Marleyman said:
News flash, this situation came AFTER college. Also, by not going to college how do you get that cushy job you really want to get?
Then if it came after they should be smart enough to decide if having a kid, buying an expensive car, or whatever is the smart decision to make when sitting on that kind of debt. For instance I did not think it was a good idea to go buy a house when I had those loans payments and that kind of salary so I waited until I was making over $70,000 and married to buy a house. As for jobs there are a lot of trades out there that make decent money without the debt of college.
Marleyman said:
It is shoved down our throats that college is the way to go to get a high paying job and live the American dream; has been for years now.
So that absolves people of any kind of decision making using common sense? Also it is not like school is a not go or pay 30 grand a year kind of affair, there are a lot of cheaper options if people want to go that route.
Marleyman said:
You assume? How old are you? I don't know about anyone else, but most successful 30 somethings I know have a newer car and they are also in cc debt. Don't act as if having CC debt and new car equate to not being able to make sound financial decisions.
If it causes you to not afford your student loans that is the exact definition of bad financial decisions! As for my age I am 28, but that should have no impact on this discussion.
Marleyman said:
My point is that you are hyping your situation up without taking into account what others are going through.
Apparently I need to give up all self responsibility, make bad decisions, get in financial trouble, and then finally understand the plight of that woman in the photo.