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Jpop
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Tinder in NYC is something, it's almost to the point where you get too many likes.
Why does that tinder thread has 46 pages? What are they even talking about there?
I check in from time to time but I still don't know.
Just got a tinder match and even a message, but now she gone
No way to see the message, right? I don't even get excited anymore tho, which is good.
Just got a tinder match and even a message, but now she gone
No way to see the message, right? I don't even get excited anymore tho, which is good.
I check in from time to time but I still don't know.
People who use a dating app that is 100% based around looks are upset that their looks aren't up to snuff.
Likely a bot. They often delete the match if you don't respond in a set timeframe for some reason.
Her family was out of town, and she repeatedly mentioned this throughout the evening. I don't know about you all, but I took this as a signal that she may have wanted sex.
She started off the night leaning up against me, but I noticed she distanced herself as it went on.
Yes, she did.
She probably had the idea of sex in her head but as the night progressed figured it wasn't happening so kind of gave up on it. You said you made out then went back to games, that transition would probably kill the mood.
He had to show her how far gaming had come since Super Mario World. A precursor to any sex.
Why does that tinder thread has 46 pages? What are they even talking about there?
Technically she made that transition so maybe she just wasn't feeling it after the first make out session.
Anyway, feeling like shit right now.
I know, but I dig her a lot and my social anxiety and awkwardness has ruined so much shit in my life already that adding this to it just brings it all back at once.Nah, you shouldn't feel like shit. You potentially have Thursday and if she bails then you can try dating elsewhere while she's away.
The day after might be too soon. Maybe tomorrow? That's 3 days in advance.
He should have watched The Phantom Menace instead
Ya, you can do it tomorrow. Don't want to wait too long or she might make other plans.
That's how accidental pregnancies happen.
A couple of questions.
1) For Coffee Meets Bagel, under "I like", should I put "A woman who is looking for a long-term committed relationship." That is what I want, but I am unsure if it is bad to put that there and might turn people off. Thoughts? Should I rephrase?
2) I need to get some nice profile pics, but recently moved to an area where I don't have any friends that I could ask this and not be awkward. Any tips of how I could still gets those types of pics? Or if not just any general tips on effective profile pics? I guess I would want a close-up and a whole body shot b/c I am 6'3''.
Anybody here from the Philly area...just curious?
Why would you put that you like "A woman who is looking for a long-term committed relationship."? It is so boring, also getting way ahead of yourself. Mention a couple of cool hobbies.
Ask someone? Say you promised a friend you needed a picture in front of famous building x or it is part of an in joke if you need an excuse to ask a stranger (although you should get pics with friends too!)
The specific section on CMB is "I appreciate when my date…". But your point is well taken.
A couple of questions.
1) For Coffee Meets Bagel, under "I like", should I put "A woman who is looking for a long-term committed relationship." That is what I want, but I am unsure if it is bad to put that there and might turn people off. Thoughts? Should I rephrase?
Actually I can meet you tomorrow at the movie! It turns out we aren't doing anything! And I'm very glad you like being big spoon! But I can fulfill your fantasy of being big spoon so you can be cuddled nice and gently. ❤️
Omg you're very handsome!
Just once it would be nice for a girl to write first. Just once...
Anyway, do women actually really look for a special introduction? I find it fucked up that the man is supposed to write first and come up with a clever ice breaker. You'd think we're both working towards the same goal.
Just once it would be nice for a girl to write first. Just once...
Anyway, do women actually really look for a special introduction? I find it fucked up that the man is supposed to write first and come up with a clever ice breaker. You'd think we're both working towards the same goal.
I really need to hit that super like more, I'm having quite the success atm.
@Jpop definitely want to hear how this goes.
@Jpop definitely want to hear how this goes.
Sorry I was getting ready. I'm seeing a show tonight! It's totally fine. I'll be a little busy tonight too. Hmm... Idk I guess I would say I like my over
all body since I work out. How about you? And what's your favorite clothing brand?
Today at 4:52 PM
me
You definitely have an amazing body, I agree with your choice haha.
Mmm.... My hair and my smile. I think I'm pretty good looking too.
Today at 4:55 PM
me
I don't really have a favorite clothing brand but there was this shirt I really loved, and it was a Matix brand.
Today at 4:57 PM
me
What are your thoughts on cuddling?
Today at 5:00 PM
Yes, yes you are. You're very very handsome! I'm really looking forward to meeting you in person! We for sure will! �� I have never heard of matix before but if you like it I'm sure it's great! I love cuddling. That's the best part of a relationship! How about you?
lol anyone who expects you to be super clever right off the bat is probably not someone I'd be interested in. a simple opener works best. I get some shit for it here, but I really do just open with "hey" and complimenting their pictures or noticing something about them. Others use gifs on tinder and while that's not really my style I could see how that'd work.
And if a girl isn't putting any effort into the convo on her end, I usually lose interest.
Since girls get many more likes than men why do they even bother matching if they won't speak lol?
Matched with one who actually spoke to me first with. A hi gif then never said anything after that. Fuck this app lol.
Since girls get many more likes than men why do they even bother matching if they won't speak lol?
Matched with one who actually spoke to me first with. A hi gif then never said anything after that. Fuck this app lol.
It's PERFECTLY fine to state up front what you are looking for. I had a pretty awesome date on Friday with a woman who said that in her profile actually. Just phrase it in a way that you're not expecting anything right away. "I'm looking for a committed relationship, but first let's meet and see where things go" or a similar no-pressure way of putting it.
That sounds like a good plan.
They may match based on your profile, or bio. There is also the chance that a lot of girls just swipe right on everyone and unmatch ghe guys they dont like.
Also they may have a ton of other conversations going on in the app that are more interesting so they forget about you.
Well I'm specifically talking about tinder. How can a more interesting conversation be going on if it never started. And I don't just open with hi how are you.
Does anyone have experience with the app Happn?
It's like a 3DS streetpass type of dating app, but I don't know really what people are looking for on it. Dating? Hookups? I'm more for dating but most profiles don't specify.
I get a ton of passes and profiles, so apparently a lot of people here in LA are using it. I have a feeling it's just for bangin' but my feelings are wrong only, like, 70% of the time.
Fourth date was yesterday. This may have been the last one before she leaves town. We're trying to make a fifth, but our schedules are rough right now.
We were going to go out, but she changed her mind at the last minute and invited me over to her place. Her family was out of town, and she repeatedly mentioned this throughout the evening. I don't know about you all, but I took this as a signal that she may have wanted sex. Now, I can be really indecisive and indirect so I'm not the kind of guy who really knows what he's doing when it comes to getting a girl in the mood so I just bought myself some time waiting for an ideal moment to just ask her. We played some games, made out, more games, and talked while playing with her dog. Her dog loves me now. She started off the night leaning up against me, but I noticed she distanced herself as it went on. I think she was getting really tired after awhile and just wanted me to head home so she could sleep. She mentioned she had to work the next day. I wasn't sure though so I made a move anyway at the end of the night. I started making out with her, laid her down on the couch, got some heavy breathing from her when I kissed her neck, and I asked if she wanted to go upstairs and she said she couldn't. I told her that was okay, we stopped, and she gave me a lift home after that.
Either I waited too long, I just wasn't turning her on, or I misinterpreted the situation and she just wanted a simple night in after a long day. I didn't want her to think I was some asshole who was just trying to get laid before she left town so I told her that before I got out of the car. She said she didn't get that impression from me so that's a good sign. Since this may have been our last meetup I told her I thought she was great and would love to see her again when she got back. I didn't want to put her on the spot to give me her answer so I just told her to take some time to think about it and let me know. She said okay, and wanted to give me a hug before I left.
I don't know, GAF. Hopefully I didn't screw this up. I'm going to try to meet up with her Thursday, but if she makes up some excuse not to then I think I'll have my answer.
I wrote about it a few pages ago. It's pretty good. It's like Tinder if the distance is set to 1-2 miles. If you end up moving a bit, it's pretty cool. In here it's clearly the 2nd big dating app.
As for what it is, aren't most apps with the match system about banging? My happn dates were all pretty straightforward in what we intended to do, but it's probably just coincidence. The mindset is similar to Tinder.
20-50% of the profiles are also on Tinder though. It's cool to get rejected twice. I actually once saw a profile of a girl in both apps and sent a superlike and a charm (similar in Happn) in a couple of minutes. That was probably creepy. It's even creepier cause she works 200 meters next to me so she is always showing up in my happn feed (she probably blocked me right away). But I never saw her in person.
4 now. Maybe a 5th. +2 months of texting almost nightly.How many dates have you been on? Remind me
4 now. Maybe a 5th.
I've been feeling the same lately. I'm young and this was my first real dating experience so I feel like I got too attached.You've probably written more about this girl than married couples have written about each other. You're way too invested in this extremely young relationship. It's time to back off and meet other people.
To those who have been following my crazy situation all summer, would you have given up by now? I mean, both of us could've bailed at any moment, but we didn't. We saw this thing all the way through. It had its ups and downs, but there has to be something here to drive two people to stick with this for months like we did despite everything holding it back from working.