So what you're saying is, Sandra was trying really damn hard to get what she wanted to happen, to happen, and is able to use that to the jury to indicate that she was playing the damn game. And it worked. She felt the heat and was trying to get Russell out, once it became obvious that he was no longer going to go, she leveraged her position to him in order to make HIM bring her to the final tribal despite knowing that she would beat him. She continually manipulated who he and parvati were going to boot (seriously, watch her talking to him throughout the season) while STILL trying to have him eliminated. Sandra is the ultimate type of player who can plant a bug in someone's ear, while still remaining seemingly timid and neutral and never draw a target onto herself.
Again, the huge distinction between flying under the radar, and not playing the game. You say she didn't control who she was next to, I say she did so with flying colors. She recognizes what changes she can effect in the game, and makes it happen in the most subtle ways possible so that she comes out smelling like roses, then she explains it in the most succinct manner possible in the FTC and goes in for the kill. Yeah, she can't control if she's up against like, Lil or Johnny Fairplay, but she's going to decimate either of them so it doesn't even matter. Same thing in HvV, once it gets down to the wire she's convinced the goats that SHE is the goat, and she's completely safe, all the while knowing that she's going to crush them for their unlikeability.