Is the average white male attracted to black females?

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Sharp said:
I see this is your first encounter with the female ideal, the "hourglass" figure. Congratulations on your newfound exposure.
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Isn't the hourglass figure typically viewed from the front and not the side?
 
gutter_trash said:
I (white male) am attracted to good looking black females but I am not attracted to average black females

difference in diet from the different cultures is key to how they turn out.
Black Americans eat (in stereotype like the rest of average America) eat too much junk and it shows when compared to Blacks from the Caribbean or from Africa who have healthier diets
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I've heard people say this before and I just dont get it. On average, I havent seen more fat black people than I've seen fat white, mexican, etc.

What I do see is that fat black women in comparison to whites tend to not be ashamed of it as much, embellishing their upgraded super booties and still thinking they are hot shit. But as you said, being fat on average is an American thing, not a black thing
 
pizzaguysrevenge said:
Most of these girls are conforming to the European standards of beauty. They look more like white girls with extreme tans than actual black girls.

I'd wager that most of them have gotten nose jobs.

EDIT: I'm talking about those models in the first few posts. Scrolling down reveals beautiful black women who aren't trying their hardest to look like white women.
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Nah no nose jobs, because most of the girls posted are east African and their noses tend to be similar shape to Caucasian noses.
 
I'm an extremely average white guy in the US South.

*In my experiences * many black women down here do not like white guys in general and are not very open to dating them. On the other hand, a lot of white guys ignore black women here. So ... which came first, I dunno?

It sucks for me, because I have a huge crush on this one black girl. She knows about it to a degree, and we've hung out plenty, but she is very standoff-ish when any white male attempts to make a move towards seeing her more often. We both have a lot of the same friends, but we do have our own "groups" when we don't hang together.

I have also hooked up several times with an older black lady which I'm pretty sure is a very unique situation in the area that I live, lol. I'm 27 yo for reference.

In my experience, the US South is the hardest place for a white male to hook-up with a black female. It just is. On the other hand, I see a lot of the black male/white female couples in malls and clubs and wherever. VERY RARELY do you see the opposite. Maybe once a month if you are out and about every day.

I should also mention that this is in North Carolina. I can't speak for the deep south, more for the mid-atlantic south.

I also see almost ZERO mixed latino or asian couples, they seem to have an attitude here of staying within their own race. Another crushing blow to me, as I absolutely adore latino women. Also the very small Asian population here sticks very tightly together.

It is nearly impossible to "get into" these inner circles and get a chance to date one of the girls in these ethnic groups.

My friends pick on me all the time for liking "ethnic girls". It's just a thing here in the south. If you do like non-white girls, you keep it to yourself here or face a ton of jokes/ridicule. I don't care, I just ignore it, but it is a part of society where I live.

At any rate - I believe it has a lot to do with the geography (North, South, etc) and the long standing attitudes where you live.

My "Rank" of Attractiveness

1. Latino or any mix with Latino women
2. White women, especially blonds or Eastern Euro looking girls
3. Black women or any mixture with black women
4. Southeast Asian, Indian, Egyptian, and Middle Eastern women
5. Asian (Japanese, Korean, Chinese, etc) women
6. All other women, LOL.

Bottom line is that is sucks to be limited by where you live or be scorned by your culture/family and friends for liking what you like and find attractive. It also sucks that it seems that the girls in the aforementioned ethnic groups seem to have the same cultural pitfalls and biases that I see in white people I know here. Northwestern North Carolina is a very limiting area for all races involved.
 
I love the "Well if I find her hot of course it doesn't matter!" posts. Very useless, thanks.

I think the better question is if the average white male attracted to the average black female. But defining the "average black female" is neigh impossible. Have I been attracted to most black females I've met? I'd say out of all groups they'd probably be the lowest percentage wise, but the ones I did find attractive would rank higher overall.
 
Sharp said:
I see this is your first encounter with the female ideal, the "hourglass" figure. Congratulations on your newfound exposure.
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Oh get the fuck over yourself. First of all, the hourglass figure refers to wide hips and supple breasts, not a big butt sticking out from the back. I bet she even walks funny because of her enormous derier. That shit looks ugly.
 
I'm black, but not generally as attracted to black or Indian girls although there are obviously some exceptions. I was born in Nigeria, but was pretty much raised in a largely white environment where most of my friends growing up were white. I'm sure this has something to do with it.
 
gutter_trash said:
angel-lola-luv.jpg
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Eh, Lola Luv is a horrible example. Fake ass, fake tits.
 
pizzaguysrevenge said:
Most of these girls are conforming to the European standards of beauty. They look more like white girls with extreme tans than actual black girls.

I'd wager that most of them have gotten nose jobs.

EDIT: I'm talking about those models in the first few posts. Scrolling down reveals beautiful black women who aren't trying their hardest to look like white women.
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Africa is a pretty diverse country, a lot of the people on the first few pages are either mixed or from Etheopia or Somalia which are countries that have become relatively mixed over the centuries.
 
I've never understood why GAF has such as hate for black women sometimes. The body figure then really seems to get to alot of people on this board.
 
USD said:
Eh, Lola Luv is a horrible example. Fake ass, fake tits.
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Yeah, Lola is extremely fake. Here's an all real girl, ESTHER BAXTER. Real life "Chun Li"

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pizzaguysrevenge said:
Most of these girls are conforming to the European standards of beauty. They look more like white girls with extreme tans than actual black girls.

I'd wager that most of them have gotten nose jobs.

EDIT: I'm talking about those models in the first few posts. Scrolling down reveals beautiful black women who aren't trying their hardest to look like white women.
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Ugh, I hate these kinds of comments because they show off an extreme amount of ignorance (even if it's unintentional). You do realize Africa has an ENORMOUS number of different cultures? People from Norther, Western, and Southern Africa can look pretty different from each other. Don't just assume they're looking "European" because they don't look like your "typical" African
 
Zoramon089 said:
Yeah, Lola is extremely fake. Here's an all real girl, ESTHER BAXTER. Real life "Chun Li"

r0cehe.jpg




Ugh, I hate these kinds of comments because they show off an extreme amount of ignorance (even if it's unintentional). You do realize Africa has an ENORMOUS number of different cultures? People from Norther, Western, and Southern Africa can look pretty different from each other. Don't just assume they're looking "European" because they don't look like your "typical" African
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pretty much, i do have a thing for igbo girls, my mom is like dont date igbo girls they'll lead you astray. :lol :lol
 
Captain Sparrow said:
I think the thread should REALLY be called "Is the white male attracted to the average black female?"
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The problem is that the "average black female" varies greatly from region to region (within the US)
 
JohnDoe8865 said:
I'm an extremely average white guy in the US South.

*In my experiences * many black women down here do not like white guys in general and are not very open to dating them. On the other hand, a lot of white guys ignore black women here. So ... which came first, I dunno?

It sucks for me, because I have a huge crush on this one black girl. She knows about it to a degree, and we've hung out plenty, but she is very standoff-ish when any white male attempts to make a move towards seeing her more often. We both have a lot of the same friends, but we do have our own "groups" when we don't hang together.

I have also hooked up several times with an older black lady which I'm pretty sure is a very unique situation in the area that I live, lol. I'm 27 yo for reference.

In my experience, the US South is the hardest place for a white male to hook-up with a black female. It just is. On the other hand, I see a lot of the black male/white female couples in malls and clubs and wherever. VERY RARELY do you see the opposite. Maybe once a month if you are out and about every day.

I should also mention that this is in North Carolina. I can't speak for the deep south, more for the mid-atlantic south.

I also see almost ZERO mixed latino or asian couples, they seem to have an attitude here of staying within their own race. Another crushing blow to me, as I absolutely adore latino women. Also the very small Asian population here sticks very tightly together.

It is nearly impossible to "get into" these inner circles and get a chance to date one of the girls in these ethnic groups.

My friends pick on me all the time for liking "ethnic girls". It's just a thing here in the south. If you do like non-white girls, you keep it to yourself here or face a ton of jokes/ridicule. I don't care, I just ignore it, but it is a part of society where I live.

At any rate - I believe it has a lot to do with the geography (North, South, etc) and the long standing attitudes where you live.

My "Rank" of Attractiveness

1. Latino or any mix with Latino women
2. White women, especially blonds or Eastern Euro looking girls
3. Black women or any mixture with black women
4. Southeast Asian, Indian, Egyptian, and Middle Eastern women
5. Asian (Japanese, Korean, Chinese, etc) women
6. All other women, LOL.

Bottom line is that is sucks to be limited by where you live or be scorned by your culture/family and friends for liking what you like and find attractive. It also sucks that it seems that the girls in the aforementioned ethnic groups seem to have the same cultural pitfalls and biases that I see in white people I know here. Northwestern North Carolina is a very limiting area for all races involved.
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I'm in NC, and I dated a couple of black girls in High school. Wouldn't consider myself an "average" white male though...
 
I would have loved to have dated anything non white, but where I live isn't really that diverse. There were only 3 AAs in my high school all 4 years. :/
 
Zoramon089 said:
Yeah, Lola is extremely fake. Here's an all real girl, ESTHER BAXTER. Real life "Chun Li"

r0cehe.jpg




Ugh, I hate these kinds of comments because they show off an extreme amount of ignorance (even if it's unintentional). You do realize Africa has an ENORMOUS number of different cultures? People from Norther, Western, and Southern Africa can look pretty different from each other. Don't just assume they're looking "European" because they don't look like your "typical" African
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Great picture and great reply <3

There is always such a great difference between the fake TnA and the god given gift of great TnA :lol
 
shintoki said:
Great picture and great reply <3

There is always such a great difference between the fake TnA and the god given gift of great TnA :lol
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this is very true, but id still date the previous girl :p unless she was some hardcore bitch
 
vas_a_morir said:
I had an African friend tell me that in Africa, a thick woman that we might call fat here is considered very attractive. I dunno.
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Well thick in slang terms has a very different meaning than just being fat.
 
SwitchBladeKneegrow said:
I'm in NC, and I dated a couple of black girls in High school. Wouldn't consider myself an "average" white male though...
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I think NC qualifies as 'deep south' now. At least outside of Raleigh, Cary, and areas of Charlotte.
 
I'm just not into thick girls, or girls that have an extremely ghetto style. Regardless of the race.
I've found just cannot get attracted to girls like that. It's not Hip-Hop style, I can get into that, although it's rarer.
 
DY_nasty said:
I think NC qualifies as 'deep south' now. At least outside of Raleigh, Cary, and areas of Charlotte.
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I'm in Raleigh now, but I grew up and lived in a straight up southern ghetto until I met my wife. Lots of interesting stories from growing up as the only white boy on Martin St.
I guess growing up with lots of various races made me have no problems with me putting my cock into a girl, no matter what her skin tone may be.

My life experiences, how I look and carry myself are what keep me from being an "average white guy". That and I have a big cock.
 
Zero Hero said:
I would have loved to have dated anything non white, but where I live isn't really that diverse. There were only 3 AAs in my high school all 4 years. :/
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What state do you live in? Jeez...
 
As an average white male, I will humbly admit that I'm only attracted to my own average, while female ilk. Does this make me a terrible person?
 
Jason's Ultimatum said:
I've never seen black lesbian couples. NEVER in my lifetime. =\
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Look harder, there were a ton of em' in my high school. Of course, none of them very very attractive and totally fit the "softball playing lesbian" stereotype.

Jesus the banner ad for this thread is cracking me up...
 
Dies Iræ said:
As an average white male, I will humbly admit that I'm only attracted to my own average, while female ilk. Does this make me a terrible person?
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What about above average females of other races like were posted in this thread?
 
To me this phenomenon is easily explainable. If you're racist or ignorant or both, the hierarchy goes like this:


1- White people
2- Black people


This means the black guy/girl "upgrades" when with a white person and the white guy/girl "downgrades" when they are with a black person. This is the root. Call me crazy if you want. If you just discovered that you're racist well, it's all good, you can change/evolve.

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baardhimself said:
remember that if you are a white male and you have a baby with a black woman, it wont look like you.
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All depends. Little Manky has his father's forehead and shares enough of his father's personality traits that it is very obvious that the white guy is his father.

As to the main thread, I'm a black woman married to a white man, so I know the answer for one man. :) It does seem that there are more black man/white woman couples, and I tend to notice interracial couples as we walk around malls and the like. Anecdotally, I met my husband at college, and had never dated, mostly due to my introverted geeky nature. Two other black women I know who are married to white guys (one of the guys is Jewish) are geeky as well. My thought is that if you're already an outlier, culture wise, it's not as big a deal to jump to dating/marrying in another culture/race.

Black women can be considered, to a certain extent, as keepers of black culture. They are the backbone of the black church, and take care of the children as many black men are caught in jail/gangs (not true for everybody, obviously, but this seems to be a trend that we're accepting as part of the discussion). Throw in all the baggage from U.S. slavery, where black women were raped by their white masters and had children taken away from them by white masters, etc, etc, etc...there is a cultural distaste for white men. Oh yeah, and the stereotype about the penis size. Anyways, to date a white man is considered betrayal for a lot of older generations of black women. I'm guessing that if you're 20 and under, this won't be as big of a thing.
 
KTallguy said:
I'm just not into thick girls, or girls that have an extremely ghetto style. Regardless of the race.
I've found just cannot get attracted to girls like that. It's not Hip-Hop style, I can get into that, although it's rarer.
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We're all ghetto now?
 
eznark said:
That bubble look is hideous, no matter the race.
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agrajag said:
Oh get the fuck over yourself. First of all, the hourglass figure refers to wide hips and supple breasts, not a big butt sticking out from the back. I bet she even walks funny because of her enormous derier. That shit looks ugly.
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Skiptastic said:
Sweet merciful Jesus. I wouldn't even know what to do with that.
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Feeling like you would come up a bit short? :lol
 
Ranger X said:
To me this phenomenon is easily explainable. If you're racist or ignorant or both, the hierarchy goes like this:


1- White people
2- Black people


This means the black guy/girl "upgrades" when with a white person and the white guy/girl "downgrades" when they are with a black person. This is the root. Call me crazy if you want. If you just discovered that you're racist well, it's all good, you can change/evolve.

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wtf
 
harSon said:
We're all ghetto now?
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Yeah why are there so many people in this thread making it sound as if 80% of black women are either ghetto, loud, fat, or pissed off all the time?
 
I'm a normal white male, and to be honest, I'm mostly attracted to normal hispanic and white females when it comes to relationships. Why? No idea. Why not black females? No idea. Do I find them attractive in general? Yes. But I guess its the fact that the ones i've had any relation to friend wise are just so full of drama it just seems like nothing I want. And for the most part most hispanic and white girls I meet tend to have their mind set on what they want and where they want to be. Something I like and find attractive. Also, just in terms of general interests, and the type of female I'm attracted to in terms of personality are usually present in hispanic girls or white girls. Very rarely middle eastern or asians I meet. And I have yet to meet a black females who represent the things I look for.


Does this make me racist? I cant see how.



Also, just a completely random thought....

I was talking to one of my chick friends(like 6 years older than me), and she was talking about how she cant find a guy who she feels meets her standards. NOW doesnt mean this in stuck-up way, like in terms of looks and social status, but in terms of a mentality and general outlook on life. I think thats understandable, you of course want to be with someone who you can relate to. Now, if she is white, and said that she doesnt date hispanics because she has never met anyone on the same level as her and that they arent worth her time, would that be racist? I'm sure a lot of people would say yes. She's actually hispanic, and would never ever date another hispanic guy because she feels they "are no good".

Now this is only interms of a significant other, not friends. I've just found it interesting, usually people stick the their culture when it comes to that, but she's the complete opposite. I can fully understand it, just not the most common thing.


And yes, this relates to one area, Chicago and its suburbs.


I guess the term racist is hard to determin in terms of what people look for in a significant other. I have friends of all shapes and sizez and colors and dimensions, and can care less about that stuff when it comes to friends. That being said, I would never look for a relationship in 90% of that.
 
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