I almost don't want to reply because I have better things to do, but I'm listening to "Air" right now, and so should you give it a try for times of smoother love-making.
And for those times of just freaking it I'd probably like something with a moving beat, preferably really good house music or some psy-trance. My favorite has always been Rabbit in the Moon.
Take my word on Air. It's either made for moving around naked or for leisurely being high and feeling wistful. I cant count how many times my girl and I have hung out, smoked, and got some afternoon delight while jamminRabbit in the Moon.