So in an attempt to stalk my gym crush I infiltrated the student pub tonight (not really infiltrated as I can go there anytime as an alumni and it's close to my apartment anyway). And as luck would have it he was there, but apparently tonight's theme was "gender bender" and seeing him in full drag pretty much cured me of my crush for now. Still, I got to talk to him a little bit, and a bit more with his friend. I tried approaching the subject sexuality but didn't really get a clear satisfactory answer but maybe approaching them in the gym will be a bit less awkward now. Or maybe more awkward depending on how I feel about it when I sober up...