Unfaithful GAF, tell me your story

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You need to be in a relationship of some kind in order to be unfaithful

... that about sums up my ability to take part in this thread. Will follow and read with great interest though! ha
 
Worst I ever did was make out with another girl when I had a girlfriend. I felt horrible about it, told her, and a few months later she fucked another dude.

The relationship didn't work.
 
I would! But i haven't cheated!

Closest was after à breakup when I was with her lesbian best friend... This was two days after breakup.
 
Oh man, I bet there are a ton of gaffers with their pitchforks sharpened and torches ready to be lit just waiting for this thread to kick in. Should be fun.
 
The most tragic thing about unfaithful partners isn't necessarily the relationship in itself ending, but the lasting impact it can have in the mindset of the one who was cheated on. I remember many years ago reading a message board comment (cant remember what the topic was) of a man revealing that his last three relationships had ended because they had cheated each time. Goodness knows how he's coped with that, but I cant imagine his future relationships to have been easy.
 
She found my cell phone. October 17th 2011...

Had pics.. and DVD quality video.. texts as well..

Never checked my phone in the past. Something had her thinkin though...

doh :\

Tough price, life lessons learned. Would never do it again. The hurt in her eyes still haunts me today.
 
She found my cell phone. October 17th 2011...

Had pics.. and DVD quality video.. texts as well..

Never checked my phone in the past. Something had her thinkin though...

doh :\

Tough price, life lessons learned. Would never do it again. The hurt in her eyes still haunts me today.

Very nicely done! I used to like checking out my friends' phones hopin they were the type that took dirty pictures of their girls. You'd be a good friend.
 
Very nicely done! I used to like checking out my friends' phones hopin they were the type that took dirty pictures of their girls. You'd be a good friend.

Yea, was hard to deny that... but eh. We are at least friends now, been a while. She wants to meet and talk about things.. kinda weird turn of events.

Hopefully she doesn't shoot me?
 
I cheated on my high school girlfriend when we went to separate colleges. Freshman year I met a girl in my chemistry class. We hit it off and eventually ended up in her place one night. Just making out and heavy petting, but I felt like shit the next day. I broke up with my high school gf ASAP. I tried to let her down as easily as possible. "Not you, it's me. Distance is too difficult. I'm a weak person". I didn't mention the other girl of course. I hope she didn't find out.

I was young and dumb. I should have broken things off, but I was too short sighted. Just a mean thing to do.

Spent all of college with the girl that I cheated with.

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If it makes judging GAF happy, I got completely crushed by the college girl right before we graduated. Karma!
 
Yea, was hard to deny that... but eh. We are at least friends now, been a while. She wants to meet and talk about things.. kinda weird turn of events.

Hopefully she doesn't shoot me?

Talk about what? The weather? Just ignore her, or reprimand her for living in the past.
 
Moar!!! Did she find out?

Yeah. Some dummy posted pics of me with my arms around her on Facebook. Girlfriend saw them and came to the conclusion that I had sex with her. I told her I just made out with her! She was upset but I told her that I didn't even think we were exclusive at the time. I apologized, we became exclusive, and that relationship lasted four more years!

not too exciting. sorry fanboi
 
I think this should lead to a healthy internet discussion on monogamy vs. non-monogamy.

I'm here to help.

Edit: To actually add to the thread, I've had two opportunities in the past, but never gone through with it. The idea is always easier to agree to than the actual act, especially when you have a raging boner.

I have been cheated on. I slept with her sister to get back at her and that was a bad idea. Her sister was batshit insane.
 
I was dating a married woman for a while. Does that count? She and her husband separated while I was seeing her but the two times I hung around drinking beer with her husband were mildly awkward.
 
Talk about what? The weather? Just ignore her, or reprimand her for living in the past.

Yeaaaa... this is just happening now, so a few thoughts crossing my mind. I'm over my guilt, and accept it for what it is. Been dating, pretty fond of a gal... wow writing this makes it so obvious now.

Personally, I wouldn't mind seeing her. But I do have a bit of my gut saying its pointless, and it will serve no real positive purpose. We've had our closure(hooking up afterwards).. and she has a tendency to want to stay in touch with x's, shes 41 to my 29. I don't wanna make this a regular thing... and I don't want to be a friend of hers, as its still a bit hard to see what was, in her face now. I said yes to meeting up for coffee, she suggested dinner @ her place..

It might be hurting her again, or opening a new wound for both of us. I'm just in shock that she is the one that is initiating tings like this.

I guess I do have a problem with 0% communication. I feel like a bit of an asshole for doing it... and did it for a while.

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Told her I didn't really want to talk to her. And well, we are here now. She ignored it slightly....
 
Yeaaaa... this is just happening now, so a few thoughts crossing my mind. I'm over my guilt, and accept it for what it is. Been dating, pretty fond of a gal... wow writing this makes it so obvious now.

Personally, I wouldn't mind seeing her. But I do have a bit of my gut saying its pointless, and it will serve no real positive purpose. We've had our closure(hooking up afterwards).. and she has a tendency to want to stay in touch with x's, shes 41 to my 29. I don't wanna make this a regular thing... and I don't want to be a friend of hers, as its still a bit hard to see what was, in her face now. I said yes to meeting up for coffee, she suggested dinner @ her place..

It might be hurting her again, or opening a new wound for both of us. I'm just in shock that she is the one that is initiating tings like this.

I guess I do have a problem with 0% communication. I feel like a bit of an asshole for doing it... and did it for a while.

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Told her I didn't really want to talk to her. And well, we are here now. She ignored it slightly....

Damn.. that sounds pretty scandalous.. and sexy.. maybe you should see what she wants. And then report back in this thread when you destroy it and make your current girl feel like shit.
 
I was young broke and living in what we call in the UK a homeless hostel. I don't know what you yanks would call it, but anyway, my only light, best friend and all that in between was supporting me. (not financially, just mentally). At times I hated her guts because she would never give up on me and just move on, but at the same time i felt i needed her. However, after a set of setbacks in her own life, she began to be increasing irratble, withdrawn and bad tempered. i tried to be there for her as she was me but it just decended into shouting matches and arguements. The main issue was that i had a real close female friend she didnt like and that I lived 20 miles away (a stones throw really, but I used to live practically on her doorstep)

I didnt feel stro0ng enough to end it, because i felt i needed her but I was drifiting away from her at the same time. Up pops a new girl in my hostel, who basically made it clear from day one she wanted me. We ended up doing the do and my girl found out. Not my finest hour.

But it gets worse.


instead of just dumping me, my girl (who at this point was kinda co-dependant on me too) stuck me in a weird situation. Basically she was free to do exactly what she pleased, but at the same time she was still seeing me and having sex with me, hanging the carrot of us getting back together over my head. meanwhile the new girl, who I had told over the phone to basically fuck off, to get back in my exes good books, still for whatever mad reason wanted me. as I was sorta single, i ended up seeing both of them for a few months, which culminated with them both getting pregnant for me within a week of each other. Call it good luck, bad luck karma or fate, they both lost the babies.


to this day neither of them know how far things went with the other girl after they initally found out about each other.

thats the last time i really cheated as such, although Ive had sex with other women, when ive been on "breaks" with other girls, but its been all above board - no sneaking around.
 
I fucked up and still feel horrible about it even though we are not together anymore. One of the worst things I have ever done to another human being.
 
Damn.. that sounds pretty scandalous.. and sexy.. maybe you should see what she wants. And then report back in this thread when you destroy it and make your current girl feel like shit.

Eh, its just trouble. And writing it does make it that abundantly clear. I wouldn't want the current girl doing this to me.. Yeah... Its not about me. Its about how it would make someone else feel...

need to tell her No. This woman is like, my definition of beauty and sexuality. Clouds the judgement a bit. Never thought I'd have this problem, thats for sure. Prepared for her to forget me and leave me behind.
 
Just an addage to my story. My original girlfriend and I did get back together eventually, just for her to then go and cheat with her boss and get preganant again.

why that was ironic was that my previous ex had done the exactly the same thing.

someone this wrote on my FB wall and it sums things up nicely

"Bitch -> fucks over -> nice guy -> turns into -> asshole -> fucks over -> nice girl -> turns into -> Bitch. It's a never ending cycle."
 
Love my pain in the ass wife too much like I don't understand how one night can be worth losing your best friend over

I'm with you 100%. Lost my best friend/boyfriend of four years over suspicions which turned into assumptions. It was apparently worth it for him though based on what I hear from a mutual friend, his family, and what people tell me they see on Facebook (he blocked me).
 
Came sort of close once like 5 years ago when I got reeeaaallly drunk off absinthe. But I came to my senses and left before anything could have even started.
 
Anybody brave enough to share their cheating story in this thread officially has ONE WEEK to fess up.

im confused.. are you just promoting your thread, or are you suggesting we cross post?


and while cheating is never justified, miss me with the "worse thing you could do to another human being" nonsense. Id rather be cheated on in every relationship from now till the day i die, compared to being tortured or murdered.

it hurts for a while, you shrug and you move on.
 
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