SInce the election there has been a significant outcry by many people, including friends of mine, about the fact the Conservatives have a majority. Some of this has taken an extremely aggressive and accusatory tone towards Conservative voters, which has caused a significant backlash from other people who are (for obvious reasons) happier with the result.
As a result, without getting into party ideology, accusing people of hating the disabled, and so on, I'd like to just explain some of the reasons why the election result caused such an emotional reaction for me personally, followed by my thoughts on other people's responses.
1) The surprise factor. If the polls had represented the true thoughts of the British people, then the probability of a Conservative government would have been apparent a lot sooner. As it happened, myself (and many others) had spent most of the last few weeks and election day itself somewhat optimistic about late polling data suggesting that Labour and the Conservatives were level. This made both the exit poll and the actual result a metaphorical punch in the gut.
2) No chance of electoral reform. While I was somewhat apprehensive about the possibility of a deal between Labour and the SNP, it did seem to herald some sort of backlash against the first-past-the-post system, which provides strong but not necessarily proportional government. This is why your feed is currently full of people contrasting the vote share of the SNP and UKIP (a very dodgy comparison, incidentally, and one I wish people would stop making, since it contributes to the narrative that the SNP are not legitimate participants - a better one would be Labour vs Conservative seat/vote share). A Conservative majority means absolutely no reason to change it.
3) Negative campaigning. The tabloid press (that includes the Mail and the Express, they will never be broadsheets) have plumbed new depths in their campaigns this year, backed up by Lynton Crosby's thoroughly pessimistic electoral strategy, which predominantly relied upon perpetuating half-truths about Labour and the coalition's record while terrifying people about the SNP. It may be somewhat sentimental of me but it hurts to see such things vindicated and it bodes poorly for the EU referendum, let alone the next election.
4) Fixed term parliaments. In spite of the fact it was little more than a symbolic gesture when it was first introduced, the Fixed Term Parliament Act does mean that the new government will, barring a vote of no confidence against itself, probably last a full five years. Without wishing to demean the democratic process, five years is a very long period of time to imagine and it does make it easy to despair about the possibility of change.
5) The magnitude of the rebuild. It bears repeating that the scale of the defeat - for both Labour and the Liberal Democrats - is huge, so huge that it is quite possible the rebuild they have to make to engage with voters again will not be achieved in time for the next election. Change, as we all know, is difficult, while despair and apathy are extremely tempting viewpoints - this is why Russell Brand has at least been able to engage with people, and it's certainly one reason why people are tempted into abandoning the democratic process.
There's more among the little points, like the giveaways the Conservatives already plan not to keep since they planned on bargaining them away in a coalition, but protesting about the ideology on which they were elected is not really fair. I think the point that Labour, the Greens, and the Lib Dems all failed to present their own positive vision in response is a fair one.
I believe that the majority of people who have attacked Conservative voters, rather than the party, have only done so because they were so emotionally engaged in, and surprised by, the result. It doesn't make it acceptable, let alone good. If there is anything the Left need to do after this election it is to avoid smug, negative responses attacking people who engaged with the democratic process in a way we dislike. Not least because it's one of the reasons they failed to capture voters, but also because it's one of the problems I have with the right-wing press, I don't need the Mirror and the Guardian doing it as well.
Equally, however, I feel that there are very valid reasons why people are upset that go beyond simple ideological differences. If you've made it this far, thanks for reading. Sorry for the ramble.