I normally never go to page 2 of google results. Thanks for the links. Once I'm at my computer, I'll try that loophole & see if it works. I've tried searching her name before in my friends list & nothing pops up (while it's deactivated).
I read that article you linked me to. What it's (you're) saying is that she is ghosting herself for weeks, then un-ghosting herself for a few days to basically 'check up' or 'spy' on my FB page (assuming it even has to do with me)? Interesting article.
I'm not sure I follow. What you're saying is that I'm being called an asshole because I'm having a hard time moving on? I never said my situation is unique at all. If any of you felt similarly, then why is it so difficult to understand why I'm having trouble letting go of certain things?
I mean that was on the first page of the google search. I didn't even go to page two.
I honestly didn't read the article, I just thought the title was interesting enough to link
She could be doing that, she could not, who knows.
It's not that you're having a hard time moving on, it's that you're being so unreasonably stubborn about little things. Why do you keep arguing that because you're not 'looking at it', that her page isn't worth blocking? It's just something everyone recommends doing because it makes it easier to move on. It's not a magical solution, no, but it's a another avenue that's closed off in your mind. Letting go is hard, yes, but you appear to be making a distinct effort to *not* let go. Sure, you're making some steps, like seeing other women (which quite frankly you shouldn't be doing in this state of mind) and seeing a therapist (which should be stressed isn't a magical answer either), but you're not taking the most basic steps in simply moving on. You say that just seeing a picture of her sends you into a depressive spiral, but yet you don't block her on FB. You makes excuses and excuses over and over until today, which you conveniently find that her account's deactivated again, to you respond "Welp, nothing I can do now!" until I took the two minutes to idly browse Google for a solution. The screencap you took was literally from the first result on Google. It makes it seem, to me, that you're unwilling to put the effort into trying to move on because you don't want to.
This attitude is frustrating to deal with on a place on the Internet where we're trying to help and give advice, hence the hostilities. It must be ever more so in real life, where you're dating new women. You know that other human beings can pick up on emotions and all, I assume. You give off an extremely negative, stubborn vibe that'll scare any well-adjusted individual away. You're essentially sabotaging yourself by refusing to take the little steps towards letting go, and just assuming talking to the therapist and trying to wrangle another lady in will make it magically go away.
Again, you can deny any of this all you like, and not listen to any advice and continue as is, but at the same time you shouldn't expect any more advice on this matter if you do so, and if something goes wrong like "Oh, she reactivated her FB and messeged me how I was and now I'm horribly depressed even though I got a new bae" you won't get an answer from us other than "told you so, bro". Again, most of us speak from experience, and we're not trying to ruin your life or cause you difficulties, we're trying to help you move on. If you look back at the beginning of this whole shindig, I'm sure you'll notice no one in particular was rude to you (other than maybe the occasional drive-by) until you kept repeating yourself and making excuses and making you depressed.
And tell your fucking cousin to shut the fuck up about your ex. How the everloving hell does she thinks that helps? Stupid.
