CHICAGO — Addressing a packed congregation at one of the city's largest black churches, Senator Barack Obama on Sunday invoked his own absent father to deliver a sharp message to African-American men, saying, ”We need fathers to realize that responsibility does not end at conception."
”Too many fathers are M.I.A, too many fathers are AWOL, missing from too many lives and too many homes," Mr. Obama said, to a chorus of approving murmurs from the audience. ”They have abandoned their responsibilities, acting like boys instead of men. And the foundations of our families are weaker because of it."
The speech was striking for its setting, and in how Mr. Obama, the presumptive Democratic presidential nominee, directly addressed one of the most sensitive topics in the African-American community: whether absent fathers bore responsibility for some of the intractable problems afflicting black Americans. Mr. Obama noted that ”more than half of all black children live in single-parent households," a number that he said had doubled since his own childhood.
Accompanied by his wife, Michelle, and his daughters, Malia and Sasha, who sat in the front pew, Mr. Obama laid out his case in stark terms that would be difficult for a white candidate to make, telling the mostly black audience not to ”just sit in the house watching SportsCenter," and to stop praising themselves for mediocre accomplishments.
”Don't get carried away with that eighth-grade graduation," he said, bringing many members of the congregation to their feet, applauding. ”You're supposed to graduate from eighth grade."
His themes have been also been sounded by the comedian Bill Cosby, who has stirred debate among black Americans by bluntly speaking about an epidemic of fatherless African-American families while suggesting that some blacks use racism as a crutch to explain lack of economic progress.
Mr. Obama did not take his Father's Day message to Trinity United Church of Christ, the church from which he resigned in May after a series of disputes over controversial remarks by the church's former pastor, the Rev. Jeremiah A. Wright Jr. Instead, he chose the 20,000-member Apostolic Church of God, a vast brick structure on the South Side near Lake Michigan. The church's pastor, Byron Brazier, is an Obama supporter.
On the campaign trail, Mr. Obama has frequently returned to the topic of parenting and personal responsibility, particularly for low-income African American families. Speaking in Texas in February, Mr. Obama told the mostly black audience to take responsibility for the education and nutrition of their children, and lectured them for feeding their children ”cold Popeyes" for breakfast.
”I know how hard it is to get kids to eat properly," Mr. Obama said. ”But I also know that folks are letting our children drink eight sodas a day, which some parents do, or, you know, eat a bag of potato chips for lunch. Buy a little desk or put that child at the kitchen table. Watch them do their homework."
On Friday, Mr. Obama announced that he would be a co-sponsor of a bill with Senator Evan Bayh, Democrat of Indiana, that his campaign said would address the ”national epidemic of absentee fathers." If passed, the legislation would increase the enforcement of child support payments and strengthen domestic violence prevention services.
Mr. Obama cited the need for stronger law enforcement services and resources for education, more job opportunities and other resources for communities.