Pressing "NO TIP" when paying your barber is one of the most awkward interactions

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In this very thread people kept saying "I bet your hair looks like ass, OP", "Your barber is fucking you up and you don't even know about it", yet people still claim this shit doesn't happen. If it actually doesn't then you are encouraging it.

Then let it happen.
In a normal place with normal people unlike America then the reward for good service would be any subsequent visits not a "he'll fuck your shit up next time you come fam".
 
How about you complain to your boss to raise your wage and stop jipping you if you don't want to rely on the good will of other people

I can afford the food that I'm primarily asking for. I don't need to pay your salary. I'll go to a restaurant and not tip you and I want to see what the server is going to do about it.

What fantasy world do you live in where any boss would be like: "Yeah, ok."

The US laws straight-up allow waiters to be paid less than minimum wage because it's assumed they're making that back in tips. It's the system that's in place and you're an asshole if you think the way to change the system is to punish the victims of said system.

It's an expectation of going out to eat. The bill itself is for your food, not for the service of having your food brought out to your lazy ass. That's what the tip is for.
 
Shouldn't you tip based on how well the haircut goes? Like 'Oh wow, my hair looks great, I wish it looked like this all the time.' should warrant a tip. But for average haircuts or a haircut you don't like or is just bad, I don't see why there should be tips for that.
 
I always tip when I get my ears lowered. Fuck them begging for it though by shoving it in your face. I hope we never adopt this Americanism.

You are greatly misunderstanding what is going on here.

The client is paying with a debit/credit card. There is an option to leave the tip using the card if you don't have cash on you. Restaurants do it too.

Its for your convenience, not to shame.

Also just want to add to Inferno's post. At many restaurants the tips are pooled and also go to the food runners, bus boys and bartenders. It's not just a direct tip to your waiter based on their service, but the level of overall service by everyone. I won't judge other cultures, but Americans who don't tip are fucking assholes. I have had managers run after customers and confront them and tell them to never come back after they stiffed me.
 
I'm guessing his retort to this is "how is that my problem?" This argument goes in circles.

The way I see it, you either care enough to do something nice for someone, or you don't. And if you don't, that's your prerogative.


See above. It's absolutely fascinating how riled up people get over this.

This.
 
What fantasy world do you live in where any boss would be like: "Yeah, ok."

The US laws straight-up allow waiters to be paid less than minimum wage because it's assumed they're making that back in tips. It's the system that's in place and you're an asshole if you think the way to change the system is to punish the victims of said system.

It's an expectation of going out to eat. The bill itself is for your food, not for the service of having your food brought out to your lazy ass. That's what the tip is for.

What about barbershops? Are we paying for the haircut, or the barber's ability to operate in that shop?
 
How about you complain to your boss to raise your wage and stop jipping you if you don't want to rely on the good will of other people

I can afford the food that I'm primarily asking for. I don't need to pay your salary. I'll go to a restaurant and not tip you and I want to see what the server is going to do about it.
Jipping. Nice...a racist to boot.
 
What about barbershops? Are we paying for the haircut, or the barber's ability to operate in that shop?

That actually depends. I've been going to the same barber for 20 years, now (oh geez I just realized this), and I still give her an extra couple of bucks. Her prices have gone up a couple of times during that, but even with the most recent increase it's only $17, so now I just hand her a $20 and call it a day since that's what comes out of the ATM on my way there (I don't carry cash) and I don't want a single sitting in my pocket being used for nothing.
 
What do all you s*******s do when you go out with a large group and the gratuity is automatically added to the bill? (amusingly enough, because of people like you in the first place)

You fuck over all your friends and don't pay your part? I mean, as many of you said, you can afford the tip, but you are taking a stand. You don't back down from your stand in front of others, do you? Thats not much of a stand.
 
How about you complain to your boss to raise your wage and stop jipping you if you don't want to rely on the good will of other people

I can afford the food that I'm primarily asking for. I don't need to pay your salary. I'll go to a restaurant and not tip you and I want to see what the server is going to do about it.

It's not good will it's a cultural expectation, and how the entire industry is set up. A tough and competitive industry where a lot of businesses go under despite relying on tips to pay part of their workers salary.

If they changed the system you'd just be paying more for your food; meanwhile the rest of us would pay roughly the same since we've been giving the expected tip.

If you can't afford the food + a 15% tip then you can't really afford the food and the service that comes along with it. You are just taking advantage of a system that allows you to not participate in part of the cost of the goods and services; good for you I guess.
 
Lol piss off. I'm responding to comments about vindictive waiters and barbers attempting to give poor service that may or may not (They are) in this thread.

Also lol at a "selfish stand"? Bro I'm tired of servers complaining that the customer isn't going above and beyond to make up some waiter's salary. I pay for a service and you're expecting others actually pay your actual salary?

I didn't employ you. You're confused if you think this is an "I got mine" situation as opposed to a "I guilt trip customers with pathos arguments while my Boss continues to fuck me over".

At the end of the day I'm already paying. I'm not dining and dashing, I'm not skipping out on my Barber, I'm paying the actual price listed. Why am I expected to provide charity for someone who should be getting paid a decent wage.

There are so many other charity cases I'd rather donate to than someone who's just fine with fucking themselves over
That boy ain't right
 
There are so many other charity cases I'd rather donate to than someone who's just fine with fucking themselves over

Tipping threads are always interesting because inevitably someone that hasn't faced much adversity in their life shows up and wonders why everyone else in the world can't be like them. No perspective.
 
Tipping if for suckers

Like, do firefighters get tipped for saving children from burning buildings?

No

So why would I ever tip a waiter.

My views on this are very black and white

Haha I'm going to use this next time.

I wouldn't have a problem with tipping if barbers, waiters, etc. Would take it as a once in a while not entitled to sort of thing. But having heard waiters/waitresses bitch about low or no tippers as being cheap as if they deserved a higher tip set me to not tip. Especially when the job I had was a lot tougher (no tips) and they were bring home more than me each week.

I still tip but always have to tell my wife less than what she wants to tip everytime. So if my wife says 10, I say 5 and so on.
 
What fantasy world do you live in where any boss would be like: "Yeah, ok."

The US laws straight-up allow waiters to be paid less than minimum wage because it's assumed they're making that back in tips. It's the system that's in place and you're an asshole if you think the way to change the system is to punish the victims of said system.

It's an expectation of going out to eat. The bill itself is for your food, not for the service of having your food brought out to your lazy ass. That's what the tip is for.

Wow I guess tips are the problem then!
Maybe people shouldnt enable a shitty system to the point where your salary is now [Under Minimum Wage] + [Good Will of Consumers]

I don't care if I'm "punishing" a waiter by not participating in the "system". My whole point is I shouldn't be tipping or have to tip in the first place. Trying to jedi mind trick people by saying "Wow, so you're going to punish the waiters by not tipping? wtf, asshole" isn't going to work on me and is only trying to prolong a system that is by default shit.

LOL AT LAZY. I'm not fucking crippled. I don't want a waiter bringing me food in the first place. I'd sooner get up and get that food myself. What do you think I do in a cafeteria? Family dinner? A luncheon?
You think I give a fuck about the dude who pours my drink. I wasn't particularly in need of their assistance in the first place. If I had to get my food myself I would 100 percent of the time.

Also you pay a fucking bill that should be going to the salary and upkeep of the restaurant and in exchange for paying you get a cooked fucking meal.

Also I don't give a shit about changing the system I care about partaking in it. It's your wage so you can complain about it.
 
Foreigners on this site love making a big deal about tipping. You give your barber a few extra bucks and never think about it again.

As a foreigner living in America for almost 15 years now, it's embarrassing to see how small minded so many my fellow non-Americans tend to be.

I didn't tip my hairdressers or waiters in NZ, but I paid more there for service and food that was no better.
 
It's not good will it's a cultural expectation, and how the entire industry is set up. A tough and competitive industry where a lot of businesses go under despite relying on tips to pay part of their workers salary.

If they changed the system you'd just be paying more for your food; meanwhile the rest of us would pay roughly the same since we've been giving the expected tip.

If you can't afford the food + a 15% tip then you can't really afford the food and the service that comes along with it. You are just taking advantage of a system that allows you to not participate in part of the cost of the goods and services; good for you I guess.

Who pays 15% these days? The expectation is 18-20%. I typically tip about 25% and more of the service is exceptional. I only do 15% on takeout.
 
Tipping threads are always interesting because inevitably someone that hasn't faced much adversity in their life shows up and wonders why everyone else in the world can't be like them. No perspective.

Lol I love all these assumptions coming up about the lifestyle of other people. As if you know anything about my life because I don't feel like tipping someone who already has a job and should be making a proper salary
 
Lol I love all these assumptions coming up about the lifestyle of other people. As if you know anything about my life because I don't feel like tipping someone who already has a job and should be making a proper salary

Food service workers are paid in wages and tips, not salary.
 
I don't think barber's deserve mandatory tips, but I generally do it out of a feeling obligation. Sometimes I won't if I think the price is too high already.
 
I'd tip my barber...IF I had some hair to cut.

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Any service provided to you where the quality of the service is contingent upon the skill level of the person providing to you deserves a tip.

Period. Pay people for being skilled at their craft.
 
You could just not tip the barber, it's not that big a deal. Both you and him would likely forget in an hour anyway. Whatever the justification people always act like they have a gun to their heads with tipping. Either do if you want to or don't.
 
If you can't afford to tip then you probably can't afford to eat out.

This is bs.
So I can't eat in your delicious dining place because I can't tip because what? You want to separate a class of people with expendable income while others make enough to enjoy nice things on a rare occasion? We shouldnt have to work and save more just to take tipping into consideration.
These people are doing their J O B . If they don't like not getting tipped enough or at all, they can reconsider what they do.

Edit- I misread that slightly.
 
US tipping culture is creeping into Canada as well despite the fact that people are paid minimum wage or above here. My friend worked for Panago pizza and would make $14 an hour. With tips he would routinely get $20 or $30 by the end of the day, enough to fill his beater car full with enough gas for a week.

These days it seems even the basest modicum f service requires a tip in the US. Delivering pizza, cutting hair, food service, lawn maintenance, delivery of mail or newspapers, etc. At what point is enough enough and customers are no longer forced to subsidize employee wages because employers don't want to pay decent wages? Without tipping how many industries would fail, what does that tell you? These days even mechanica have a tipping option for doing oil changes, basic work. Food service I can understand, but why is there tipping for take out? Is literally packing food and handing it to the customer that demanding? Tips are customary for a good job, you want to support your barber as a long time client, otherwise if it is required it is vicious cycle whereby customers are shafted paying higher and higher amounts. I now routinely see 20-25% as the bare minimum. All I tip for is a sit down meal these days and I am so glad Canada is not at the crazy level the US with regards to tips.
 
This is bs.
So I can't eat in your delicious dining place because I can't tip because what? You want to separate a class of people with expendable income while others make enough to enjoy nice things on a rare occasion? We shouldnt have to work and save more just to take tipping into consideration.
These people are doing their J O B . If they don't like not getting tipped enough or at all, they can reconsider what they do.

Edit- I misread that slightly.

When you can't afford an extra $5-$7 on a bill because you're a broke boi, you probably should just stay at home. Or go to McDonalds or something
 
Americans and tipping always amazes me.
In the UK no one ever asks for a tip and if they did they would probably get told to fuck off.

Yep lmao

I never tip and in the rare cases I do it's not so much about tipping them but not messing around waiting for small change and I mean small change & they never ask for it or expect it. I see people here tipping $2 $3 or even $5-7.. Fuck that, If you asked/expected/hinted at that much tip I'd tell you to fuck off and get on your bike lol.

Asking for a tip is cheeky to me, America will hate me if I ever go there on holiday.
 
This is bs.
So I can't eat in your delicious dining place because I can't tip because what? You want to separate a class of people with expendable income while others make enough to enjoy nice things on a rare occasion? We shouldnt have to work and save more just to take tipping into consideration.
These people are doing their J O B . If they don't like not getting tipped enough or at all, they can reconsider what they do.

Or you could just go to an affordable restaurant.
 
Tipping, casual Roma racism, just need a little circumcision and we'll have a good ol' GAF trifecta!!

Make it so they aren't living off tips and instead get the guaranteed income that you deserve when you provide a service
A wage is a literal synonym for salary.

OK, we'll do just that.

What sound advice you're giving us consumers!

We'll get rid of our shitty President and cabinet while we're at it, why not?!

It's SO easy, we're SO empowered!!
 
I feel like the venn diagram of 'people who don't like to tip' and 'people most likely to send their food back' has a big as fuck cross section
 
When you can't afford an extra $5-$7 on a bill because you're a broke boi, you probably should just stay at home. Or go to McDonalds or something

This. You don't deserve that food you just paid for. Get the fuck outta here you bum! Next time if you want to be cheap, get your food from the trash.

lol
 
I'm with you OP, fuck tipping. Especially when they're in your face, brash as fuck like that. I might tip you if I feel like you deserve one, but if you're actively expecting it you can get stuffed.
 
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