I don't know about all that Jaffe stuff, but I posted earlier in the thread that I was doing the same, and I did - dropped it after about three hours because of the instant fail stealth stuff. When they released the patch I tried it again - not sure what they changed, but it's really clicked this time and I'm having an absolute blast. I'm not sure it's what they changed; I think I just figured out how to play it better. Think I'll be buying the season pass now. I don't do all the 'my GOTY' hyperbole stuff, so don't know if I would say that.
Not aiming this part of the comment at you Gamer_By_Proxy, despite me quoting you, because I don't know your story, but gamers today are way too invested in seeing things fail. This seems like a decent game to me - and I'm not even a Star Wars fan. It has great atmosphere and does really well at making you feel a part of that world.