Of course! But only much more appetising.
Well, even if it didn't start out that way, as long as that's the reason you're doing it now. It is important to know when to stop and when it's time to focus on muscle building instead of solely weight loss but you're clearly doing your research and it's paid off brilliantly.
Oh definitely. I'd crush Chris Redfield any day.... wish he was real
To be honest I have literally zero idea what the hell I am doing now. Like when I started, I did it in hopes my ex would find me attractive again(i think this is what I struggle with now and what kills me the most still) and we could somehow fix our broken state but its a long story. Now, I do it for myself, to prove myself that I can be more than I ever thought possible. This is my journey alone.
As for trial and error, when I say I have no idea what I'm doing, thats the absolute truth. I have no clue about weights. There was talks my ex would have visited last summer to teach me somethings at the gym in weights because honestly, I want to be taught the proper way, verses doing it the wrong way and hurting myself badly. I have my brother who goes to the gym once every five months and when he does go, he thinks he is mr bodybuilder 2017.
For now I am strictly doing weightloss, but eventually I am going to dabble and research weights because I do want to aim at other areas, it's just hard when you are trying to educate yourself, and you have no help or perspective. I want to do it right, verses hurting myself or doing actual damage.
ROFL,, I was having a pretty nice conversation with someone on one of those damn apps and we had shown pics of each other and he said he liked me, then we kept going with our nice talk and then he interjected saying that he thought my hair was too long for his liking, he likes guys with well-groomed short hair and being with guys with longer hair makes him think he is with a woman,
I basically politely told him to fuck off, seriously, what an idiot hung up on a small detail like that, I can always get a fuckin' haircut, he can't fix that shitty attitude.
Bolded for truth. Yes, you could get a haircut but thats your choice if you wanted to. He is an asshole, and you can't change being an asshole.
From preference, I like short haired guys, but I will talk and give anyone a chance. Like really, dude is a dick and you deserve better.
That's some amazing progress Gibbs! I can't believe some of your family members were being so unsupportive about it. :/
I finally told my parents that I'm bi. I kept meaning to tell them earlier, but I always kept forgetting or the timing didn't feel right. 😂
As expected, they were supportive of me. I'm not really sure why I made it a bigger deal than it was, but I did. It does little to change my situation, but at least it's out there now.
Proud of you for telling them! HUGS to you! =)
That's the most important thing. However, that's the hardest thing to achieve. It takes serious determination and work, and the worst thing is that there's no universal recipe for that :/
You're absolutely right. I've gone from hating myself, wanting to die, not caring about anything. Now some of those viewpoints have changed, but I'm still not thrilled with myself, but thats a battle. I just hope one day I hope I will be worth someones time because honestly, I don't think I am.
