I decided not to take that Amazon job, BTW. If anyone cares. The money was OK, more than I earn now, but not enough to live in or outside of Seattle in my opinion without having an impact on my quality of life.
My partner also wasn't down. She put on a brave face and was supportive, but after more discussion it was clear to me that she really didn't want to move to the Pacific Northwest so I respected that.
The headhunter at Amazon recruiting me didn't seem to care. Guessing they had a lot of candidates lined up after me.