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can someone please just tell me where to blow this load
computers putin' said:Someone break it down to me, WHY is dancing so attractive to a female? I've heard most think there is some correlation between having rhythm and being good in bed and that's why, but I don't think thats the case. So someone 'splain it to me.
Ducky_McGee said:I went to the store the other day and this guy who was checking me out (at the counter) was really light hearted.
Before I left he told me to keep it gangster, and to stop snitching. Coming from a nerdy (but cute) very white guy. I found this to be endearing. He was obviously joking. This is a person I would talk to.
computers putin' said:Someone break it down to me, WHY is dancing so attractive to a female? I've heard most think there is some correlation between having rhythm and being good in bed and that's why, but I don't think thats the case. So someone 'splain it to me.
Prax said:Ha. That does sound adorable.
I like quirky/witty though.. but not a lot of people can pull it off right.
Some guys try and it's just.. ... sad. Calls for an "aaaaw".
Dancing and looking like you're enjoying yourself is pretty hot. Mega plus points for actually being able to dance. Super plus points if you are witty.
So women are birds. Got it.Prax said:You know in nature how some birds have to perform in a courtship dance to win a female over? Maybe it's ingrained from that. Shows you are healthy, can move your body parts right, are coordinated, and are confident.
cluto said:So women are birds. Got it.
The only time Robert Jordan got his female character right:Prax said:And.. dancing is generally fun. Dancing and looking like you're enjoying yourself is pretty hot. Mega plus points for actually being able to dance. Super plus points if you are witty.
Dance with her, and she will forgive much; dance well, and she will forgive anything.
I presume it's because most of the people who go to dance classes are either female, or have been brought there by a female. It's like finding a girl who plays video games.computers putin' said:Someone break it down to me, WHY is dancing so attractive to a female? I've heard most think there is some correlation between having rhythm and being good in bed and that's why, but I don't think thats the case. So someone 'splain it to me.
I like the cut of his jib. He sounds fun to flirt with.Ducky_McGee said:When he asked if I wanted a bag I said no. He said good, because he wasn't going to give me one anyway. He was flirting in his way, and it worked for him. I found him interesting and if I didn't have a boyfriend I probably would have flirted back some more and talked.
Get called "chicks" for a reason..? >_>cluto said:So women are birds. Got it.
Cock-a-doodle-dooPrax said:Get called "chicks" for a reason..? >_>
Dead Man said:The only time Robert Jordan got his female character right:
arglebargle said:i feel like the "advisors" in this thread should give some indication of their ages. if you are 19 you care about whether a guy can dance. if you are 28 you care if he is employable.
though i guess its fun to talk about flirting, so i guess you can go back to that vacuous conversation.
arglebargle said:i feel like the "advisors" in this thread should give some indication of their ages. if you are 19 you care about whether a guy can dance. if you are 28 you care if he is employable.
though i guess its fun to talk about flirting, so i guess you can go back to that vacuous conversation.
arglebargle said:i feel like the "advisors" in this thread should give some indication of their ages. if you are 19 you care about whether a guy can dance. if you are 28 you care if he is employable.
though i guess its fun to talk about flirting, so i guess you can go back to that vacuous conversation.
arglebargle said:i feel like the "advisors" in this thread should give some indication of their ages. if you are 19 you care about whether a guy can dance. if you are 28 you care if he is employable.
though i guess its fun to talk about flirting, so i guess you can go back to that vacuous conversation.
kisaya said:I'm 18 and I really don't care that much. Maybe it's cause I can't dance too but it would be nice to have a guy to teach me![]()
I have a friend named Joe Chin who is interested in that one chick you know, what's her name...Sunny? Be a bro and help him out.soultron said:Dancing is hella fun. I sometimes get self-conscious about how sweaty I get since I really go at it when I dance.
Professor Beef said:I'd like to learn how to dance, but I have no business being in a club/bar/etc since I don't drink or smoke or anything. Kind of an odd predicament.
Oddly enough, I have no qualms about busting out "Kiss By A Rose" if I get roped into karaoke.Thunder Monkey said:Dancing is the easy part.
Karaoke is what screws me.
I'll check that out, hopefully something comes out of it.shanshan310 said:You can go to a class. Or like, my university has a dancing club. They meet every wednesday and learn a dance and then just freestyle. You don't even need to be a student to join. Check out your local unis?
arglebargle said:that may have gotten a little creepy. i dont want 18 and 20 year olds identifying themselves to me. my point was that the dancing hegemony that had prevailed in this thread was silly. beyond that, saying "girls like..." anything is stupid because, believe it or not, females are individuals. guys do not like college football or video games or blondes. different girls look for different things, just like different strategies (dancing, being nerdishly cute, being an asshole) will work for different guys.
while we are putting our cards on the table, im 29 and engaged. before getting engaged, i did fine for myself, despite hardly ever dancing.
arglebargle said:that may have gotten a little creepy. i dont want 18 and 20 year olds identifying themselves to me. my point was that the dancing hegemony that had prevailed in this thread was silly. beyond that, saying "girls like..." anything is stupid because, believe it or not, females are individuals. guys do not like college football or video games or blondes. different girls look for different things, just like different strategies (dancing, being nerdishly cute, being an asshole) will work for different guys.
while we are putting our cards on the table, im 29 and engaged. before getting engaged, i did fine for myself, despite hardly ever dancing.
Prax said:I dunno where it was said that it was the only thing girls cared about, it's just a good and fun avenue for those willing to try.
Seems like most people asking are into more concrete advice or tips than vague "every girl is different, it depends" statements, even if it's true. That's why this thread was set up. So guys could ask ladyGAF questions and get some kind of concrete answer instead of wandering into the girl thread.
Still sounds like you are defensive about not being into dancing to me... xD
ToxicAdam said:Being willing/able to dance is just the first step, you still have to know how to close.
Take it from the guy who got dozens of numbers but very little pussy.
Myansie said:This is pretty much my situation. I always get the attention of the girls I like, my closing skills are where I fall down.
And their breasts feel like the finest bags of sand.i_am_ben said:just say they have pretty eyes.
bud said:man, all i know is the two-step.![]()
Thunder Monkey said:And their breasts feel like the finest bags of sand.
ashmountains said:Like what Ducky said, just go and start a casual conversation with her. Either introduce yourself straight-up or make some light-hearted quip about the class or subject first. Relax and have a normal conversation with her, the way you would when you're meeting a guy for the first time.
In a lot of my classes, I kinda wish more guys (or girls, or anybody) would approach me and start a conversation. It's a bit awkward when everybody is sitting silently and glancing at each other with a frightened expression on their faces. Just taaaaaalk, guys.
Ducky_McGee said:You're thinking of dinosaurs.
effingvic said:dancing is awesome. only thing i cant really dance to is house/electronica but i feel like thats more about just chilling out too