#1 - You assume they respect Western values when in the West? The handshake issue and the statue issue would both say no, they don't.
What the hell are "Western values"? Iran and Saudi are regressive oppressive regimes but stop with this Western supremacy shit. People outside the west aren't uneducated savages.
He is clearly referring to equality of men and women.
What's the issue? Its a local law and custom and they're there on business. They are still feminists.
I visited a state owned Buddhist temple in Asia once and I was told to keep quiet. Should have invoked my 1st amendment rights!
What the hell are "Western values"? Iran and Saudi are regressive oppressive regimes but stop with this Western supremacy shit. People outside the west aren't uneducated savages.
Looks like the far right caught the left! Ah-Ha! That means everything the left wants is incorrect. So, they're no better than the right. This kinda shit is stupid. That said, I don't think they should compromise their values to appease anyone's regressive values. If these scarves are mandatory to begin diplomacy, then already the talks are beginning unbalanced.
Or... Iran could adapt to the other party a bit if they want to conduct those talks?You think that would be a sensible way to conduct talks? By flagrantly breaking the law and showing disrespect for local customs? It boggles the mind that people think like this.
Long story short: some public baths in Sweden have separate times for women and men, most of them only a day or two a week. Some have had this arrangement since forever, others instated it recently. For the latter group, they typically argue that it's because some women feel uncomfortable being half naked around men or don't feel safe. This particularly applies to Muslim immigrant women, and the baths want to accomodate them, while also giving the option to native women who might share the same opinion.
The Swedish alt-right, however, either claims that it's proof of the breakdown in Swedish secularism, takeovers by Muslims and/or an attempt to cover up that Swedish women are no longer safe from sexual assaults by immigrant men in the baths.
Is this an actual issue or is this a "when in rome" situation?
Hmm. On one hand, Iran is a misogynistic oppressive theocracy. On the other, I dislike the idea of the hijab being inherently antithetical to feminism.
When in Rome, oppress women?
Hmm. On one hand, Iran is a misogynistic oppressive theocracy. On the other, I dislike the idea of the hijab being inherently antithetical to feminism.
Everyone knows that. I'm asking why we should just accept this without some criticism.
We constantly criticize countries for dealing with shady governments. So I don't see why this specific criticism is now met with resistance and seen as some strange thing, like we shouldn't talk about it or condemn these things.
Exactly. They are fashionable as hell. I'm in multicultural NYC and nearly all the Muslim women I know are first generation Americans. So anytime I see one I assume it's the wearer's choice.Hmm. On one hand, Iran is a misogynistic oppressive theocracy. On the other, I dislike the idea of the hijab being inherently antithetical to feminism.
On second thought, you are right.That's not remotely comparable.
You think that would be a sensible way to conduct talks? By flagrantly breaking the law and showing disrespect for local customs? It boggles the mind that people think like this. If you don't want to respect the customs of the host country then you shouldn't be doing business with them in the first place. And Iran is by no means the only or the most egregious example of countries which practice unequal dress standards for men and women.
Exactly. They are fashionable as hell. I'm in multicultural NYC and nearly all the Muslim women I know are first generation Americans. So anytime I see one I assume it's the wearer's choice.
On second thought, you are right.
You can't have diplomacy when you have one side beginning on their knees.
You can't have diplomacy when you have one side beginning on their knees.
But one side actively breaking the law in front of your face, that's effective diplomacy. I feel like folks here are living in some fantasy world.
I am condemning the Iran government for having laws that force women to wear headscarves. And I am disappointed in the Swedish government - and any other government - going along with that when sending officials there.The question is what are you actually condemning? Are you condemning headscarves, are you condemning establishing diplomatic relations in Iran, or are you condemning female diplomats establishing diplomatic relations in Iran? I highly question whether, in the case of western male diplomats visiting Iran, a single person would say "oh hey they shouldn't even be there because headscarves." I think actually most rational people accept that trade deals and diplomatic relationships are important and should be established, even between people who find some laws and practices morally abhorrent. Maybe you're a purist though, and prefer religious, ideological, and moral isolation. If not, then the question becomes "should women be allowed to become diplomatic envoys to repressive regimes," to which I say absolutely 100% yes, of course they should. Then we need to ask, what is more important: the diplomatic / trade mission or making a political statement about policies you have heavy disagreements with, and then you're back to my original point. You're free to criticise though, no one has been preventing you from speaking as far as I can tell.
Oh please, it's not at all like that. Is bowing in Japan also being on your knees? After all, these diplomats don't HAVE to wear the scarves, they just chose to in order to further the talks. Furthermore, it seems the trip was a success as Scania looks to be in the lead for the bus contract which was the actual point of the visit. So diplomacy successful I guess?
Or... Iran could adapt to the other party a bit if they want to conduct those talks?
They just want to use feminism and women as political weapons against Muslims and brown people.
How interesting that the right is suddenly interested in standing up for supposedly 'women's rights' as soon as they can be used to antagonize brown people.
When in Rome, oppress women?
While I think your intention are noble, I also think you're being a bit naive in thinking that Iran would care at all about the political message that a country like Sweden would send out by not wearing scarves. I'd rather see successful diplomacy than making a point that would have no effect anyway.I am condemning the Iran government for having laws that force women to wear headscarves. And I am disappointed in the Swedish government - and any other government - going along with that when sending officials there.
Of course we should not only sent male envoys. We should sent the ones that we have appointed to the job, and in that appointment, gender should play no role in the choice. And when that envoy is then sent to a country, they should be treated the same as a male would, and otherwise that country should be called out for it.
I don't have a problem with diplomatic or economic ties with Iran, but those ties should be with the aim of also bettering the lives of people there, and going along with repressive laws is only showing Iran they can continue that bullshit.
They actually do as Iranian law requires all women to wear headscarves. One of the Swedish diplomats even said she didn't want to wear one.
I rather think that it's really amazing to once again see how far some self-proclaimed liberals are willing to suddenly bend over backwards when it comes to defending oppressive theocracies and religious practices.
I am condemning the Iran government for having laws that force women to wear headscarves. And I am disappointed in the Swedish government - and any other government - going along with that when sending officials there.
Of course we should not only sent male envoys. We should sent the ones that we have appointed to the job, and in that appointment, gender should play no role in the choice. And when that envoy is then sent to a country, they should be treated the same as a male would, and otherwise that country should be called out for it.
I don't have a problem with diplomatic or economic ties with Iran, but those ties should be with the aim of also bettering the lives of people there, and going along with repressive laws is only showing Iran they can continue that bullshit.
We are not talking about all of Iran and their values, we are talking about a specific part of it. And in that case, Western values (or better said, just gender equality which should be a common value all around the world) do trump those of Iran.Why would you expect them to do that? Should Sweden be prepared to return the favour on the return visit? Or is it simply that western values trump those of Iran in all circumstances?
Please name it for what it is, not "cultural values" but oppressive laws. And I don't see it as totally unrealistic, as long as you work in a bloc. The EU is a massive economy and can arrange for their members to not give in to these things when dealing with Iran or other oppressive regimes.That is not a realistic position. You have two choices. Do not deal with Iran at all or deal with them and respect their customs when you visit.
Your cultural values are not theirs and you have no right to impose your values on another culture, as inequitable as that culture may appear to you or me.
If that diplomacy is for the greater good and the Swedish government here arranged for example to bring a progressive educational program to the country, or other things that would push for more freedoms and better human rights, I can be OK with that. But we are talking about selling a few buses to Iran companies. So apparently it is OK to bend over for oppressive laws as long as you make money off it.While I think your intention are noble, I also think you're being a bit naive in thinking that Iran would care at all about the political message that a country like Sweden would send out by not wearing scarves. I'd rather see successful diplomacy than making a point that would have no effect anyway.
When in Rome, abide by Roman laws.
No, but theocracies are typically far behind in terms of civil rights.
These countries are probably some of the worst in the world for women to live.
Saudi Arabia for example: https://youtu.be/LYNyJnOZdqg
Yes I'm aware, but can't diplomats basically say fuck it to those laws simply because they are diplomats?
...or don't go to Rome
Can you show me the post where anyone defends the way women are treated in Iran?
Just four posts in you can already find the first false equivalency playing it down as no big deal. Followed by many posts of "Well, it's just the status quo, deal with it" - how well do you think such a post would go over in other related threads?
...or don't go to Rome
While I think your intention are noble, I also think you're being a bit naive in thinking that Iran would care at all about the political message that a country like Sweden would send out by not wearing scarves. I'd rather see successful diplomacy than making a point that would have no effect anyway.
Yes I'm aware, but can't diplomats basically say fuck it to those laws simply because they are diplomats?
Can you show me the post where anyone defends the way women are treated in Iran?
When people talk about those countries, it is implied we are talking about their government, not individuals in the country.I'm well aware of Saudi Arabia, it's right next door, when my Mom wants to go to Saudi Arabia for shopping (or to go through them to another country), I have to accompany her because she's not allowed to drive there.
The whole "Western values" phrase is supremacist language. It seems that some people don't know the difference between the Saudi or Irani government and the people that live there. Both Saudi and Iran have some of the biggest leftist activity in the Middle East, one of them is actually inside Saudi dungeons right now.
As other have pointed out.
When Iranians visit other countries they don't shake hands with female officials.
They just want to use feminism and women as political weapons against Muslims and brown people.
We are not talking about all of Iran and their values, we are talking about a specific part of it. And in that case, Western values (or better said, just gender equality which should be a common value all around the world) do trump those of Iran.
We want countries to do that, don't we? Whether we expect them to is a whole other question, but if we don't even try to pressure them about it and just expect them to continue their misogynistic practices, we might as well pack it up and just stop any effort to spread human rights.
But then Rome comes to you and......
http://nytlive.nytimes.com/womenint...ed-for-iran-presidents-visit-to-roman-museum/
I read those posts as pretty much what I've been saying: the delegation is doing diplomacy, not making a huge political statement. In order to do diplomacy you should probably start wit not breaking the laws of the country you are doing diplomacy with. That's not defending Iran - that's being realistic.
When people talk about those countries, it is implied we are talking about their government, not individuals in the country.
Everybody knows that they did this because they have economic interests with Iran and want to close some business deals. Recognizing that is different from saying "Well it's the law of the land, they should stick to it and not be disrespectful", because that implies that somehow all cultural norms are equal which they clearly aren't in this case in regards to the treatment of women.
Also what is wrong with dressing like the country you visit expects of you? You can argue if the headscarve is oppresive or not. But that is another topic. In some countries it is expected man (and woman) dont show legs.. So when i visit such a country i wont wear shorts out of respect. Or in orthodox church a woman is supposed to cover her hear when entering the church. If i was a woman i would do that.