Heh, every game is really nothing but grinding. It just depends on what you find entertaining! Anyway, I'm completely new to EVE, but the only real "grind" I can see is making money, and I find that aspect of the game to be particularly interesting. For now, the solo stuff is keeping me occupied, but after playing other online games and MMOs, I know that getting in with a good group of people to complete a goal is the best way to enjoy the experience. For that reason, I'm hoping that the GAF Corp can go places.
Define "point". I mean, it's an MMO. The only point is to experience the game and interact with the community. The goals that would be clearly defined in other games are now simply: "What level do you want to take that experience and interaction to, and how do you want to go about that?"
For me, the main thing that interests me in the game is PvP. Yes, I know it'll be expensive, but I'm willing to deal with that because I think it'll be enjoyable. And the expensive part of it is what adds to it all, anyway. Real consequences for getting into a fight with someone.