frankie_baby
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While certain related activities are illegal (brothels or on street soliciting) prostitution itself is perfectly legal in the UK
How does it empower women?
I feel like the biggest potential downside is that legalization may create a level of demand that will create the conditions for more human trafficking to occur to fulfill that demand.
And yes, legalization will give them legal recourse but the victims will usually not be able to speak English.
See my first post in the thread for the data. We accidentally did that in Rhode Island and got hard data.
By letting women make money off of their bodies in a legal and regulated environment. It's infinitely safer.
I feel like the biggest potential downside is that legalization may create a level of demand that will create the conditions for more human trafficking to occur to fulfill that demand.
And yes, legalization will give them legal recourse but the victims will usually not be able to speak English.
How would you guys feel about legislation like the Swedish, where being a sex worker is not illegal, but being a john is?
I never understood how female cops posing as sex workers is not entrapment legal wise?
I feel like the biggest potential downside is that legalization may create a level of demand that will create the conditions for more human trafficking to occur to fulfill that demand.
And yes, legalization will give them legal recourse but the victims will usually not be able to speak English.
Sex work and alcohol aren't analogous because sex work has not recently been legal in the United States. People who have a habit of soliciting prostitutes won't be forced to change their ways by the law, as they're already criminals. Making sex work legal encourages more women to be imported, probably in very unsafe and illegal conditions. We will see many more women, many of them underage, being brought by the boatload to the United States by pimps who know that a handful of forged green cards will allow them to operate freely.
Personally, I believe that prostitution is a bad thing, and shouldn't be encouraged or allowed. It's much, much more objectifying and inherently misogynistic than pornography or stripping. Allowing sex to be bought like a hamburger would really contribute to the view that sex is something you deserve.
If we make it easier for trafficked women to seek help without fear of arrest or deportation, their rights and safety will be protected even if prostitution is illegal.
Do you believe that objectification and commodification are equivalent? (I do not.)Do you not agree that the legalization and normalization of prostitution would encourage objectification?
By letting women make money off of their bodies in a legal and regulated environment. It's infinitely safer.
You're not realizing that a large part of these problems are a result of prostitution being prohibited. Legalization means brothels with regular health inspections. It means mandatory contraception. It means STD tests. It means minimum wage. It means prostitutes are able to go to authorities in the case of abuse without fear of being arrested. All of these things improve the lives of all involved.I could support prostitution being legalized in very limited, regulated forms, but the lives of most prostitutes (even if they aren't trafficked) seem so awful that I could never vote to legalize with a good conscience. I don't want my government to endorse an industry that toxic.
Unless pimps, street prostitution, trafficking, and sex worker abuse are illegal and prevented, I can't support the normalization of sex work.
But with legalization comes regulation. No state or federal government is just going to decriminalize or legalize prostitution without setting up very specific guide lines and especially taxes to get a piece of that profit.
If you have proper oversight of an establishment or service, like a website that facilitates freelance prostitutes, how are they going to have illegal, underage and possibly sex slaves working for them with government officials coming and checking them out all the time, checking their records and books and so on.
Not only that but most people would rather go to a legitimate business than an illegitimate business, so the demand would most likely go down for trafficking victims because why would anyone want to get wrapped up in that when there would be plenty of legal and legitimate businesses to choose from?
No. Sex workers are making a choice to be objectified and turn it around as something they can own and make money on, so I see no problem there.Do you not agree that the legalization and normalization of prostitution would encourage objectification?
It's not as simple as that. That's like saying strippers or porn stars are empowered because, well, they can make monye off their body in a legal and regulated environment. However, they're still at the mercy of men's desires. Strippers and porn actresses rarely get a say in what type of act or movie they can be in as it's not targeted for them or what they want.
Do you believe that objectification and commodification are equivalent? (I do not.)
Also, income levels don't really play much of a part- the rates would likely just be cheaper in Michigan.
No. Sex workers are making a choice to be objectified and turn it around as something they can own and make money on, so I see no problem there.
Everything in an open market-based capitalist economy is at the mercy of someone else's need or desire. The markets for catering to Men and Women's sexual desires aren't equivalent. This doesn't mean that then men are inherently wrong or "bad" for having them, or that the women are "wrong" for realizing that yes, there is inherent "value" in their appearance.It's not as simple as that. That's like saying strippers or porn stars are empowered because, well, they can make monye off their body in a legal and regulated environment. However, they're still at the mercy of men's desires. Strippers and porn actresses rarely get a say in what type of act or movie they can be in as it's not targeted for them or what they want.
Sure, but it's not like we can magically stop adults from having asshole point of views. But we can at least work at shunting those views in a less damaging direction. (See: the drop in rape rates.)In prostitution, they go hand in hand. Men who pay money for sex will almost certainly view sex as the same as buying a new TV or renting a car. They forget that the person they pay to have sex with is a person as much as them, and this belief may permeate the way the view sex and women in other contexts.
In prostitution, they go hand in hand. Men who pay money for sex will almost certainly view sex as the same as buying a new TV or renting a car. They forget that the person they pay to have sex with is a person as much as them, and this belief may permeate the way the view sex and women in other contexts.
But how many sex workers choose to do sex work?
I agree. People bring up the idea of Unionising too, but there's an interesting episode of (I think) The West Wing where a character suggests this, only to have the reply that women won't suddenly start being proud and open about being prostitutes just because they're legal, which makes organising unions (to exert political pressure etc) harder than in most industries. It's an interesting counter point.
they make bank though.
Again, this makes no sense. If prostitution isn't in the shadows, it makes it much harder for women to be trafficked, especially if there's regulation.
I feel like you don't understand what empowerment is. Sex work is a choice. A stripper or porn actress is making the choice to do what they do, how is that not empowering?
Everything in an open market-based capitalist economy is at the mercy of someone else's need or desire. The markets for catering to Men and Women's sexual desires aren't equivalent. This doesn't mean that then men are inherently wrong or "bad" for having them.
In Germany legalization has significantly increased competition and driven down the wages. You can get a very good looking young whore for peanuts as youth unemployment is high and people need food on the table. It is a buyers market, in the past you had to settle with older women unless you had money as in over 100 bucks but now the ones that have no life in their eyes (over 25 year olds) are willing to perform for a minimum wage.
I oppose legalization.
People already treat retail workers like trash though
The desire ALWAYS holds all the power.When you do something that "empowers" you, you really have a choice in most of it. When you're just Prostitute #18 on the road or Internet waiting for John and he has his pick of the litter, it's not empowering. You sure can refuse Johns and be safer but you're still just numbers and a vagina. The desire still holds all the power.
Regulation and laws is enough for the black market to continue like we see in the illegal reselling of legal guns, drugs, etc.
An illegitimate business can have illegitimate sex and keep your name out of the paper trail while being cheaper too
But I am all for decriminalization of sex work, however it probably will increase the black market as well (but I'm not basing this off any studies so take it with a grain of salt).
The desire ALWAYS holds all the power.
You can try to make a living creating and selling Betamax tapes. It's unlikely to be successful. Demand is king.
It's not as simple as that. That's like saying strippers or porn stars are empowered because, well, they can make monye off their body in a legal and regulated environment. However, they're still at the mercy of men's desires. Strippers and porn actresses rarely get a say in what type of act or movie they can be in as it's not targeted for them or what they want.
And? Sex work isn't retail. Repeated trips to the Gap don't change your interactions with people. Men who solicit prostitutes, especially if they have little to no experience with sex work, might develop unhealthy and intensely misogynistic ideas about sex.
Sure, but it's not like we can magically stop adults from having asshole point of views. But we can at least work at shunting those views in a less damaging direction. (See: the drop in rape rates.)
In general, I agree. But even the Netherlands has been shown to have a significant issue with trafficking and I have to think that, depending on the relative demand and women willing to fulfill that demand, there is a possibility that trafficking will increase in order to meet that demand, on top of the illegal market for sex that will still exist even in the presence of a legal one.
I mean, my personal belief is that legalization is a good thing. I'm just saying that it is a possibility.
Giving them the illusion of choice isn't really a choice. Ever met a camgirl? My friend used to be one. If she didn't do what they specified they moved on to the next. It doesn't matter if they can choose when they're still considered disgusting and disposable enough.
And? Sex work isn't retail. Repeated trips to the Gap don't change your interactions with people. Men who solicit prostitutes, especially if they have little to no experience with sex work, might develop unhealthy and intensely misogynistic ideas about sex.
However, there should be regulations in place to protect the persons. For instance, here in Germany we passed a law last week to outlaw "flatrate sex". That's literally what it means. Some establishments sell as much sex as visitors want with as many women as they want for a fixed price, and the forces of the market were pushing these prices down to inhuman levels. This needs to be prevented.
Eh, this just sounds like the same argument that sometimes pops up against pornography, and I'm pretty sure it has no merit.
Because you recognize that the sex worker can choose to do it, or not to do it, and that it's a mutual transaction. SWERFs believe that women are "prostituted" and can't "actually" give consent.Yes. So then how is it empowering?
No, that is not a standard definition of rape. It's a standard definition of rape by those who deny sex workers personal agency.We can't conclusively know that the legalization of sex work lowered rape rates. By many definitions, essentially all prostitutes are rape victims, as they usually don't want to have sex with their clients. Sex work is arguably rape by coercion, as prostitutes only consent to sex because of the promise of payment.
You're imposing your own sex negativity on this conversation. Nothing you said refutes that it's empowering, Any person at any job can be replaced, but she can still choose to do it or not do it. If we're just being anecdotal, then I know a few sex workers and they all enjoy their work and make good money from it.
We can't conclusively know that the legalization of sex work lowered rape rates. By many definitions, essentially all prostitutes are rape victims, as they usually don't want to have sex with their clients. Sex work is arguably rape by coercion, as prostitutes only consent to sex because of the promise of payment.
And? Sex work isn't retail. Repeated trips to the Gap don't change your interactions with people. Men who solicit prostitutes, especially if they have little to no experience with sex work, might develop unhealthy and intensely misogynistic ideas about sex.
Why? If we accept that prostitution is just another service that requires no education, and the market is flooded with service providers, then it should be the minimum wage if that's what the market dictates.
Do you know what's definitely not empowering: telling a person what she can and can't do with her body under coercive threat of imprisonment. That's patronizing as all hell. Not all strippers are empowered by their work, but certainly some are. In any case, having more career options is better than having fewer.
I don't choose most of the projects I work on at my own job, but because I have this job I have opportunities to excel and to thrill and impress people. And then I go home with a paycheck which empowers me to pursue my other interests.
I think it's implied that if it's legal, you have to still be mindful. No system is perfect, but it would be good to at least make it tougher for people to traffick women as sex workers.
You're imposing your own sex negativity on this conversation. Nothing you said refutes that it's empowering, Any person at any job can be replaced, but she can still choose to do it or not do it. If we're just being anecdotal, then I know a few sex workers and they all enjoy their work and make good money from it.
What you're essentially saying is that if someone does it, then it's their choice and it's empowering.
I'll post links later after work as GAF and a few other sites are the ones not blocked. To say in a legal manner it's empowering but in general? No. There's an illusion of empowerment. You can even Google it yourself--the porn and exotic dancing industry is full of it.
OR, going from zero to any experience with sex might demystify the whole thing, relieve some of the pressure to stop being a virgin, whatever: help people become better adjusted.
I'll post links later after work as GAF and a few other sites are the ones not blocked. To say in a legal manner it's empowering but in general? No. There's an illusion of empowerment. You can even Google it yourself--the porn and exotic dancing industry is full of it.
It can make things worse. I know guys who've given up on women because they know they can't pull girls as hot as the ones they pay to bang. It's mind-warping.
I'll post links later after work as GAF and a few other sites are the ones not blocked. To say in a legal manner it's empowering but in general? No. There's an illusion of empowerment. You can even Google it yourself--the porn and exotic dancing industry is full of it.