reilo said:
I'm going to quote a specific portion of Manmademan to highlight something:
Denying the legal right for gay people to marry under the guise of "religious freedom" is a violation of "Separation of Church and State" and directly intrudes upon that group's rights. The problem here is, that we have a pool of elected officials that are using the argument that their "religious beliefs" do not allow them to vote for ratifying same-sex marriage under the letter of the law.
here, I agree with you. but the
LEGAL RIGHT to marry is an issue of the state, not something the church has any say over. It doesn't matter what religion you belong to- if the state does not recognize your right to marry and issue you a
marriage license then you aren't, and you can't. What the church does is little more than window dressing on top of that.
Example: It doesn't matter if my church permits polygamy- the state won't permit it, and it's illegal, and I can't legally marry more than one woman at once or I go to jail.
That, in no simpler terms, is directly infringing upon that group's inalienable rights. It is discrimination and bigotry. I don't care if your religion tells you otherwise, the moment you actively try to prevent another person from pursuing their right to happiness, you are discriminating against them. The caveat being, as always, that the pursuit of happiness of that person is not harming anybody else in the process.
no, it isn't, since again that's an issue of civil union, not marriage.
If the state permits civil unions for everyone (and as an atheist, this is my only option unless I convert, which I won't) then everyone has equal rights under the law. The CHURCH has no say in anyone's inalienable rights.
so to be brief= my position (and the reality) is that all RIGHTS regarding marriage are an issue of the state, not the church. permit civil unions for everyone, this is a non issue.
If you want the window dressing of a church ceremony (which has nothing to do with rights or legality) on TOP of that, then you need to play ball by the rules of that religion, or do without.