junesongprovider
Neo Member
It would be both inaccurate and disrespectful to use male pronouns, even when talking about her past. What someone has done or intends to do or not do is irrelevant; she’s stated that she identifies as a woman, and that’s all you need to know.
That's pretty much the conclusion I came to. I just wanted to acknowledge that it feels a little weird to switch over to the feminine pronouns. I primarily brought it up because during a texting conversation with RoboPlato earlier, I found myself using "he" and "him", just out of habit, because I was referring to someone that up until now I knew as a man. But it did feel wrong to refer to her with masculine pronouns, which is what got me thinking about it.
I just thought that the pronoun transition was an interesting side effect of her coming out.