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Straight women have fewest orgasms, according to new study

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Jumeira

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Hetro Men. Who are the 5%? Who pulls out and goes to sleep? Just awful

My Mrs is satisfied, I know, she claws my back, clamps my body, just seeing her in ecstacy sets me off.
 
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Supast4r

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This turned into a stealth brag thread real quick... I have never given/received oral myself so I don't know what either side of the coin is like. My ex got organs faster than I would through pen.
 
Trojita

Trojita

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Interframe said:
The one advantage same sex couples have over opposite sex couples is that they both can understand and share the exact same feelings of pleasure from one another. Imagine two men or two women performing oral sex on each other at the same time, they are giving each other the same feelings of incredible pleasure at the same time.

Cis-gendered opposite sex couples will never be able to know what their partner feels, so there's sort of this weird physiological disconnect, that breaks the intimacy somewhat. This is a large part of why heterosexual couples can have issues giving one another pleasure and achieving orgasms (especially for straight women).
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This is why a lot of women can't give decent HJ's either :(
 
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neurosisxeno

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Media said:
My husband pretty much always comes before me but he usually stays hard enough to keep going until I get there. Is that super uncommon?
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Apparently so. I fall into the same category. Never understood guys that are one and done, but apparently that's the norm.
 
Lamel

Lamel

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Honestly even 65% seems high from what I hear from my girl friends.
It really is all about the finger/oral combo (most of the time).
 
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Solo

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Shadybiz said:
For heterosexual men who may be slightly inexperienced, and who actually care about pleasing the lady...I made this post awhile ago in another thread. Just a few tips, but it seemed to be well-received.

http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=190334694&postcount=312

The thread in question, for reference (a lot of good tips in there from other posters, too):

http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1161507
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It's amazing to see how every woman is different. Cowgirl is the magic for you and your wife, and spooning/from the side (where it's easiest for me to get access to her clitoris) is mine and the GF's best position. I think it just highlights how you have to take the time to explore your partner and find out what pleases them. Communication is so key. Someone mentioned earlier, and I think it's great advice, not to just grunt you way through it in silence. Being vocal during sex is not only beneficial if you or your partner like what's happening or want to change it up, but it's also super hot when your partner tells you how good you are making them feel.
 
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Laekon

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So many variables here. I dated a woman once that was really into quickies when her kid would take bathes. She just wanted me to do my thing and actually get upset if I tried to make it about her. In another relationship, near the end of it, I would sometimes feel the girl was treating sex like an errand on her list and not be able finish. I would just fake it and take care of business later myself.
 
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Gastone

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Gotta go down on that pussy, but not going near the asshole. That's fucking gross. It's a one way street filled with shit, and y'all know it
 
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Shadybiz

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Solo said:
It's amazing to see how every woman is different. Cowgirl is the magic for you and your wife, and spooning/from the side (where it's easiest for me to get access to her clitoris) is mine and the GF's best position. I think it just highlights how you have to take the time to explore your partner and find out what pleases them. Communication is so key. Someone mentioned earlier, and I think it's great advice, not to just grunt you way through it in silence. Being vocal during sex is not only beneficial if you or your partner like what's happening or want to change it up, but it's also super hot when your partner tells you how good you are making them feel.
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100% agreed. Mileage may vary as far as positions. Also, it's important to remember that comfort level is a thing. Also patience. My wife (then girlfriend) had never had an orgasm from regular intercourse before we got together (manual and oral, yes, but not intercourse). We tried a bunch of different positions and rhythms, over actually a couple of months, and nothing was really doing it for her. One day, I kind of just said "fuck it...I wonder what will happen if I just lay there and let her work." Sure enough, she found her orgasm, and now she can pretty much do it at will. That's something that I did not reflect in that post...if the lady has not "found" her orgasm yet, the best thing you can do is be patient and experiment with different things, and eventually, it may happen. It's not you, and it's not her...it just may take time. I would never claim to be some stud...I'm just a regular guy with a penis that is NOT 8 inches (unlike most Gaffers), but I was patient and open to trying multiple things, so she was able to get there in time.
 
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jasonng

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Imperial Bishop said:
To all the fellas who can't please their women:

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Is that what that verse is about!? I'm going to be a virgin forever.
 
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Succinct Verbosity

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Can confirm oral really works on women if you do it right. My girlfriend actually finds it disconcerting because she says she feels like she is going to pass out lol.
 
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Brinbe

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Not surprised. Lotta repressed ppls out there.

Lord knows I dated a few of them. Definitely helped them with that orgasm problem of course ;)
 
Phoenix RISING

Phoenix RISING

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Sibersk Esto said:
Let's talk about this 5% of heterosexual men. Someone help those poor guys they must be dying.
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When I first started having sex, I never finished. Went to a urologist and everything to see if something was wrong with my tools. I could get it up and would go forever. But because I could orgasm from masturbation, the doctor thought I was fine.

Masturbation is easy, but it requires massive concentration for me to orgasm during sex. I'm 34 and have climaxed *once* that I can remember with a woman on top and I let her do all the work. I've never climaxed from oral.

It's not fun when a woman doesn't think she's attractive/hot because she can't make you climax.

The Kree said:
Women literally have an orgasm button. C'mon guys.
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Not all women are created equal. Some women have a strong aversion to clitoral stimulation. Too intense or painful.

kaioshade said:
Wife hates receiving oral sex, so *shrug*

other things turn her on.
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Yeah, mine orgasms easily to penetrative sex, yet simultaneously finds vaginas and penises gross. So she'll tolerate when I go down on her, I cut a condom down the middle and put it on my mouth to serve as a makeshift dental dam (because the real ones are expensive AF).

Solo said:
It's amazing to see how every woman is different. Cowgirl is the magic for you and your wife, and spooning/from the side (where it's easiest for me to get access to her clitoris) is mine and the GF's best position. I think it just highlights how you have to take the time to explore your partner and find out what pleases them. Communication is so key. Someone mentioned earlier, and I think it's great advice, not to just grunt you way through it in silence. Being vocal during sex is not only beneficial if you or your partner like what's happening or want to change it up, but it's also super hot when your partner tells you how good you are making them feel.
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Orgasms come easy for her, so it's rare for me to have to say anything. Plus, me talking breaks that concentration thing I was talking about.

It's like I'm the woman and my wife is the man, lol.
 
Hoho for breakfast

Hoho for breakfast

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65% is pathetic. You have to use some tongue and use a vibrator too if she wants it. And don't fuck her like they do in the porn you're watching until she's coming unless you know she wants that. Soft and slow can do wonders.

Edit: I'm not done yet. You can also just be a bum and lay there sometimes and still both come if she's ok with using a vibrator while she sucks you off.
 
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Count Dookkake

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Jokes are jokes, but it has been nice to see lesbian and bi pals posting this on fb with the reminder that men are not mind-readers and that women should speak up to get what they want.
 
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