Yeah I know but it seemed for that choice the white one ended the conversation and was only good if you wanted something bad to happen to her instead of deciding which was the better option yourself. And I know Keira is supposed to be a side fling but I can't imagine anyone choosing the choice where he says he has someone else in mind unless they also read the books or something. They just kinda threw Yennefer in after 2 games and told me I'm expected to care about her. Idk. Just a minor gripe, I have no problem being a Witcher gigolo.
Edit: also should I install all the free dlc now or will it mess up the balance of the game?
They don't mess up the balance of the game too much (Only three armor sets (Nilfgaardian, Temerian and Undvik) and one Witcher set (Wolven set) ), so yes, you should download them all (The three crossbows you get from free DLC are useless)
If you don't like the alternate outfits, you can always turn them off in the DLC menu.