Oh and nice new avatar clear, almost had an impulse to save it. :x
Ah, Sentry stalking how I miss thee
My boyfriend's teenage brother is getting gaf-parenting-thread syndrome, and its really pissing me off. Every time I go round there he keeps questioning me about my brother (who has a lot of issues going on at the moment) and how if it was his kid (he's two years older than my brother) he would be doing a much better job. Its none of his bloody business, but I can't really say that because everytime he brings it up his parents are around, and then they ask me too. Ugh. /venting.
Oh man, don't you just love it when kids think they know everything? I dunno, I tend to want to scream "Live a little first, then come back to me with your stupid opinion", especially when it comes to telling everyone how much better they can do something, such as raising a child. Everyone has their nuanced, individual/unique problems and the only way they can learn from them is to go through them. If I were you I would tell him to shut up anyway, though maybe as a guy that would be more acceptable...
I was having a conversation with a friend the other day about her relationship troubles and blah blah blah. The point came up that one of the things she dislikes about him is that he doesn't give her compliments even when she tries really hard to look good for him. And I was like...damn, was I like this? I made the point that compliments tend to come out automatically from me at this point, and this is probably the case for most other guys as they get older (she's like 22 and her b/f is a little younger but I forget what age). She agreed, as she tends to notice when she is around older gentlemen they do tell her she looks nice if she's dressed up/made up or she does something different with her hair, they notice. It gets her to feel more confident and happy. I think it's just one of those things that you learn with experience...that people love to be complimented especially if they make any sort of effort.I
may have been that guy that didn't pay enough compliments but I know for sure that I've always been the romantic type that would say the right things at the right time, but now that I look back on my younger days I do wish I told more people exactly what I thought of how they presented themselves. I guess I'm making up for it now.