. Star Trek future can happen anytime now.
I didn't know about it...the event was too under-reported. It just shows how little we really care about the loss of human life, and how much we rely on the media's current focus to persuade our sympathies. I mean come on now----TWENTY car bombs. It's almost a bit selfish in a way, the degree to which we tune out tragic losses of human life except when it hits close to home or it fits a convenient narrative.
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Sympathy is something that everyone should feel, even if it doesn't effect you.
I didn't know about it...the event was too under-reported. It just shows how little we really care about the loss of human life, and how much we rely on the media's current focus to persuade our sympathies.
I mean come on now----TWENTY car bombs. It's almost a bit selfish in a way, the degree to which we tune out tragic losses of human life except when it hits close to home or it fits a convenient narrative.
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It should be pretty easy to stop being bothered by it if you keep in mind that based on location it may/may not be effectively nonexistent to you.
For instance, I do not live in Haiti, I do not plan on ever visiting Haiti, nor do I know anyone who knows anyone who lives in Haiti. Essentially, Haiti does not exist to me, and whatever events may happen in Haiti, (For example, the earthquake a few years back), do not, (as far as my world is concerned), have any effect on me.
It's just a line of thinking that may be helpful if you really just want to "stop feeling" stuff about these types of situations.
How can people do this shit? I know some people just want to watch the world burn but, damn. How ca you justify your actions?
You should really quit while you're behind. Or do you really not comprehend why a terrorist action in a city that doesn't ever have any is getting a lot more talk from a community of people who live in or near there, know people from there, speak the same language, or who's city reminds them of their own city?
In normal circumstances, when a family member dies, you feel worse than when a friend's family member dies. When a friend's family member dies, you feel worse than when a stranger's family member dies. And so on, and so on. It's not a disrespect for others' tragedies, it's that people, animals and all living things form emotional attachments by familiarity, which tends to lessen as the familiarity lessens.
And just as importantly, Boston doesn't get terrorist attacks. It lends itself to a lot of discussion and speculation. Iraq has terrorist events weekly. Bombs will probably go off there next week, too. It's horrible, and very sad. But what's to discuss, really?
Empathy is something that everyone should feel, even if it doesn't effect you.
Silphonica said:I think empathy is more fitting here
I don't want to stop that feeling honestly. I would be a cold mother fucker if I didn't have it.
If America was a warzone for the past 10 years, and bombings more routine, you'd have people tuning it out too.
I didn't know about it...the event was too under-reported. It just shows how little we really care about the loss of human life, and how much we rely on the media's current focus to persuade our sympathies. I mean come on now----TWENTY car bombs. It's almost a bit selfish in a way, the degree to which we tune out tragic losses of human life except when it hits close to home or it fits a convenient narrative.
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I'm just concerned about degree of apathy we are capable of feeling towards tragic losses of human loss
Again, I think people prioritize their sympathy and emotions out of necessity rather than selfishness. Couldn't I say to you, why are you focusing on 31 dead in Iraq when 200 were killed or raped in an African nation last week (*a fictitious but potential story)? And then someone could say, "but 500 died in x," and then someone could say, "but 20,000,000 are starving every day in x," and so on and so on.
I don't think the vast majority of people would say any one innocent life is worth more than any other, and I'm not either. It's just both attention and sympathy wanes the further you move away from a person's sense of familiarity. For instance, I bet the people of London have a lot more sympathy and more to say about what happened in Boston today than the people of Beijing. I'm not angry at the people of Beijing for this, in fact I understand very well why this would be.