Brobzoid said:
What's the proper use of 'neither' and 'nor'? is it specifically relating to two items?
Example:
"I can't believe neither A Prophet nor The White Ribbon won best foreign film at the oscars"
Or do we use 'or' when comparing two items when using 'neither' and then use 'nor' to tack on a third?
Ex:
"I can't believe neither A Prophet or The White Ribbon won best foreign film at the oscars, nor that the cove got best documentary"
I'm using it like the first example, but I'm not real sure that I know what I'm doing...
In your first example, the use of can't, with neither makes that a double negative. My opinion is that you would/should just rephrase that entirely, such as:
"I'm stunned that neither A Prophet, nor The White Ribbon won best foreign film at the oscars."
neither/nor obviously relates to an exclusionary type statement in which both items are left out. either/or, then, relates to an inclusionary provision for one of the subjects/items.
Both can be used singularly/plurally, with the the according emphasis to complete the statement.
"I'm shocked that neither the one fan of The Blind Side, nor the many fans of Avatar
ARE upset by the obvious win for The Hurt Locker as best picture.
In your second example, you're combining a third component with the two singular/plural items which are acceptable in a neither/nor, either/or type statement. Your second statement should most likely read:
"I find it difficult to believe that neither The Prophet, nor The White Ribbon won best foreign film at the oscars; or that The Cove won for best documentary.