So ive had a similar situation before with a girl from group therapy and it became very messy very quickly, sadly
Sorry to hear that.
I thought this was the same girl until that last sentence. So what do you think?
I don't know what to think. A lot of me wants to do it, but part of me is worried and feels bad about wanting to.
The other girl moved to the States, but for school. She got accepted into a program in the same state the guy is in. Good for them, although I miss hanging out with her (non-sexually).
This is the girl I went out on a date with a year ago, after meeting online, and it went really well. We went for drinks then to a movie, and she grabbed my hand. It was one of my better dates.
After that, she told me she felt it wouldn't be a good idea to date right then, because she needed to work on herself. She'd recently attempted suicide, and was feeling very depressed. It sucked, but I understood.
We talked on social media off and on, and she kept saying she should treat me sometime soon, because I'd paid for everything the first time. She eventually did, although I told her she didn't have to, and we went out for food then to a movie. She held my hand again, then asked me if she could kiss me when I dropped her off (at her car, left at the restaurant.)
We've seen each other twice since (well, she said she saw me once at her work when I got there just as it was being evacuated due to a fire alarm). Both times she was going to harm herself permanently, and I talked her out of it, then invited her over here.
I've liked her, despite the issues, but didn't make any moves on her out of respect for the state she was in. I wasn't going to take advantage of anyone who was down and out.
Tonight, she posted on Facebook, a picture of a male actor she had a crush on years ago. It was a meme that said anyone who didn't have one was a liar, so I posted about being an honest liar. Then I got a message from her saying I was cute, too, and it went from there.
I guess, despite all the hints, she didn't think I liked her that way, because I didn't make a move, by trying to make out with her or pull her shirt off (I think she's been around too many douchebags). I told her I just didn't want to take advantage of her, was nervous and that kind of thing.
She said she wants to have sex, but thought I'd be too innocent.
Oh, I remember: It really started after the cute line, when she said that I was the most pure guy she knew, and I told her that I just keep the impure thoughts to myself. She wanted to know what my fantasy was.