Ehh no, let's not go redefine the word based on your feelings, it's why so many people use it wrong (and get others in trouble for nothing); friend of mine said he felt like a pedo because he made out with a girl 9 years younger than him, she was 20....pedo means pre-pubescent (so the complete absence of secondary sexual characteristics) and philia means preference, and not in the sense that you prefer burgers over pizza and still like pizza, but like a sexual preference, so you only like burgers.
It's a very clear defined attraction scientifically, and it's also what every law around the world uses to determine if something was an 'act of pedophilia', not whatever headcanon you just came up with.