I rather feel sorry for Prime Spock in Abram's alternate universe. He's stuck in the past that is already far different from the past he knew and is no doubt moving to a totally different future. Essentially, all of Prime Spock's deeds and accomplishments are essentially abolished and never to exist - and apparently he's just stewing away on New Vulcan not doing much - and to top it all off most people will know Quinto Spock and his deeds going forward, which will be completely foreign to Prime Spock.
Unless one wants to argue that the Prime universe still actually exists - in a Fringe-ian sort of way - and that Prime Spock simply doesn't have the technology to actually both go forward in time and cross quantum universes.
Though you might feel sorry for him, I doubt Old Spock has the go to let it affect him other than sadness. Presumably he's doing good work on new Vulcan, and has faith in himself and his friends on-board the enterprise to carry on doing the right thing regardless of circumstance.
And we can argue the second point - officially - though it's had wavvy bullshit meant to placate the hardcore. I'm not sure how they rationalized it with episodes like Yesterday's Enterprise and First contact existing, but there we are.
Just got back from STID.
So good.
I wasn't expecting to like it as much as I did, and while I wouldn't say that it's of the quality of Wrath of Khan, relative to its time, it was a really really good summer film and even slightly more 'trek' like than its predecessor. I really liked how well Spock and Kirk were written, and particularly their friendship and exposition. I was worried that the film would have the 'your father was captain of a starship for 6 minutes' character expository dialogue to a minimum, but it actually had much much more of it over 09 and it was great. The characters felt like more mature, but still younger versions of themselves but they carried themselves in such a way that I felt like their eventual evolution into who we see in TOS
is never in question. This is Kirk, Spock, and Bones to the core.
I guess there are other better thread to talk about it in, but I'd honestly rather talk about it in some measure of detail in the hardcore trekkies thread where it wouldn't get as drown out, so I might. You are my people.
But even before that, they did a much better job refining the presentation of the new Enterprise. It looked far less bulbous than it did in 09, and had a very legitimate Trek look to it in profile. I even really liked the changes to the neck and hull, were as it looked awkward in 09.
Hopefully Star Trek 3 shows a return to the more colorful profile of 09. They actually did a fantastic job with the more muted palettes of ID, but the aesthetics of 09 just seemed a bit more classic Trek to me.