I know it's not a guarantee, but if you were going to put some kind of risk assessment value on compliance vs non-compliance.. we know which way that pendulum swings heavily. It's towards compliance.
I can separate civilian behavior from police behavior, because they are 2 entirely different things. Again, we aren't discussing a stop where the person was being compliant, so thus the calls of victim blaming towards me don't really apply.
If we were discussing someone doing everything right, and still got killed/shot/arrested.. then you wouldn't at all see me make an argument at all.. that's a pure victim 100%.
The cop being a dick doesn't excuse her not exiting.
She refused his order, not sure how many times it needs to be said.. it went beyond being mouthy. I never once said being mouthy should mean you get arrested, I said it's best not to be, but I never said that's the only thing she did wrong. She was fine until she refused the order. Against procedure or not, at that time you get out of the car, by refusing it she got arrested.
Again, that all could have been thrown out at court if they felt he needly escalated it, but even the ACLU will tell you, if asked, get out.
Not sure at all what your point has to do with her refusing to get out. That's not behaving badly, that's disobeying a lawful order.