A better word was minefield, but fuck, fine, lemme try and pick this apart.
So sexual fetishes and attractions are about loving specific traits, whether for the kink factor or the visual appeal right? (This could be asshole-ish to suggest but) empathy could play a role in that attraction.
Seperately: We're not talking about a real person here, so that takes a lot of the more complicated stuff and makes it easy. But I still think there's a creepy version of liking disabled girls that goes to them being generally seen as less capable and weak, needing a protector or being preyed upon more easily. That shit doesn't have to be what you care about, but it's the kind of thing that I think of as creepy.