How closely have you been monitoring the situation on ground? I've been reading every tweet from NATO, Aljazeera, Reuters, AP and tweets from rebel commanders/foot soldiers. For the past 3 months, NATO has been holding up rebel advance until last week when the stalemate ended. Rebels launched a 3-pronged offensive, surrounding the lifelines of Tripoli.
Rebels just yesterday captured the gates of Zawiya and are advancing to the center as we speak while coming under heavy sniper fire. As they predicted, they got popular support from Zawiya residents. Tweets are just coming in that the Port city of Surman has fallen completely to rebel hands
The third front of the assault is in Gharyan, where the most intensive battles took place and where dozens and dozens of rebel soldiers died. I think it's the only city where battle has been indecisive so far, but in a day or two everything should be clear.
As for decimating the country, yes. Gaddafi loyalists have bombarded Misrata, Brega and Ajdabiya, turning many of them into ghost towns. But freedom has been sweet for some. For example,
the Berber community is returning in form. We will see more forms of cultural expressions as the wall of fear is dismantled brick by brick.