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Plane diverted as passengers fight over seat reclining

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Elrond Hubbard

Neo Member
Nothing inherently douche-y about telling the person in front of you that they are bumping into your legs and if they'd be willing to un-recline a bit.

I should have qualified my statement a bit. What I meant was it's douchey if they're asleep.

Waking someone up on an airplane is generally a huge dick move, IMO. It's hard enough to get to sleep as it is.
 

Dalek

Member
If someone reclines in to me enough to bother me, I just give their chair a kick with my knee every few minutes. If I have to be uncomfortable, then they will have to suffer with me. Thankfully I'm only 6 feet tall so most of the flights I go on there is still enough leg room even if they person in front reclines, but it seems ever now and then I'm on a plane where the seat in front of me is somehow closer than normal or reclines more than it should.

I like the cut of your jib. I'm going to start doing this.
 
Never realized how many people responded to my post and completely misunderstood my point.

The point was that in no way was I disagreeing that recliners are often rude and inconsiderate people and are ethically at fault.

The point was though that ultimately criticism needs to be directed at the airlines and regulatory bodies that allow these cramped cabins in the first place.

Assholes are always going to exist. That's a given. People tend to be selfish way more then they are altruistic or empathetic. So until something is done to address the root cause which is the airlines and regulatory bodies the outrage at individuals committing these acts is ultimately pointless and achieves nothing.

Categorically untrue. Writing a letter to the airline won't save my knees on the next flight. Having a friendly chat with the person in front of me will. Even this thread has already enlightened a few people who were completely unaware how painful and unavoidable the situation was for others.

I'm amazed at the number of people who assume that I was being threatening when I said that if I don't want someone to recline, they won't. Unless I jam my knees into the person next to me, they have to go forward, which prevents reclining from happening. If I'm "infringing on the space that they paid for" I hope they can sympathize that their 3 hours of minor discomfort is saving me from 3 hours of excruciating pain.
 

Darksol

Member
I have a 13 hour flight in November. I will try not to end up as an internet story for GAF :p

I only recline if nobody is behind me.
 
What if I've crossed eight time zones that day, I have a bunch of stuff to do when I land, and a 90 minute nap is the only way I'm going to be able to function? Say I've come from Asia, had a layover in San Francisco, and then a flight to Phoenix? I'm not going to recline, as is my right due to having paid for a reclining seat, so that you'll have more tray space? Nope.

Sounds like you are framing your own life as vastly more hectic and important than that of the person behind you, disregarding their comfort as "tray space." So yeah, you are kind of being what that other guy said.
 
I'm in the "no recliner but don't mind if you recline" camp and this whole mess is just too much.

I appreciate if you take the time to turn your head and ask the person behind you if they mind, it means you're a true gent/lady. I don't mind if you don't do it either since sometimes you're just tired and want to relax. I should be able to ask you politely if it were to bother me (again, it doesn't).

What is it with people getting worked up over this stuff?

Also, can't they just subdue a screaming woman? Why would they have to turn the plane around? What's she going to do, scratch the window panes off the plane?

I would be mildly peeved if my flight was diverted because of this.
 

Loofy

Member
The seats arent lazboys, they dont recline that far back. If you cant handle someone in front of you reclining then get first class next time.
 

Elrond Hubbard

Neo Member
Sounds like you are framing your own life as vastly more hectic and important than that of the person behind you, disregarding their comfort as "tray space." So yeah, you are kind of being what that other guy said.

Difference is that I have a seat that reclines, and a seat that reclines is part of what you pay for when you fly.

You don't pay for a seat in which the seat in front of you does not recline.

It's pretty clear who has the usage rights in this scenario. I'm not going to forego my usage rights to avoid causing a mild annoyance that everyone who flies has to put up with at some point or another.
 

The Hermit

Member
The person reclining was wrong? I always recline, unless the person behind me is too big, but I just ease up a bit.

I was wrong mu whole life...
 

terrisus

Member
they need to make a device that lets u recline further than you normally can

They do.

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I was going to make a thread of seat reclining last week but forgot. I am not sure why the feature even exists. The person reclining gets a smaller increase in comfort than the person sitting behind gets a decrease in comfort. So really, if you recline on a plane or bus, you are more of an asshole than the guy using these things.
 

Elrond Hubbard

Neo Member
If you're a tall dude, request an exit row seat.

I was going to make a thread of seat reclining last week but forgot. I am not sure why the feature even exists. The person reclining gets a smaller increase in comfort than the person sitting behind gets a decrease in comfort. So really, if you recline on a plane or bus, you are more of an asshole than the guy using these things.

No way. Those few degrees of tilt are the difference between being able to nap (poorly) and not being able to get to sleep at all.
 

Particle Physicist

between a quark and a baryon
Yeah, there's one perfect way to sleep and everyone sleeps that way.

Suddenly someone's right to sleep on the plane doesn't trump everyone else's right to a comfortable flight anymore.

Or if you want to recline your chair you could do the simple fucking curtesy of being aware of your surroundings and maybe asking the person who's space you're about to drop into. It's not that freakin' hard.

Feel free to lay your head on the tray table to sleep, just be aware that the seats on a plane recline and the person in front of you may not be aware that you are sleeping in that position. People know the seats recline, right?

And here we go as an example for all the people saying "Just ask the person in front of you."

The guy waited until he was asleep. People don't generally fall asleep that fast. That means the guy was supposedly uncomfortable for quite a while before he said anything. Kinda weird really. It was also a trans=pacific flight, according to the poster. Those are not short flights. I thought people did not have issues with recliners in long flights?

You guys need to take issue with the airlines in how they design their cabin, not the people using the seats as they are intended to be used. What I mean is, feel free to ask someone not to recline, but no need to get pissy about someone reclining if you never said anything to them.

If someone reclines in to me enough to bother me, I just give their chair a kick with my knee every few minutes. If I have to be uncomfortable, then they will have to suffer with me. Thankfully I'm only 6 feet tall so most of the flights I go on there is still enough leg room even if they person in front reclines, but it seems ever now and then I'm on a plane where the seat in front of me is somehow closer than normal or reclines more than it should.

I like the cut of your jib. I'm going to start doing this.


Are you guys 12? Sounds like something a child would do.
 
I'm in the "no recliner but don't mind if you recline" camp and this whole mess is just too much.

I appreciate if you take the time to turn your head and ask the person behind you if they mind, it means you're a true gent/lady. I don't mind if you don't do it either since sometimes you're just tired and want to relax. I should be able to ask you politely if it were to bother me (again, it doesn't).

What is it with people getting worked up over this stuff?

Also, can't they just subdue a screaming woman? Why would they have to turn the plane around? What's she going to do, scratch the window panes off the plane?

I would be mildly peeved if my flight was diverted because of this.


My flight from Dominican Republic to Toronto was delayed last week by 8 hours because 2 ladies got drunk and started smoking in the washroom so they got 2 FIGHTER JETS to escort the plane back to Toronto....
 

Samus4145

Member
My knee defender is my knees. I hold firm right where they are when people start to recline - you can go as far as my knees are naturally positioned.

Yet people still keep slamming back as if they're hitting some unexplained lump behind them. "Wha.. Wha is this thing behind my seat that is stopping me from reclining? It's like there's an adult male back there or something??"

This is me. One time someone in front of me turned around and asked what was in the way. I told him I was 6'4" and if there was a magically spot I could move my knees to, I would.
 
God, I had no idea so many people had this much rage toward reclining. I am disabled and it is very hard for me to sit fully upright for a three hour flight. One more thing to be anxious about when I fly. I guess I just figured it was something everybody has to put up with. I get economy premium for the legroom, too, so most of the time hopefully it isn't a big issue for the people behind me. I do try not to recline all the way when I'm in the last premium aisle.
 

Lesath

Member
Man, it's like one of the few breaks you can catch as a short dude. You have the option of putting a pillow on your seat and slouching instead of reclining your seat. I've seen people smaller than me slam their backs onto those seats trying to recline as far as they can, though.
 

Elrond Hubbard

Neo Member
If you guys ever want to experience a complete lack of leg room, try taking a bus in southeast Asia. Those buses are designed for very small people, and even at 5'10", I was basically crammed in there.
 
Yup. those few centimeters are nothing for the person on the chair but can be a massive annoyance for the one behind.

As someone with serious back problems, those few centimeters are the only thing keeping me sane during a flight. If I need to recline to get some goddamned lumbar support I'm gonna do it.

Thankfully Southwest flights tend to have better leg room in my experience, which means I don't have to bother anybody when I recline.
 
As someone with serious back problems, those few centimeters are the only thing keeping me sane during a flight. If I need to recline to get some goddamned lumbar support I'm gonna do it.

Yeah I'm right there with ya. It must be nice to think those few centimeters are meaningless...
 

Vilam

Maxis Redwood
Where do short people get this foolish idea that if the person in front of you reclines, and then you also recline, that suddenly you've gained your space back and your knees are no longer being crushed? It doesn't work that way. My ass isn't moving backwards when reclining; my knees are still in the exact same place. Airlines need to take recline out of all economy seats if they insist on putting the seats so close together. It most certainly needs to happen on domestic flights.


i recline every flight. nobody has said anything and if they did, I would ignore them completely. or hand them a piece of paper with the stephen fry image printed out on it.

So now you can pay $21.95 to be an asshole?

Some well deserved bans in this thread.


Or how about someone reclining into you when you're holding an infant...people just aren't aware of their surroundings, or they don't give a fuck.

You shouldn't have an infant on a plane in the first place. Instead of a person reclining and ruining one person's flight, you're ruining everyone's flight.


Lol, I knew GAF would come out in defense of the Knee Defender.

If you don't like that I can recline my seat, you have several options:
- recline your own seat
- fly first or business class
- fly an airline with non-reclining seats
- don't fly

I also have the option to repeatedly smack the back of your seat and ensure that if you're going to purposely make me uncomfortable then I'm sure as hell going to return the favor.
 
I usually fly Southwest and I feel like the reclining is positioned in a way where it doesn't really effect leg space.


I also have the option to repeatedly smack the back of your seat and ensure that if you're going to purposely make me uncomfortable then I'm sure as hell going to return the favor.


And lol at the people claiming to kick the the back of the seat of people reclining like bunch of children not getting their way. I would imagine that if you just calmly explain your situation to the person in front of you, if you are a taller person, that more often than not the person will try to be accommodating.
 
You shouldn't have an infant on a plane in the first place. Instead of a person reclining and ruining one person's flight, you're ruining everyone's flight.
Do not start this shit again.

I also have the option to repeatedly smack the back of your seat and ensure that if you're going to purposely make me uncomfortable then I'm sure as hell going to return the favor.
You seem like a reasonable and likable person.
 

Zoe

Member
I was going to make a thread of seat reclining last week but forgot. I am not sure why the feature even exists. The person reclining gets a smaller increase in comfort than the person sitting behind gets a decrease in comfort. So really, if you recline on a plane or bus, you are more of an asshole than the guy using these things.

As long as you're around average height (or less), all you have to do is recline your seat as well and, voila, no space lost.

As a short person, reclining makes a huge difference in how my feet rest and my back support.
 

Particle Physicist

between a quark and a baryon
Sure they are, right in the comfort of their own car.

lol. Yeah. I live in the midwest, when I have a small vacation and I want to visit my grandmother in florida who cannot travel, I will fly, because driving is not an option. I will also fly when we want to go on vacation, pretty much anywhere because, it's vacation, and the plane is a means of travel. Sorry bud. A movie theater, I understand, but a plane... too bad.
 

Vilam

Maxis Redwood
I was about to go buy one of those Knee Defenders, but it looks like they only work when your tray is down? Is that correct? Pretty useless to me if so, having the tray down frequently presses against my knees as well.


lol. Yeah. I live in the midwest, when I have a small vacation and I want to visit my grandmother in florida who cannot travel, I will fly, because driving is not an option. I will also fly when we want to go on vacation, pretty much anywhere because, it's vacation, and the plane is a means of travel. Sorry bud. A movie theater, I understand, but a plane... too bad.

Nobody is going to stop you, that doesn't mean that you're not the extremely rude one imposing your problems on a whole bunch of other people over a choice you made and decided to live with.


Yeah, it's always a nice car ride from New England to Old England.

They've got these great things called boats, complete with your own private cabin to shut your baby inside.
 

Particle Physicist

between a quark and a baryon
Nobody is going to stop you, that doesn't mean that you're not the extremely rude one imposing your problems on a whole bunch of other people over a choice you made and decided to live with.

Sounds like you hate kids overall. haha. wow. It must suck being so bitter. Sorry you feel that way.

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They've got these great things called boats, complete with your own private cabin to shut your baby inside.

Wait... so, is this all sarcasm? I can't tell. :/
 
Bitter? More like annoyed and encroached upon. I can refer you to a number of other GAF threads with a multitude of people who feel the same way if you'd like.
I'd say more 'arrogant', in that your comfort and right to not be annoyed is so crucial and uncompromisable that the entire breeding population of mankind ought to do the decent thing and not travel, to accomodate your inability to suck it up and deal with the realities of being a member of society and using mass transit, and refusal be in the same room as a baby for several hours at any point in your lifetime.

Get some self-awareness.
 

Surface of Me

I'm not an NPC. And neither are we.
ITT: Fuck all those people keeping the human race alive. Clearly they should have their rights infringed for putting their burden onto the rest of us, who just want to die old and alone.
 
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