Wasn't ADWD more about them just wanting to get the book out ASAP after it taking so long & not having time to implement most of the editors notes/edits and less about GRRM just outright ignoring her?
There's a reddit post about some of the notes:
https://www.reddit.com/r/asoiaf/comments/2rtcaa/i_went_to_the_cushing_library_and_went_through/