That's a bummer, but every body has their thing they're sensitive too. For me, I'll go far out of my way to eliminate any amount of aliasing I can in a game, and various motion blur effects hurt my eyes.
If I remember right from an older video I saw on OLED panel tech. Some OLED monitors now have higher frequency PWM dimming (1000hz - 2000hz +) that I've heard helps people with sensitivity issues. I think the newer ASUS ROG and Samsung Odyssey models do better in this regard, if you see any in a store or something you can demo.