figadapaura
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How on earth did he possibly think she would respond? Guy needs help.
The fact that this guy even got a date makes me feel absolutely terrible lol.
I see a lot of posts and sentiment along the lines of "ugh, guys like this make the rest of us men look bad."
No. Stop that.
Only you can make YOU look bad. What some other dude does, good or bad, doesn't affect how I present myself to the world.
Where not all crazed psychos and rapistMen scare the shit out of me.
Go to 5:13 of this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JCLi6vSIuPE
This is actually much worse. It's also worth it to watch the entire thing because it's amazing.
A few bad apples can change the way women view the whole dating pool, so yes, they do make us look bad.
Doesn't matter what you subscribe to because you're objectively wrong. Yes you can present yourself as you choose. No you can not control the preconceptions and past experiences of other people which will directly affect their perception of others, including you.I don't subscribe to that line of thinking.
I don't subscribe to that line of thinking.
I see a lot of posts and sentiment along the lines of "ugh, guys like this make the rest of us men look bad."
No. Stop that.
Only you can make YOU look bad. What some other dude does, good or bad, doesn't affect how I present myself to the world.
Well said.
Dudes is like guys, can be used for both.Why does he keep calling her a dude?
I don't think that's what he's getting at. Of course past experiences will mirror your view of a gender. But you should not be worried about your gender's PR image. You should be more worried about how you present yourself.Doesn't matter what you subscribe to because you're objectively wrong. Yes you can present yourself as you choose. No you can not control the preconceptions and past experiences of other people which will directly affect their perception of others, including you.
That's your image of real life people? Sure, people are generally less open about their opinion in real life if they don't know you, but boy, a lot of people have a tiny threshold to burying you with their deviant opinions that are also expressed online.It's weird how in real life most everyone I meet seems pretty normal and pleasant but then you go online and realise there are a shit load of strange and unstable assholes out there.
It's weird how in real life most everyone I meet seems pretty normal and pleasant but then you go online and realise there are a shit load of strange and unstable assholes out there.
That's your image of real life people? Sure, people are generally less open about their opinion in real life if they don't know you, but boy, a lot of people have a tiny threshold to burying you with their deviant opinions that are also expressed online.
He must have been scrambling through that PUA guidebook, line by lineIt's hilarious to see how fast he goes through different tactics to make her change her mind.
I don't think that's what he's getting at. Of course past experiences will mirror your view of a gender. But you should not be worried about your gender's PR image. You should be more worried about how you present yourself.
Why does he keep calling her a dude?
I don't understand why he keeps calling her dude.
Why would you call a woman a dude?
Why does he keep calling her a dude?
Why does he keep calling her a dude?
He was out of his element
Who uses their mom's (hypothetical) death to get a date?
It may not affect how you present yourself, but it will definitely affect the men and women (mostly women) that meet you.
Men continue to make getting a date harder for men.
This is how gamergaters function.
I was talking about this episode today...
He must have been scrambling through that PUA guidebook, line by line
The best part was when he said all that stuff to show her how annoying some men could be and he wasn't like that...
Oh yeah, in the "here's what not to do" way!being conscious of how women are generally treated by men is sensible and helpful to guys, especially if they're looking for a date