I always said I'd never marry, even with a girlfriend of 10 years but I'd told her at the start.
She dumped me, haha. Oh well. She didn't get shit. Things were to be shared not stolen in divorce. SOURCE: well us and my parents. Divorce is extremely messy. It's awful stress.
Marriage for most girls is incredible important. So important they will ditch u for it no matter how long u been with them. It's basically there main goal of completing there dating life and starting a family with kids and if a guy doesn't want to marry they see him as a kid and broken.
I had this buddy he met his girlfriend when he was 17 years old, he was now 33 or something she was the same age. He always told me and my buddy's about how he would never marry as its a outdated concept fucks guys over etc etc. Sadly for him its not the guy that decides to marry its the girl at the end.
She really wanted to get married and basically at one point put like a time limit forwards as he didn't started to get the hint through the years, she basically told him if she wasn't engaged in that year ( 3 months left at that point ) she would search somebody else. He basically shrugged it off and laughed about it and even made jokes about it, he didn't do it because yea his ego.
Year passed, she left and went to her moms. Then he told me she did it once or twice before in there relationship when she got pissed she will come back after a couple of weeks. 2 months passed, he gets a message from his girlfriend that basically told him, she moved on from there relationship if he could remove her family and friends as contracts, got a new boyfriend was engaged and pregnant and that she was happy for him that he moved on that fast and hoped he would find the real love of his life.
Instant depression. All his friends from her side, and family he knew for years they where all basically gone at a blink of a eye. He had no clue what to do without her. Called up her mother and she basically told him its your own fault u got warned multiple times and she gave u A LOT of time far more then i would do and hang up.
It was pretty brutal to see.