What? I don't even understand this one. Who the hell cares about who your massage therapist is? Don't you lay on your chest the whole time?
Just don't understand this. I mean I 'get' men not wanting to because they are homophobic or something, but still. Can someone explain?
You understand why a man might feel homophobic, but can't imagine a women feeling afraid of being mostly naked and left alone in a room with a strange man?
Both involve the recipient to relax in the presents of the worker. It is simple easier for most to relax in the presents of the women because people have been conditioned from an early age that women's touch is not sexual, outside of sex.
For the majority, it is women who change their diapers and cloths. It is women who bathe them and see them naked without advances.
Nurses who spend the most time with patients (touching and seeing patients naked), until recently, In school, it is women who teach and care for kids, except for those teachers who double as coaches. were women.
Stranger danger is looking out for strange men in vans and uncle Bob.
Little girls are taught they they are prey at an early age. Never be caught alone with a man otherwise what happens is your fault.
It is wrong but society and men themselves reinforce he idea that men are not care givers- those are women's jobs. Men are bread winners, women take care children.
Teaching is a women's job. Men work "real, important jobs".
This is part of the patriarchy. It sucks, but there is little that can be done about it until men join women in breaking it. Because most men benefit from the patriarchy, it likely won't happen.