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[agrajag]

Yeah, Lola is extremely fake. Here's an all real girl, ESTHER BAXTER. Real life "Chun Li"

Ugh, I hate these kinds of comments because they show off an extreme amount of ignorance (even if it's unintentional). You do realize Africa has an ENORMOUS number of different cultures? People from Norther, Western, and Southern Africa can look pretty different from each other. Don't just assume they're looking "European" because they don't look like your "typical" African

This girl is much nicer. And whoop-dee-doo, she has a nice booty, but not a ridiculously disproportional caricature ass like that other girl.

 

[elektrikluv]

I'm a normal white male, and to be honest, I'm mostly attracted to normal hispanic and white females when it comes to relationships. Why? No idea. Why not black females? No idea. Do I find them attractive in general? Yes. But I guess its the fact that the ones i've had any relation to friend wise are just so full of drama it just seems like nothing I want. And for the most part most hispanic and white girls I meet tend to have their mind set on what they want and where they want to be. Something I like and find attractive. Also, just in terms of general interests, and the type of female I'm attracted to in terms of personality are usually present in hispanic girls or white girls. Very rarely middle eastern or asians I meet. And I have yet to meet a black females who represent the things I look for.


Does this make me racist? I cant see how.



Also, just a completely random thought....

I was talking to one of my chick friends(like 6 years older than me), and she was talking about how she cant find a guy who she feels meets her standards. NOW doesnt mean this in stuck-up way, like in terms of looks and social status, but in terms of a mentality and general outlook on life. I think thats understandable, you of course want to be with someone who you can relate to. Now, if she is white, and said that she doesnt date hispanics because she has never met anyone on the same level as her and that they arent worth her time, would that be racist? I'm sure a lot of people would say yes. She's actually hispanic, and would never ever date another hispanic guy because she feels they "are no good".

Now this is only interms of a significant other, not friends. I've just found it interesting, usually people stick the their culture when it comes to that, but she's the complete opposite. I can fully understand it, just not the most common thing.


And yes, this relates to one area, Chicago and its suburbs.

If she's ruling out an entire race of men and any possibility of ever hooking up with one regardless of his personality, based on her prior personal experiences, then that is very ignorant. If she is saying that every single hispanic man is "no good" then that's pretty fucking ignorant.

Just because you have "yet to meet a black woman who represents the things you look for" doesn't mean one isn't out there, and if you've already ruled her out on the grounds that she is black due to your preconceived notions of what *all* black women are supposedly like, then yes that is racist. But if you simply haven't had experience of black women who you get on with but race isn't the issue but rather personal experience of said black women in your life, and would be willing to give black women who fitted your 'personality' bill a chance then that's different. I am only saying this as you say its not the physical appearance of black women that is the issue. Obviously if you were just not attracted to them then that is another issue that can't be addressed.

Not sure how much sense that made.

 

[agrajag]

I've never seen black lesbian couples. NEVER in my lifetime. =\

I've seen some when I went to college.

 

[mckmas8808]

Also, just a completely random thought....

I was talking to one of my chick friends(like 6 years older than me), and she was talking about how she cant find a guy who she feels meets her standards. NOW doesnt mean this in stuck-up way, like in terms of looks and social status, but in terms of a mentality and general outlook on life. I think thats understandable, you of course want to be with someone who you can relate to. Now, if she is white, and said that she doesnt date hispanics because she has never met anyone on the same level as her and that they arent worth her time, would that be racist? I'm sure a lot of people would say yes. She's actually hispanic, and would never ever date another hispanic guy because she feels they "are no good".

Now this is only interms of a significant other, not friends. I've just found it interesting, usually people stick the their culture when it comes to that, but she's the complete opposite. I can fully understand it, just not the most common thing.


And yes, this relates to one area, Chicago and its suburbs.

No it would make her ignorant. All hispanic men aren't bad people.

 

[mckmas8808]

This girl is much nicer. And whoop-dee-doo, she has a nice booty, but not a ridiculously disproportional caricature ass like that other girl.

Dude that first girl's ass is fake. It's a plastic booty that she got put on. It's like when a woman gets fake tits and the are too big and look terrible.

Angel's ass look bad.

 

[agrajag]

Dude that first girl's ass is fake. It's a plastic booty that she got put on. It's like when a woman gets fake tits and the are too big and look terrible.

Angel's ass look bad.

Yeah, and yet I was criticized for not liking "hour glass shaped ideal women" LMAO :lol

Anyway, Lacey Duvalle got those butt implants too, totally ruined her body.

 

[Verano]

Just because you have "yet to meet a black woman who represents the things you look for" doesn't mean one isn't out there, and if you've already ruled her out on the grounds that she is black due to your preconceived notions of what *all* black women are supposedly like, then yes that is racist.

Isn't that more of a stereotype than a racist comment?

 

[Zoramon089]

Dude that first girl's ass is fake. It's a plastic booty that she got put on. It's like when a woman gets fake tits and the are too big and look terrible.

Angel's ass look bad.

You haven't seen bad ass until you see the pic of that white woman in a swimsuit from the side and her ass just sticks out like a foot and is conical shaped. Shit was gross. I think it might be a bannable offense posting the pic, I think

 

[agrajag]

Isn't that more of a stereotype than a racist comment?

Yeah. I think there's a fine line between being prejudiced and racist, which most people tend to ignore. Racism involves hate, imo. Or thinking someone is less than human because of the color of their skin.

You haven't seen bad ass until you see the pic of that white woman in a swimsuit from the side and her ass just sticks out like a foot and is conical shaped. Shit was gross. I think it might be a bannable offense posting the pic, I think

What I always wonder is, how do these people sit down without worrying about their butt-implants bursting?

 

[JimmyV]

If she's ruling out an entire race of men and any possibility of ever hooking up with one regardless of his personality, based on her prior personal experiences, then that is very ignorant. If she is saying that every single hispanic man is "no good" then that's pretty fucking ignorant.

Just because you have "yet to meet a black woman who represents the things you look for" doesn't mean one isn't out there, and if you've already ruled her out on the grounds that she is black due to your preconceived notions of what *all* black women are supposedly like, then yes that is racist. But if you simply haven't had experience of black women who you get on with but race isn't the issue but rather personal experience of said black women in your life, and would be willing to give black women who fitted your 'personality' bill a chance then that's different. I am only saying this as you say its not the physical appearance of black women that is the issue. Obviously if you were just not attracted to them then that is another issue that can't be addressed.

Not sure how much sense that made.

For the first aprt, I dunno, I guess her situation make sense to me because it goes a lot deeper than past experiences.

For me, yeah, if i meet anyone of any race or background that has in common what I'm look for and am attracted to personality wise, i'd give them a chance(girls only, i'm not that open minded). In terms of looks, yes I need to find them attractive on a physical level, but that level gets boosted a lot if their personality is awesome. But am i ignoring certain races, no. To be honest, i would only really date someone who im friends with first. I made a mistake of jumping into something with someone who I wasnt friends with really and just got fucked badly(i was 20, she was 25). And seeing as how I'm literally friends with just about every type of person, the ones who I would ever want a relationship from is very limited. Ha I guess I'm too young to be going out looking for that in particular tho.

The statements about race were just in relation to my friends who have those things.

 

[mckmas8808]

You haven't seen bad ass until you see the pic of that white woman in a swimsuit from the side and her ass just sticks out like a foot and is conical shaped. Shit was gross. I think it might be a bannable offense posting the pic, I think

Can you IM me the pic? It can't be that gross.

 

[JimmyV]

Can you IM me the pic? It can't be that gross.

yeah me too please, becuase i cant even get that image going in my head.

 

[starchild excalibur]

I'll easily admit that, for whatever reason, I'm more easily attracted to average white girls than average black girls. To me it's not at all about physique (i'm attracted to girls with asses and, quite frankly, the average white girl doesn't have an ass), but the face. There are beautiful people of every ethnicity and I've had crushes on black girls before, but in general I'm just not as physically (read: facially) attracted to many of the ones I see.

If I were to go to other parts of the world where facial characteristics differ then this may not be the case.

The girl posted in this thread - Lola - has a bangin' body, but her face doesn't really leave an impression. It's obviously attractive, but I think with models in general (of any ethnicity) the faces tend to lack the idiosyncracies that I often times find appealing. Most of the girls I've been deeply attracted to wouldn't make it as models, but the reason they leave such an impression is because, facially, they have a uniqueness that's wholly their own. Beyonce, Mandy Moore, Lola, etc are all attractive but just aren't indelible in ways that "average" girls can be in my opinion.

Muhsinah is an example of a black girl that's memorable for me.

Can you IM me the pic? It can't be that gross.

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gross

 

[X26]

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gross


I'll easily admit that, for whatever reason, I'm more easily attracted to average white girls than average black girls. To me it's not at all about physique (i'm attracted to girls with asses and, quite frankly, the average white girl doesn't have an ass), but the face. There are beautiful people of every ethnicity and I've had crushes on black girls before, but in general I'm just not as physically attracted to the ones I've seen.

If I were to go to other parts of the world where facial characteristics differ then this may not be the case.

either her surgeon is a complete hack, or that's a tumor

 

[agrajag]

:lol that ain't right

 

[MWS Natural]

This girl is much nicer. And whoop-dee-doo, she has a nice booty, but not a ridiculously disproportional caricature ass like that other girl.

I don't know about that particular girl but my co-worker has a body like that. Small waste with big hips and huge ass, 100% real. I would take pics but I'd rather not get fired from my job :lol

What I always wonder is, how do these people sit down without worrying about their butt-implants bursting?

I have always wondered the opposite, how do people with NO ass sit down comfortably. Like I've seen white people with literally not enough ass to even hold their pants up. I mean like if their belt came off the pants they would immediately fall to the knees. Wouldn't it hurt sitting down after a while with no cushion at all?

 

[PhoenixDark]

Anyway, Lacey Duvalle got those butt implants too, totally ruined her body.

Agreed. I still jerk to her, but now I shake two heads instead of one

 

[DY_nasty]

I thought she just put on weight. She did have a kid you know. And pornstars do age.

 

[PhoenixDark]

True but still. I like big ass shit but hers looks wrong. Also, can't say I'm a fan of her new boobs either :/

 

[agrajag]

I thought she just put on weight. She did have a kid you know. And pornstars do age.

I wasn't aware women's hips and ass swell to ridiculous proportions post-pregnancy.:lol

Google image search her so you can compare what she used to look like and what she looks like now.

 

[DY_nasty]

I wasn't aware women's hips and ass swell to ridiculous proportions post-pregnancy.:lol

Google image search her so you can compare what she used to look like and what she looks like now.

She was like 18-21 during her 'prime'. Chick got older, got some breast implants but I didn't think the ass was fake. Looks pretty normal for a black woman who's let herself go for a couple of years after she's had kids...

 

[agrajag]

Well, I'm not the only one who thinks something strange is going on. Notice how her waste and face are still skinny. And she's fucking 26, let's not act like she's in her 40's.

 

[WrathOfOtaibah]

I don't discriminate.

I haven't had too many other problems regarding dating women of other races. Makes me wonder if people blame racism or societal conditioning on their otherwise piss poor or knowing GAF, nonexistent, love lives.

Also the average white male might not be attracted to black females because there is a possibility that the average white male does not live in communities where there are many black females.

 

[nightez]

I had an African friend tell me that in Africa, a thick woman that we might call fat here is considered very attractive. I dunno.

It was the same in Europe and most societies too. The Mona Lisa is an example of what an extremely attractive woman would have looked like in the old days.

 

[starchild excalibur]

It was the same in Europe and most societies too. The Mona Lisa is an example of what an extremely attractive woman would have looked like in the old days.

I remember hearing either early in college or late in high school that standards of beauty are essentially changing over the centuries to reflect what's considered unattainable at the time. If you were living in Europe as a feudal serf who was always struggling to find food, women who could afford massive amounts of food and therefore had larger bodies were considered more attractive because that body was so unattainable. Since the opposite is true in America and many other parts of the world today - where it's much easier to binge on junk food and end up weighing 300 lbs - women with smaller bodies are considered the standard of beauty.

Obviously you can't boil it down to something this simple, but many argue it's a large factor.

 

[nightez]

I remember hearing either early in college or late in high school that standards of beauty are essentially changing over the centuries to reflect what's considered unattainable at the time. If you were living in Europe as a feudal serf who was always struggling to find food, women who could afford massive amounts of food and therefore had larger bodies were considered more attractive because that body was so unattainable. Since the opposite is true in America and many other parts of the world today - where it's much easier to binge on junk food and end up weighing 300 lbs - women with smaller bodies are considered the standard of beauty.

Obviously you can't boil it down to something this simple, but many argue it's a large factor.

That's a very interesting way of looking at things. It might be true, in parts of the world where food is hard to come by, being obese is a still a sign of wealth.

 

[kozmo7]

Just wanted to thank you all for the pictures that have popped up in here.

Also: I'm as white as cottage cheese and I like all kinds of women, no matter the race. Each race has different physical qualities that I find attractive in a woman.