I have a paladin type character that I've really enjoyed. I found it quite rewarding for example when the Dark Brotherhood tried to initiate me. I also have plenty of quests that i have no intention of finishing on him because of what it tries to make you do. Just remember, even if it's a big quest or main quest trying to get you to do something you don't want your character doing, you can just not do it. There's nothing wrong with just not finishing those quests.
Yeah i think i just need to be a bit more mindful. This is my first time going through an RPG with a certain character type in mind instead of just going off and doing whatever the heck I felt like.