Man sends woman 28 angry Tinder messages after she cancels their first date

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You have my sword.



I've done it in 2. See you Wednesday, OK?



Money can't buy you out of desperation, apparently.

That kind of money actually can get you almost unlimited dates, provided you have even average social skills. Just don't say anything too stupid, and women will happily let you take them to places and experiences other guys can't afford.

Some guys can't even get that right.

This has to be fake.

Surely, the woman would have stopped responding long before that.

I sent this article to a few friends (like I mentioned earlier on the thread), and got screenshots of equally creepy message chains.
 
Do I want to chill on a yacht, or do I want to not end up hacked into a million pieces?




Decisions, decisions...

You joke, but I know girls who went on boat dates with guys they'd never consider sleeping with, just because the guys were relatively normal and it was a fun thing to do in the summer.

Being able to do fun things makes you more interesting, but it doesn't necessarily make you more desirable unless you're specifically looking for a gold digger. Unfortunately, some guys treat dating like a transaction where they think inserting X amount of money + effort = automatic consideration for sex.
 
Having spoken with a few women who have used dating sites (not to mention me and my girlfriend met on one), it's staggering how many messages they receive from guys who just have no fucking clue how to talk to women.

Whether it be outright vulgar comments, or even just guys who contact women with nothing more to say than commenting on the woman's appearance.

Even putting aside how slimy some of these people are, it's amazing how many guys seem to be that dense. How can so many people think that's going to result in any kind of success?

Apparently it's not as prevalent on sites that are exclusively subscription-based. Guys who are paying to use a dating site are far more likely to put in some actual effort and not be cunts.
 
Damn. Bullet fucking dodged huh?

Edit Of course there are people in here trying to justify his thought process and throwing "bu but wimmin do it too" whataboutisms. At least GAF is consistent. :D
 
idk when tinder chicks cancel on me i just unmatch them and delete their number. Seems like it takes alot of effort to rage at somebody you barely know.
 
"You suck. You're an idiot, fuck you, you're a bitch. just go die already"

"dont cancel. please call me"
 
Just one of those things that makes you relieved to be a straight white guy on the internet.

Seriously if multiple, normal women have been driven off GAF due to abuse I can't imagine what it's like elsewhere.
 
I see a lot of posts and sentiment along the lines of "ugh, guys like this make the rest of us men look bad."

No. Stop that.

Only you can make YOU look bad. What some other dude does, good or bad, doesn't affect how I present myself to the world.
 
Ugh. I was this cringeworthy once. Ruined a perfectly good friendship because of that cringe and it changed me for the better. I hope this guy learns his lesson and actually becomes a better person too, rather than pretend to be a better person.
 
"My mom recently died ok". Yikes.

pure sociopathy flying about

Ugh. I was this cringeworthy once. Ruined a perfectly good friendship because of that cringe and it changed me for the better. I hope this guy learns his lesson and actually becomes a better person too, rather than pretend to be a better person.

Nice to read. It's very easy to be like that. It takes work not to be like that, tbh.
 
This fucking guy...

"Aw cool, you decided to be a psycho, that actually works out for me because this way I can go to work and make 900 BUCKS huhuhuhuhuhuh"

*please call*
 
"I actually had you double booked with another girl."

Why would you ever say something like this? What did he think the payoff was gonna be?
 
"I actually had you double booked with another girl."

Why would you ever say something like this? What did he think the payoff was gonna be?

Payoff was obviously her calling him back and saying "I'm sorry ok, don't go with that girl. Let's do that date and fuck tonight. I want to be YOUR psycho. I like when you rages like that, turns me on".

In his mind at least.
 
Maybe it's a California thing but I've refereed to every chick I've dated as dude or man.


"Hey man what's up"

"Dude let's go get a drink".

I guess it's weird?

In these positions it doesn't really sound like you're using the nouns 'man' or 'dude' to refer to her. You're using them as pragmatic markers, more like "hey let's go get a drink" or "yo let's go get a drink". A pragmatic marker is a word which doesn't specifically refer to a thing, it doesn't have meaning, it's like a pure bit of grammar, a minor exclamation. In Singapore English they use the pragmatic markers 'la' all the time, like "la, let's go get a drink" or "hey la, what do you want to do wa?"

I can imagine there are plenty of times you do actually say dude in a reference position though B)
 
My brain thinks at a much higher level

that must be why he fucks up this bad
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You know what you call the person that finishes last in med. school?

Doctor.

Education has no bearing on emotional intelligence.
 
You know, he is a doctor. Maybe he was just asking her about birth control for important health reasons so he could give her tips!
 
Truth be told, a person's level of intellect cannot be judged through personal text messages. Text messaging is for convenience.

True. But would a doctor say: "My brain thinks on a much higher level". I somehow seriously doubt that..
 
True. But would a doctor say: "My brain thinks on a much higher level". I somehow seriously doubt that..

When a personal is emotional or "excited," it can make them say silly things. Also, tons of doctors exhibit something called God Complex.

And yes, there are people that think on a higher level than others. I have some friends that are hyper intelligent (not just book smart).
 
When a personal is emotional or "excited," it can make them say silly things. Also, tons of doctors exhibit something called God Complex.

Oh I know. They can be arrogant pricks. But somehow the construct of the sentence makes me doubt him. It could be because I am not a native English speaker though.
I'd expect a doctor to either say: I think on a higher level than you, or my brain works on a higher level than you. In Dutch a doctor would probably not often say 'the brain thinks'.
 
Oh I know. They can be arrogant pricks. But somehow the construct of the sentence makes me doubt him. It could be because I am not a native English speaker though.
I'd expect a doctor to either say: I think on a higher level than you, or my brain works on a higher level than you. In Dutch a doctor would probably not often say 'the brain thinks'.

I understand; I'm also not a native English speaker. The crux of my argument was that a person's intellect cannot be fully ascertained based on a few text messages.

We can say the man has zero social skills and zero knowledge on how to communicate with women. Beyond that, nothing else can be said (not enough evidence for a full psych report).
 
That will show her from canceling next time over a joke!

I always ask how many rubbers I should bring before a date. Its better to be prepared for anything.
 
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