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[Ninja Beagle]

I dated a girl for 4 years. Last 2 years of high school and the first 2 years of college. Loved the girl to death. She lived on campus while I lived at home, still only 20 mins away. Found out she cheated with a dude on the college baseball team, she claims they only made out. Regardless, I was too heart broken so I dumped her on the spot.

One month passed and we get together for a fling or two and I asked her how many guys shes been with since we broke up. She was honest and said 3, 3 different frat dude bros. I told her to leave my apartment and I never talked to her again. This was 10 years ago and I'm still slightly heart broken. Kinda pisses me off just typing this.


grrrrr

 

[Izayoi]

Oh cool, a whole thread dedicated to NTR.

You never disappoint me, GAF.

 

[-COOLIO-]

Hm.. I mean.. here's some general comments. This is a thread where we share stories and, for the most part, people make an effort to not judge others, at least in written form. You type up an interesting story that's fun to read and a good contribution to the thread, but you sandwich it in between telling us how unbelievably awesome you are and how unbelievably terrible we, your readers, are. There are a million posts and posters here, I honestly have no idea who you are but random dude #52345 on gaf. You choose to bring up your posting history (and I do now remember reading that insurance thread) for absolutely no reason other than to show you have an insecurity over how you're viewed on an internet forum.

The truth is no one here has any reason to doubt, or believe, anything anyone posts. Excluding obvious examples, we take everything everyone here writes at face value because we have no real way to verify it. You can tell us you've driven expensive cars, eaten the finest of foods, slept with 100 women at the same time, and all I can do is make a split decision about whether it's bullshit or not and move on to the next post. Now I'm not saying I don't believe your post, I'm saying your post comes off as someone who is trying to justify in every which way that if someone don't read this post as "wow this guy is so cool" then they're a jealous, hating, judgmental loser.

I'm assuming you're a younger person in life, so here's some simple advice - chill out. I'm sure you've lead an interesting life, but so have others, some more interesting than your's. There's no reason to make it into a competition, especially not in a pointless arena like GAF.

Wow,nice post.

 

[saltinekracka]

I would never cheat on my wife. She's the most amazing and beautiful woman I've ever met or ever will meet. No other woman is worth my time.

 

[Bleepey]

I dated a girl for 4 years. Last 2 years of high school and the first 2 years of college. Loved the girl to death. She lived on campus while I lived at home, still only 20 mins away. Found out she cheated with a dude on the college baseball team, she claims they only made out. Regardless, I was too heart broken so I dumped her on the spot.

One month passed and we get together for a fling or two and I asked her how many guys shes been with since we broke up. She was honest and said 3, 3 different frat dude bros. I told her to leave my apartment and I never talked to her again. This was 10 years ago and I'm still slightly heart broken. Kinda pisses me off just typing this.


grrrrr

Was it the fact she was fucking over dudes or was it the number?

 

[Ninja Beagle]

Was it the fact she was fucking over dudes or was it the number?

Both but to be honest probably more so the number. I was shocked by the fact it didn't take her too long to move on and get right down to business.

 

[Poindexter]

I cheated on an ex before. She also cheated on me at the same time. When I met up with her like a year later I made her feel bad about cheating so I could sleep with her again. Then I stopped answering her calls after.

 

[I'm an expert]

Wow,nice post.

Yeah I'm not known for them so I figured I'd add one or two to my resume.

 

[commedieu]

i can get pretty much get any girl to cheat. i have the looks, the body, and the charm for it. consider it a blessing, but i had literally NO game as a child.

one time, maybe a few years ago, i went over to fuck this one lady. we've been using each other for booty calls for a little over a year, but this is the first time i actually went to her house. it was around 10am and her husband had just left for work. she invited me in, and we were making out and caressing each other when we hear the front door burst open. the dude yells out something about forgetting his wallet, so she throws me under the bed. i'm watching as the guy comes back into the bedroom with his shiny brown leather shoes walking around looking for his wallet. i'm praying my ass off he doesn't need to look underneath the bed. my heart is racing! i'm sure the guy was much older, at least in his 30s or 40s while i was only about 18 at the time.

thankfully i don't get caught and i continue getting that sweet married pussy.

i've charmed young girls that have never had a lover like me, to older women bored of their current stale relationship. i've had women that PAY ME for sex or just even a blowjob. you read that right, i've been PAID just for going over and giving them some good dick. one girl from los angeles, a nurse, had been paying me anywhere from a couple of $20s to a couple of $100s. not because i'm a whore, but because they legitimately wanted to buy me nice things as a thank you. i may cause them to cheat, but i don't dog anyone and treat every girl with respect.

and yes, i've had two girls at once. more than once. be jealous

i would share more stories, because honestly i've had a really crazy life. but generally speaking, GAF is filled with hating ass judgemental assholes who still think i'm some fucking punk ass insurance scammer. oh, and apparently it's funny that i think men should be able to drive their families around and not rely on buses. lmfao. losers on this site make me laugh

As a gaf member, I just have to chime in here:

This is the douchiest post I've ever read on Neogaf. I mean, lets say you're lying... The lie isn't that exciting in the first place. Lets say you're telling the truth, you're bragging about something rather common, in a world of unfaithful peeps. Secret gifts, driving married womens cars, etc, are all part of the game. It makes it secret, and sexy to them. Most women that cheat are looking for excitement. Its exciting that way.

I think you dog yourself and the people who have let you sleep with them with this portrayal. The crazy thing, is that the guy that fucked his cousin(s) seemed more exciting than this entire post. It didn't come off as someone bragging to a bunch of internet losers... and it didn't sound like he was saying it to himself in the mirror either.

 

[FallingEdge]

i can get pretty much get any girl to cheat. i have the looks, the body, and the charm for it. consider it a blessing, but i had literally NO game as a child.

one time, maybe a few years ago, i went over to fuck this one lady. we've been using each other for booty calls for a little over a year, but this is the first time i actually went to her house. it was around 10am and her husband had just left for work. she invited me in, and we were making out and caressing each other when we hear the front door burst open. the dude yells out something about forgetting his wallet, so she throws me under the bed. i'm watching as the guy comes back into the bedroom with his shiny brown leather shoes walking around looking for his wallet. i'm praying my ass off he doesn't need to look underneath the bed. my heart is racing! i'm sure the guy was much older, at least in his 30s or 40s while i was only about 18 at the time.

thankfully i don't get caught and i continue getting that sweet married pussy.

i've charmed young girls that have never had a lover like me, to older women bored of their current stale relationship. i've had women that PAY ME for sex or just even a blowjob. you read that right, i've been PAID just for going over and giving them some good dick. one girl from los angeles, a nurse, had been paying me anywhere from a couple of $20s to a couple of $100s. not because i'm a whore, but because they legitimately wanted to buy me nice things as a thank you. i may cause them to cheat, but i don't dog anyone and treat every girl with respect.

and yes, i've had two girls at once. more than once. be jealous

i would share more stories, because honestly i've had a really crazy life. but generally speaking, GAF is filled with hating ass judgemental assholes who still think i'm some fucking punk ass insurance scammer. oh, and apparently it's funny that i think men should be able to drive their families around and not rely on buses. lmfao. losers on this site make me laugh

how much can you squat bro?

 

[The Anti-Monitor]

and yes, i've had two girls at once. more than once. be jealous

Whoa, what an alpha male.

 

[I'm an expert]

how much can you squat bro?

Dude I haven't been in fitness gaf for a week cause of an injury but we all know you squat like 135 and press even less. GOMLLLLL

 

[FallingEdge]

Dude I haven't been in fitness gaf for a week cause of an injury but we all know you squat like 135 and press even less. GOMLLLLL

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

why must you hurt me so?

 

[speedline]

Dude I haven't been in fitness gaf for a week cause of an injury but we all know you squat like 135 and press even less. GOMLLLLL

LoL, who has time to work out when you are getting so much married pussy?!

 

[OriginofHysteria]

i can get pretty much get any girl to cheat. i have the looks, the body, and the charm for it. consider it a blessing, but i had literally NO game as a child.

one time, maybe a few years ago, i went over to fuck this one lady. we've been using each other for booty calls for a little over a year, but this is the first time i actually went to her house. it was around 10am and her husband had just left for work. she invited me in, and we were making out and caressing each other when we hear the front door burst open. the dude yells out something about forgetting his wallet, so she throws me under the bed. i'm watching as the guy comes back into the bedroom with his shiny brown leather shoes walking around looking for his wallet. i'm praying my ass off he doesn't need to look underneath the bed. my heart is racing! i'm sure the guy was much older, at least in his 30s or 40s while i was only about 18 at the time.

thankfully i don't get caught and i continue getting that sweet married pussy.

i've charmed young girls that have never had a lover like me, to older women bored of their current stale relationship. i've had women that PAY ME for sex or just even a blowjob. you read that right, i've been PAID just for going over and giving them some good dick. one girl from los angeles, a nurse, had been paying me anywhere from a couple of $20s to a couple of $100s. not because i'm a whore, but because they legitimately wanted to buy me nice things as a thank you. i may cause them to cheat, but i don't dog anyone and treat every girl with respect.

and yes, i've had two girls at once. more than once. be jealous

i would share more stories, because honestly i've had a really crazy life. but generally speaking, GAF is filled with hating ass judgemental assholes who still think i'm some fucking punk ass insurance scammer. oh, and apparently it's funny that i think men should be able to drive their families around and not rely on buses. lmfao. losers on this site make me laugh

I lol'd at the extreme tool vibe I was getting from this. I dont mind the stories all that much but the fact that this guy is telling people to be jealous and giving the underlying tone that he's better than ppl on GAF is hilarious.

Also I don't cheat, but its also not a bad thing to keep some relievers in the bullpen in case your starting pitcher messes up.

 

[I'm an expert]

LoL, who has time to work out when you are getting so much married pussy?!

be jealous, son

 

[coldvein]

do you really want to hear my story? nah...

 

[SmackDaddy]

the thought of cheating on someone i care about makes me sick.

I think I'm one of them "people pleasers" that people say is a psychological disorder or something. I genuinely don't want to hurt those close to me.

Also been cheated on twice. That helps! But If I would cheat.... It'd be in the butt.

 

[pompidu]

I've never cheated but I've been cheated on.

Was together with my first gf for about 6 years. Somewhere around 2 years she started seeing her ex behind my back. At the time I was working full time and she was working part time so she had plenty of free time. We weren't living together and him having his own place and her parents being gone all day gave her plenty of free time to do whatever.

About 3 years in my friend saw her driving around in a different town. I asked her what she was doing and she would say shopping or what ever. This guy lived in that town.

One night she came over and says she lost her phone at the beach the night before. I asked with who, and she told me her ex and that they just met to talk. I shoulda known then something was going on but I was oblivious.

About 5 years into the relationship, she really wanted to move to Charlotte North Carolina. A place I've always wanted to move to. Little did I know her ex recently moved down there (I knew nothing about this guys personal life). We went down there to visit and look at apartments and even choose one we would like to live in.

Around 6 years in our relationship was really unstable and our plans to nice to NC were becoming more difficult to do financially. One day I found one of her flash drives she must have forgot at my house. I decided to investigate.

Inside the flash drive was a text file full of AIM messages of conversations between her and her ex. Stuff like I love you, where they were planning to meet. Talking about dinner plans and taking short trips. Really heart breaking shit. I called her, cussed her out, called her dirty names.

The worst part about all of this was her parents and friends knew about this. Friends that were my friends (not my close friends, more here friends)! I was even more upset with her parents who I was very close with because they never had the courtesy to tell me. Everyone keept a secret from me for 3 years.

So basically she didn't love me, used me for my money and was a bitch the entire time.

 

[Friggz]

Damn.. that sounds pretty scandalous.. and sexy.. maybe you should see what she wants. And then report back in this thread when you destroy it and make your current girl feel like shit.

Yeah, it sounds pretty awesome. Is the "pics or it didnt happen line" too played out?

 

[coldvein]

ive cheated on people who i care about and love. more than once. GOD DAMNIT

 

[OriginofHysteria]

I've never cheated but I've been cheated on.

Was together with my first gf for about 6 years. Somewhere around 2 years she started seeing her ex behind my back. At the time I was working full time and she was working part time so she had plenty of free time. We weren't living together and him having his own place and her parents being gone all day gave her plenty of free time to do whatever.

About 3 years in my friend saw her driving around in a different town. I asked her what she was doing and she would say shopping or what ever. This guy lived in that town.

One night she came over and says she lost her phone at the beach the night before. I asked with who, and she told me her ex and that they just met to talk. I shoulda known then something was going on but I was oblivious.

About 5 years into the relationship, she really wanted to move to Charlotte North Carolina. A place I've always wanted to move to. Little did I know her ex recently moved down there (I knew nothing about this guys personal life). We went down there to visit and look at apartments and even choose one we would like to live in.

Around 6 years in our relationship was really unstable and our plans to nice to NC were becoming more difficult to do financially. One day I found one of her flash drives she must have forgot at my house. I decided to investigate.

Inside the flash drive was a text file full of AIM messages of conversations between her and her ex. Stuff like I love you, where they were planning to meet. Talking about dinner plans and taking short trips. Really heart breaking shit. I called her, cussed her out, called her dirty names.

The worst part about all of this was her parents and friends knew about this. Friends that were my friends (not my close friends, more here friends)! I was even more upset with her parents who I was very close with because they never had the courtesy to tell me. Everyone keept a secret from me for 3 years.

So basically she didn't love me, used me for my money and was a bitch the entire time.

This is why I don't date girls who still keep in contact with their ex. I'm surprised that you were able to put up with that for three years, and its a shit move by all parties (not you). From the parents to the friends to her and to her ex.

 

[Artemisia]

i can get pretty much get any girl to cheat. i have the looks, the body, and the charm for it. consider it a blessing, but i had literally NO game as a child.

one time, maybe a few years ago, i went over to fuck this one lady. we've been using each other for booty calls for a little over a year, but this is the first time i actually went to her house. it was around 10am and her husband had just left for work. she invited me in, and we were making out and caressing each other when we hear the front door burst open. the dude yells out something about forgetting his wallet, so she throws me under the bed. i'm watching as the guy comes back into the bedroom with his shiny brown leather shoes walking around looking for his wallet. i'm praying my ass off he doesn't need to look underneath the bed. my heart is racing! i'm sure the guy was much older, at least in his 30s or 40s while i was only about 18 at the time.

thankfully i don't get caught and i continue getting that sweet married pussy.

i've charmed young girls that have never had a lover like me, to older women bored of their current stale relationship. i've had women that PAY ME for sex or just even a blowjob. you read that right, i've been PAID just for going over and giving them some good dick. one girl from los angeles, a nurse, had been paying me anywhere from a couple of $20s to a couple of $100s. not because i'm a whore, but because they legitimately wanted to buy me nice things as a thank you. i may cause them to cheat, but i don't dog anyone and treat every girl with respect.

and yes, i've had two girls at once. more than once. be jealous

i would share more stories, because honestly i've had a really crazy life. but generally speaking, GAF is filled with hating ass judgemental assholes who still think i'm some fucking punk ass insurance scammer. oh, and apparently it's funny that i think men should be able to drive their families around and not rely on buses. lmfao. losers on this site make me laugh

you're so cool man!

 

[NotTheGuyYouKill]

i can get pretty much get any girl to cheat. i have the looks, the body, and the charm for it. consider it a blessing, but i had literally NO game as a child.

one time, maybe a few years ago, i went over to fuck this one lady. we've been using each other for booty calls for a little over a year, but this is the first time i actually went to her house. it was around 10am and her husband had just left for work. she invited me in, and we were making out and caressing each other when we hear the front door burst open. the dude yells out something about forgetting his wallet, so she throws me under the bed. i'm watching as the guy comes back into the bedroom with his shiny brown leather shoes walking around looking for his wallet. i'm praying my ass off he doesn't need to look underneath the bed. my heart is racing! i'm sure the guy was much older, at least in his 30s or 40s while i was only about 18 at the time.

thankfully i don't get caught and i continue getting that sweet married pussy.

i've charmed young girls that have never had a lover like me, to older women bored of their current stale relationship. i've had women that PAY ME for sex or just even a blowjob. you read that right, i've been PAID just for going over and giving them some good dick. one girl from los angeles, a nurse, had been paying me anywhere from a couple of $20s to a couple of $100s. not because i'm a whore, but because they legitimately wanted to buy me nice things as a thank you. i may cause them to cheat, but i don't dog anyone and treat every girl with respect.

and yes, i've had two girls at once. more than once. be jealous

i would share more stories, because honestly i've had a really crazy life. but generally speaking, GAF is filled with hating ass judgemental assholes who still think i'm some fucking punk ass insurance scammer. oh, and apparently it's funny that i think men should be able to drive their families around and not rely on buses. lmfao. losers on this site make me laugh

You're an insurance scammer? That's pretty X-TREME.

I'll need to investigate further.

 

[Messypandas]

...

i want to be you when i grow up

 

[Seanspeed]

Most women that cheat are looking for excitement.

From personal experience, I'd say its largely insecurity.

 

[shadyspace]

A guy fucked his cousin?

 

[shinobi602]

i can get pretty much get any girl to cheat. i have the looks, the body, and the charm for it. consider it a blessing, but i had literally NO game as a child.

one time, maybe a few years ago, i went over to fuck this one lady. we've been using each other for booty calls for a little over a year, but this is the first time i actually went to her house. it was around 10am and her husband had just left for work. she invited me in, and we were making out and caressing each other when we hear the front door burst open. the dude yells out something about forgetting his wallet, so she throws me under the bed. i'm watching as the guy comes back into the bedroom with his shiny brown leather shoes walking around looking for his wallet. i'm praying my ass off he doesn't need to look underneath the bed. my heart is racing! i'm sure the guy was much older, at least in his 30s or 40s while i was only about 18 at the time.

thankfully i don't get caught and i continue getting that sweet married pussy.

i've charmed young girls that have never had a lover like me, to older women bored of their current stale relationship. i've had women that PAY ME for sex or just even a blowjob. you read that right, i've been PAID just for going over and giving them some good dick. one girl from los angeles, a nurse, had been paying me anywhere from a couple of $20s to a couple of $100s. not because i'm a whore, but because they legitimately wanted to buy me nice things as a thank you. i may cause them to cheat, but i don't dog anyone and treat every girl with respect.

and yes, i've had two girls at once. more than once. be jealous

i would share more stories, because honestly i've had a really crazy life. but generally speaking, GAF is filled with hating ass judgemental assholes who still think i'm some fucking punk ass insurance scammer. oh, and apparently it's funny that i think men should be able to drive their families around and not rely on buses. lmfao. losers on this site make me laugh

 

[Mr. Robot]

Been with my girl for over 2 years a day I can't imagine cheating. I wanna marry this woman.

Though she kinda mentions sometimes that she feels bad I never dated around or had experiences with other women. She tells me a few single cheats wouldn't hurt before we get married later on but I always tell her I would never betray her.

She hasn't cheated and we're eventually moving in together.

This thread hurts to read and imagine anything like this ever happens

Chances are, she wants you to get even before you two marry so she doesn´t feel like shit, no girl in the world would like their guy to do that, coincidentally i had a GF years ago that would tell me similar things, later i found out that she was a whore that hung out with every guy that hit on her...

the worst thing of all is that she wants you to do a few single cheats.

 

[pompidu]

This is why I don't date girls who still keep in contact with their ex. I'm surprised that you were able to put up with that for three years, and its a shit move by all parties (not you). From the parents to the friends to her and to her ex.

I didn't know she was still in touch with her ex. I only found out about that was them meeting at the beach. All this other shit was something I had no idea about until I found that text file with the chat logs after being together 6 years. Worst part is that when he moved, she was plotting to follow him there. Like I said I knew nothing about him moving away or anything. I was about to up and leave all my friends and family to move with her down south so she could continue being with this guy behind my back. I did write a letter to her parents saying thank you for everything they have done for me but also telling them I was disappointed in them for not bringing this to me. I'm currently in an amazing relationship with a new girl who is the exact opposite of my ex. Happy ending at least.

 

[Mr. Robot]

the thought of cheating on someone i care about makes me sick.

I think I'm one of them "people pleasers" that people say is a psychological disorder or something. I genuinely don't want to hurt those close to me.

Also been cheated on twice. That helps! But If I would cheat.... It'd be in the butt.

Are you female? and are you talking about your butt?

Also i was reading Slick7rick´s post with Chefs voice

 

[GungHo]

A guy fucked his cousin?

It fell in