Sure. There's a difference. I ain't going to the store one time though am I?
I go to my wife's folks house with my wife. Her brother and his wife are there too. Six people.
We have dinner and we go home. Nobody had symptoms. Everyone washes hands frequently.
I go to the store, different stores, maybe 100 of times during the past 9 months. Encountering who knows how many people.
Some without masks. Some with. Some kind of half wearing the masks.
I have no idea how careful or sensible these folk are being.
I breath the air. I touch stuff that 100s of others have touched. Did they wash their hands? I dunno.
I'm not sacrificing shit. We talk about the risks and we make a plan and we decide to take responsibility for our own actions.
The problem here is that small family gatherings have been politicized and going to a supermarket hasn't.
Same as certain protests. There was none of this "if you attended one of these protests you are dangerous now". FFS doctors were out applauding the protestors. You had a dinner with family... oh now that is just... HOW COULD YOU!
If people can go out and protest in their thousands night after night and nobody is going to lecture them about that then there's no way I am going to accept this kind of preaching when I decide to do my own thing.
I didn't have a fun thanksgiving with friends and family. We had a peaceful protest. So I guess we're all good.