Man sends woman 28 angry Tinder messages after she cancels their first date

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So is she on birth control, feel we are missing the key answer here.

He should have asked again

Why did he ask that. Did they plan to have sex before that or was he fishing for sex at the point of asking
 
Oh my god, men are so creepy, lets all chop off our own penises right?

Poor showing from the doctor, but cringing at the knee jerk extrapolation occurring here. I get that guys acting creepy is the stereotype. Sometimes we should question if reinforcing the stereotype from either direction is a good thing or not.

#NotAllMen
 
Because he's a creep?
Some people talk and do things together.

If they had just agreed yeah we are gonna bang all night and she is like oh yeah can't wait and then he asked the question t. It would still be bad but not as bad.

His later messages showed he was desperate and strange.

And if they had not talked sex at all it would make his question really bad and stupid. Would be good to see how the conversation was before though.
 
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Some people talk and do things together.

If they had just agreed yeah we are gonna bang all night and she is like oh yeah can't wait and then he asked the question t. It would still be bad but not as bad.

His later messages showed he was desperate and strange.

And if they had not talked sex at all it would make his question really bad and stupid. Would be good to see how the conversation was before though.

If they had agreed to have sex, then why would she be immediately creeped out and cancelled the date when he asked about birth control?

Probably because it's very likely they never talked about it; he assumed that he was going to get laid. As is, unfortunately, very common.
 
She didn't Dodge a bullet, she dodged a nuclear bomb. From the guy having no social awareness, to then badgering, then insulting her and continuing to contact her because of the rejection. Wow and that doctor line about his brain. I guess I shouldn't be surprised. Ben Carson is a doctor too. How do some people even live their day to day life? And dumb idiots like this only ruin it for the rest of us that actually are normal.
 
Strange. According to my experience implying that you will have bareback sex with a woman, insulting her, and then begging is guaranteed to make her want to date you.
 
Ah, yes, the "trick" where you say a bad thing and then try to pass it off as a "joke" when the reaction is negative.

That's not how a joke works, but doing this has the uncanny ability to make you a joke.

Which gaffer is it?
Everyone keep an eye out for the thread with the title, "GAF, this girl didn't like my joke and stopped talking to me."
 
Some people talk and do things together.

If they had just agreed yeah we are gonna bang all night and she is like oh yeah can't wait and then he asked the question t. It would still be bad but not as bad.

His later messages showed he was desperate and strange.

And if they had not talked sex at all it would make his question really bad and stupid. Would be good to see how the conversation was before though.

Holy shit dude, really?
 
Ah, yes, the "trick" where you say a bad thing and then try to pass it off as a "joke" when the reaction is negative.

That's not how a joke works, but doing this has the uncanny ability to make you a joke.


Everyone keep an eye out for the thread with the title, "GAF, this girl didn't like my joke and stopped talking to me."

"Do you like anal"

*eagerly waits for a reply*

*gets negative reaction*

"Oh shit. I meant to write, Do you like analog keyboards? But I accidentally sent it too fast. Lol sorry."
 
"Do you like anal"

*eagerly waits for a reply*

*gets negative reaction*

"Oh shit. I meant to write, Do you like analog keyboards? But I accidentally sent it too fast. Lol sorry."

*10 seconds later"


"that was actually my friend that stole my phone, i'm sorry"
 
Guy gets a chance, says stupid joke, gets rejected and burns his chance, meltdown follows. I'd say its pretty normal, maybe the doctor quote and the mother's death was too much but the rest is ok if you see it as a denied chance with no explanation accepted .

That is assuming that he told that thing as a joke, on the other case she was lucky lol.
 
Guy gets a chance, says stupid joke, gets rejected and burns his chance, meltdown follows. I'd say its pretty normal, maybe the doctor quote and the mother's death was too much but the rest is ok if you see it as a denied chance with no explanation accepted .

That is assuming that he told that thing as a joke, on the other case she was lucky lol.

The majority of that is not normal. Dude could've just stopped after calling her uptight for not getting his 'joke' and bragging about his monies. At that point, he would've had the last word if snark was required for his fragile sensibilities to cope with rejection. Instead, the dude went on like a crazy desperate loser.
 
Guy gets a chance, says stupid joke, gets rejected and burns his chance, meltdown follows. I'd say its pretty normal, maybe the doctor quote and the mother's death was too much but the rest is ok if you see it as a denied chance with no explanation accepted .

That is assuming that he told that thing as a joke, on the other case she was lucky lol.

Lol no. The way he handled that was anything but normal.
 
I don't get why some guys reduce themselves to this. How hard up was he?

I've had women suddenly loose interest before, it's part of the dating game. You just get back on Tinder or wherever and find a new match. Ideally you'll be chatting to multiple women at once.

Maybe if he was the ugliest guy ever and only ever had the one match in like a year I could see why he's so desperate....but in a lot of situations like these the guys aren't THAT undateable looking. Guess his personality has probably scared a good few off.
 
Hey I just met you, and this is crazy, we send a few texts, but birth control maybe?

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Guy gets a chance, says stupid joke, gets rejected and burns his chance, meltdown follows. I'd say its pretty normal, maybe the doctor quote and the mother's death was too much but the rest is ok if you see it as a denied chance with no explanation accepted .

That is assuming that he told that thing as a joke, on the other case she was lucky lol.

Normal for a 13 year old who has never dated before and thinks the world is imploding because he isn't going to have sex.

Most people understand that if someone rejects you, it sucks but you move the fuck on. Maybe you get angry and tell them to go fuck themselves if you are having a bad day or something. But you don't bombard a relative stranger with non stop insanity.



And yes, women do this too. I have been deluged with angry insane text melt downs before, including one from a girl who spent a year crafting some ridiculous plot to embarrass me in front of her friends as revenge for rejecting her.
The difference is, a crazy obsessive aggressive man is far scarier to a women than a crazy obsessive aggressive women is to a man. For good reason.
 
Man people can get so weird over the internet. I met several "normal" people that turn into creeps somehow vwhen communicating to girls via the internet.
 
Strange. According to my experience implying that you will have bareback sex with a woman, insulting her, and then begging is guaranteed to make her want to date you.

True words. If there's something every woman enjoys, it's a complete stranger begging for sex.
 
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