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The xsarien's Moving Thread: New York to San Francisco Edition

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xsarien

daedsiluap
In lovely FAQ form:

THE WHERE
The city by the bay; the city built on rock 'n' roll; home of The Grateful Dead, Jefferson Airplane, Journey, and close to a naval base in Alameda where they keep the nuclear wessels:

San Francisco, CA

THE WHY
This part will be filled in when IT isn't sniffing my packets (or picking my snackets).

THE WHEN
Probably within the next month or so. "Soon" doesn't even begin to cover it. Of course, being a geek, my first thought was "Finding the time to get a PSP at launch just became a huge pain in the ass."

THE HOW
Probably with a lot of stress, anxiety, and frequent flyer miles. Looking for an apartment isn't easy, nevermind from 3,000 miles away.

But seriously, it took about two months of detailed planning. Special thanks to Jinx and other friends outside of GAF for giving me a crash course in how to talk to people entreanched in bureaucracy. It was a little bit practical, a little bit following through on a long-standing goal of escaping winter.

Without getting into too many details, this was a win/win situation. My department, after reviewing my proposal, agreed that having someone in California physically - instead of controlling nearly everything remotely - would be a smart idea, and I never see winter again outside of holiday visits. ;)

My Republican, politics-as-football friends do joke that it's because I saw a chance to live in a city "bluer" than New York, and went for it. That couldn't be further from the truth, although it's a rather astute observation.

You're not just moving out there without a job, are you?
Not a chance. My company has an office in San Francisco, and I'll be working out of there. Thanks to the nature of what I do, the only thing that's really changing is the location of my desk.



Anyway, to paraphrase a massive e-mail I sent out late last week: I'm excited, but I'm also scared shitless. Show me someone who didn't have even a token amount of anxiety about a move as drastic as this, and I'll show you a liar. This isn't a cross-town move, this is a cross-country move. I do know some people from school (both college and high school) in San Francisco and the bay area, but not nearly as many as I do here in New York. It's going to be an adjustment, to say the least.

But let's not get too heavy here. Grief is best served to family members. ;) I know as much about San Francisco as a few short vacations long ago and Google can tell me. But I'm more interested in the other, non-Chamber of Commerce stuff. Good bars, good nightlife, how to play San Francisco Rules "Good Block, Bad Block," etc.

Anything and everything. Visitor to, or resident of San Francisco or the bay area? Dump it in this thread. I haven't been there since....Christ, Clinton was still in office. Hell, if you've moved as far as this, general pointers for keeping ones' sanity during the process will also be appreciated. :p
 

fennec fox

ferrets ferrets ferrets ferrets FERRETS!!!
San Francisco? It's expensive as hell!

Moving? Put stuff in boxes and have people take them away! Then spend a week or two unpacking!
 

DarienA

The black man everyone at Activision can agree on
fennec fox said:
San Francisco? It's expensive as hell!

Well the move is from NYC to San Fran, then xsarien should already be use to expensive living.
 

xsarien

daedsiluap
DarienA said:
Well the move is from NYC to San Fran, then xsarien should already be use to expensive living.

If I spend less than $8 on lunch at a deli, I come away thinking that I got a deal. :p
 

AstroLad

Hail to the KING baby
Good luck on your Tour of the Most Expensive Cities in the World!

Of course, part of the reason they're so expensive is because they're damn cool cities as long if you've got the money to pay the bills. :D
 

lexy

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Do you know what area of San Francisco you're going to be moving to or is it just "the Bay Area" at this point?
 

DarienA

The black man everyone at Activision can agree on
xsarien said:
If I spend less than $8 on lunch at a deli, I come away thinking that I got a deal. :p

I think I can do that here in DC... not counting fast food? Hmmm... no chance.
 

xsarien

daedsiluap
loxy said:
Do you know what area of San Francisco you're going to be moving to or is it just "the Bay Area" at this point?

The office is in the city proper, and that's where I plan on living. I'm still nailing down listings in specific neighborhoods, so if that's what you're looking for, um, ask me again in about two weeks. :)

I'm not dragging a car out there with me, nor do I plan on buying one once I'm settled. If I absoutely, positively need a car for something, I've got Enterprise's number. ;) I'm used to mass transit, and that's what I'd like to stick with. Hell, I'm not even going to take my computer in its current form, it's going to be rebuilt into a Shuttle or Antec Aria before I go. (It's a honkin' huge steel server case.)
 

AstroLad

Hail to the KING baby
DarienA said:
I think I can do that here in DC... not counting fast food? Hmmm... no chance.

That sucks, between falafels, pizza, etc. I can eat a huge-ass lunch cheap as hell in NYC. Of course since I pretty much always make my own food I wind up paying the inflated grocery store prices for everything, so they get me that way.
 

DarienA

The black man everyone at Activision can agree on
AstroLad said:
That sucks, between falafels, pizza, etc. I can eat a huge-ass lunch cheap as hell in NYC. Of course since I pretty much always make my own food I wind up paying the inflated grocery store prices for everything, so they get me that way.

Yeah that's the one thing about moving from working in Baltimore to DC, in Baltimore it was easy to score cheap lunches...
 

nitewulf

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bah, moving out of nyc? crazyness!
just kidding, i was considering applying to UC Berkley for grad school, and wouldn't mind moving to San Fransisco, or any of the other big cities there. the weather is much better.
good luck.
 
Turn back I say!

Cost of living is atrocious, but beautiful weather (unless you're moving to the Richmond) is abound. The worst we get is rain and wind, but last call is 2 AM. Horrible...
 

xsarien

daedsiluap
WasabiKing said:
Turn back I say!

Short of management coming down and issuing a Just Kidding Form (JK-402B), no, sorry. ;)

Cost of living is atrocious, but beautiful weather (unless you're moving to the Richmond) is abound. The worst we get is rain and wind, but last call is 2 AM. Horrible...

I can deal with the cost of living. It's obviously not cheap, but it's arguably cheaper than the New York/Metro area. So I'll live. Last call IS a bummer, but I don't think I've ever enjoyed drinking past 3am or so anyway. That's usually when I start hunting for some fast food or - better - someplace serving breakfast 24 hours a day.
 

skip

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yes, stay away from the richmond/sunset if you want to avoid the fog. (you do.)

noe valley, lower haight, and pacific heights seem to be decent, sunny neighborhoods. pac heights is expensive, though.
 

Rorschach

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...so is there a reason or is this just an impulsive decision with no real reason except "The weather sure is nice?"
 

xsarien

daedsiluap
Rorschach said:
...so is there a reason or is this just an impulsive decision with no real reason except "The weather sure is nice?"

A little bit of column A, a little bit of column B...

It was anything but spontaneous. It took me two months to nail something together that was rock solid, and took another two to get approved. It was slow, deliberate, and planned.
 
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