It's called being a decent human being. It's only a shame that expressing such an honest appreciation for your significant other might be construed as unrealistic or sappy. Goes to show how incapable many people are when it comes to truly loving another person and putting aside their basest, most selfish desires.
Unfaithful GAF, tell me your story
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It's called being a decent human being. It's only a shame that expressing such an honest appreciation for your significant other might be construed as unrealistic or sappy. Goes to show how incapable many people are when it comes to truly loving another person and putting aside their basest, most selfish desires.
Bay Maximus
Banned
It almost seems like a cruel joke to make people so possessive yet so easily enticed.
nVidiot_Whore
Banned
Had a lot of problems with faithfulness in my teens.
Mommy issues combined with being somewhat of a sexual deviant. The details would sound like a bad teen novel combined with a Jerry Springer episode. Lots of sleeping with my girl's best friend, fucked the girlfriend of a friend or 2, etc.
For the most part grew out of it.. but I still enjoy sex with lots of partners. My girlfriend enjoys me having sex with lots of partners.. works for me.
I have some "excuses" for my behavior (a history of abuse) but I still to this day feel horrible about every instance of infidelity and I put excuses in quotes because I believe there isn't any excuse for it.. just explanations that don't involve being a base horrible person.. dealt with my problems and now I'm an incredibly honest person and very unlikely to "cheat" because of it.
Mommy issues combined with being somewhat of a sexual deviant. The details would sound like a bad teen novel combined with a Jerry Springer episode. Lots of sleeping with my girl's best friend, fucked the girlfriend of a friend or 2, etc.
For the most part grew out of it.. but I still enjoy sex with lots of partners. My girlfriend enjoys me having sex with lots of partners.. works for me.
I have some "excuses" for my behavior (a history of abuse) but I still to this day feel horrible about every instance of infidelity and I put excuses in quotes because I believe there isn't any excuse for it.. just explanations that don't involve being a base horrible person.. dealt with my problems and now I'm an incredibly honest person and very unlikely to "cheat" because of it.
Labombadog
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Such a sad turn of events. :\
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Poindexter
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Same rules apply to both IMO.
If it was an emotional affair I'd be hurt by both the same
If it was purely physical and she told me about it I'd be turned on either way.
It's something that excites both of us and we love to talk about it. But we both know how much it can (and probably will) change our relationship so we haven't gone for it yet. One day I'm certain one of us will do it.
I can't even imagine cheating on my wife. We have some heated disagreements, but we akways work it out. If there is one advice I can give to people in marriage: never go to sleep angry with your spouse. Meaning if u have to stay up until 3:00 in the morning to work things out then do that.
Marriage ain't easy peasy. You gotta fight for it sometimes.
For those who have cheated already, there's always the next relationship to try and be a better. No judgment.
Marriage ain't easy peasy. You gotta fight for it sometimes.
For those who have cheated already, there's always the next relationship to try and be a better. No judgment.
FireStarter
Banned
Same thing happened to me.
ReBurn
Gold Member
The internet is forever, and not nearly as anonymous as a lot of us would like to believe. I don't know why anyone would confess anything.
When I was in high school forever ago I drove this girl home after work and she came on to me. She took off her top on the drive and she had really big boobs. It didn't go any farther than that, though. She was a tease and I was pretty stunned. I didn't tell my girlfriend. She wouldn't have liked it, I'm sure.
When I was in high school forever ago I drove this girl home after work and she came on to me. She took off her top on the drive and she had really big boobs. It didn't go any farther than that, though. She was a tease and I was pretty stunned. I didn't tell my girlfriend. She wouldn't have liked it, I'm sure.
I slept with a girl who was cheating on her long-term boyfriend with me. I didn't know him, but saw pictures of them together and he looked like a really nice mild-mannered kind of guy. Made me feel bad.
Even worse was that right after, she broke up with him so we could keep messing around guilt free. I had no intention of really dating this girl, but we ended up hanging out for a month or so before I finally put an end to it. She cried and everything. She was a really cool chick and we got along great, but I just didn't want anything long term at the time and that's where it was headed so I had to be honest with myself and her. Felt bad man.
And to throw salt on her wound, after ending it because I didn't want anything long term, I started seeing a new girl a week later and now we're married. Worked out pretty great for me though.
Edit: Fun fact I just realized-- my avatar is a pic of me and that chick together, but with her obviously cropped out. And now we're full circle.
Even worse was that right after, she broke up with him so we could keep messing around guilt free. I had no intention of really dating this girl, but we ended up hanging out for a month or so before I finally put an end to it. She cried and everything. She was a really cool chick and we got along great, but I just didn't want anything long term at the time and that's where it was headed so I had to be honest with myself and her. Felt bad man.
And to throw salt on her wound, after ending it because I didn't want anything long term, I started seeing a new girl a week later and now we're married. Worked out pretty great for me though.
Edit: Fun fact I just realized-- my avatar is a pic of me and that chick together, but with her obviously cropped out. And now we're full circle.
not threatened at all. my woman's allowed to sleep w/women if she feels like it.
yup, more proof that God is a fuckin' troll lol.
ZackusMaximus
Banned
or like, you know, evolution.
I've never cheated on anyone. I do have an ex that claims her male friend brought her home late after she puked at a club and spent the night in her bed. But "nothing happened". Yea fucking right. She broke up with me the day after it happened, then we got back together with me 2 days later. She failed to mention the guy sleeping in her bed until 5 seconds after she got back together with me. I was so utterly drained and confused both mentally and emotionally that I couldn't process it. Eventually it destroyed my trust in her and made me jealous and paranoid to the point that the relationship never fully recovered.
She dumped me again out of the blue a few months later. I wonder who she slept with that time? It's been a couple years since and I still haven't had any interest in a relationship. It's not a horror story but it does make it hard to trust again.
Beardz
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Yeah, I slept with another cousin, she is HOT, but... I couldn't last more than 30 seconds... wtf :/
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Are you an inanimate object incapable of dumping your maybe-cheating girlfriend of 5 seconds on the spot? A doormat perhaps?
I know that feel.
ZackusMaximus
Banned
we were together 3 years, best friend, first serious gf/love/etc. I was naive. When we broke up for good a few months later she still claimed that nothing happened. I believed her at the time because it didn't make sense to me that she would bring up sleeping in the same bed with a guy then claiming that nothing happened when I would have never found out. Now I think she was just too much of a coward to tell me the full truth, and too much of a weakling to shoulder the full guilt. I dunno, still doesn't make sense to me. Maybe she did tell the truth and nothing happened. I find it easier to believe she's just a lying bitch.
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Yeah, that's rough. Obviously those three years meant more to you than they did to her. Get back on that horse, bro...they're not all like that.
the forbidden fruit.
Frangipani
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That sucks man. But sleeping in the same bed with a guy...? Sounds fishy to me. I was dumped 3 weeks ago based on suspicions. Except nothing actually did happen. I have never even come close to sleeping in the same bed with a guy. It was his best friend asking if I was down to have a threesome with him and his gf, me telling my bf about it and how I said no, and then getting blamed for somehow lying and actually planning to fuck him. Worst 3 weeks of my life thus far. My ex thinks I am a lying bitch too. 4 years down the drain. It actually hurts to read this thread.
LiquidMetal14
hide your water-based mammals
Come and sit on my couch young man!
ZackusMaximus
Banned
Fishy is right. I tried my best to believe her. Before she told me about the guy I had complete trust in her. One night a couple weeks after we got back together I noticed she was hiding her phone from me while texting. When I ask her to who she was texting jokingly she laughed it off. When I pushed the issue she completely recoiled and refused to show it to me. There were a few other fishy moments like that in the subsequent months. I guess I will never really know the truth. She was very cliche in her reasoning for breaking up with me a few months later. In retrospect if I had to bet I would put 5 on that she at least made out with the dude and let him feel her up.
Sorry about your issue. That sucks. His friend sounds like a complete piece of shit for putting you in that situation then not standing up for you. And your ex's character comes into question when he's keeping a best friend who would do something like that.
Frangipani
Neo Member
I have no clue if they're still friends or not, but he's most likely not speaking to him. Sorry about your ex also. Not all girls are like that.
jongkookie
Member
Oh believe me, I know. We've had a couple of times where we thought it'd be better to stop being friends since people who aren't in our circle of friends pretty much think we're dating. But that hasn't stopped any of us from finding SO's so we still are bffs these days lol.
Getting back on topic... this is a pretty great thread. Some of the situations y'all have gotten into I've never been in but have always wondered how someone would react to it. I honestly think this thread would be a gold mine to someone who might get cheated on in the future.
I'm not much for monogamous relationships, at least at this point in my life.
Only two? Surely you're being far too humble.
and yes, i've had two girls at once. more than once. be jealous
Only two? Surely you're being far too humble.
SonicMegaDrive
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Never cheated.
Been cheated on, though. But that's different.
Been cheated on, though. But that's different.
I went through nearly the same thing about a year and a half ago. Met this chick on Christmas at a bar, ended up getting drunk and going home with her. Wasn't til we were at her house that she told me she had a boyfriend and they've been living together for a couple years(kinda hard to hide it when there's pics of them everywhere), but he was out of town visiting his family for the holidays. She said he was a nice guy and everything, but they weren't 'together together' at that time and were basically just hanging on a thread. I didn't know whether to believe that at the time, but I kept seeing her for a bit cuz she was a cool chick and fun to hang out with(and was....blessed in certain ways) and it became apparent she wasn't lying about them kinda being seperated despite still living together. I felt bad in a way, but not too much.
She ended up breaking up with him after a couple months and I told her I hoped she did it for herself and not so we could date, cuz I told her from the getgo I wasn't looking for a relationship or anything. After about 4 months(total), she told me she loved me and I felt so bad cuz I couldn't say it back and basically had to really tiptoe around it cuz I still wanted to hang out with her but it made things really awkward. After about another month, I had to end it. Just wasn't fair on her, really. Plus, I'm not sure I could have a relationship with somebody when it started with them cheating on their boyfriend. Doesn't exactly instill a lot of trust.
You just sound like a huge douche man. I could share a lot of stories myself but you dont see me going around bragging and being a condescending prick about it. Good lord.i can get pretty much get any girl to cheat. i have the looks, the body, and the charm for it. consider it a blessing, but i had literally NO game as a child.
one time, maybe a few years ago, i went over to fuck this one lady. we've been using each other for booty calls for a little over a year, but this is the first time i actually went to her house. it was around 10am and her husband had just left for work. she invited me in, and we were making out and caressing each other when we hear the front door burst open. the dude yells out something about forgetting his wallet, so she throws me under the bed. i'm watching as the guy comes back into the bedroom with his shiny brown leather shoes walking around looking for his wallet. i'm praying my ass off he doesn't need to look underneath the bed. my heart is racing! i'm sure the guy was much older, at least in his 30s or 40s while i was only about 18 at the time.
thankfully i don't get caught and i continue getting that sweet married pussy.
i've charmed young girls that have never had a lover like me, to older women bored of their current stale relationship. i've had women that PAY ME for sex or just even a blowjob. you read that right, i've been PAID just for going over and giving them some good dick. one girl from los angeles, a nurse, had been paying me anywhere from a couple of $20s to a couple of $100s. not because i'm a whore, but because they legitimately wanted to buy me nice things as a thank you. i may cause them to cheat, but i don't dog anyone and treat every girl with respect.
and yes, i've had two girls at once. more than once. be jealous
i would share more stories, because honestly i've had a really crazy life. but generally speaking, GAF is filled with hating ass judgemental assholes who still think i'm some fucking punk ass insurance scammer. oh, and apparently it's funny that i think men should be able to drive their families around and not rely on buses. lmfao. losers on this site make me laugh
SMT
this show is not Breaking Bad why is it not Breaking Bad? it should be Breaking Bad dammit Breaking Bad
OP makes a thread to be entertained. Um, I remember this one time I heard that someone I know about someone else, there were tears, yeah. 
But seriously, I always follow the unwritten rules to a 'relationship'.
I mean, sometimes you're just window shopping, and there's no talks of commitment.
But seriously, I always follow the unwritten rules to a 'relationship'.
I mean, sometimes you're just window shopping, and there's no talks of commitment.
dreamcastmaster
Banned
I've been cheated on, but looking back a 17YO drunken kiss in a nightclub isn't really cheating. She apologized afterwards but only after other people had told me they'd seen her. I wonder if she would have admitted it otherwise?
One time I was seeing an exchange student and just before she left the country for good I hooked up with this other chick who lives here and then once I got to know her better I didn't like her so I hooked up with another exchange student who was here for longer and much nicer and then broke it off with the 2nd girl. I don't think that's really that bad tho, and this was a long time ago. It led to some really awkward moments when they'd run into each other cos there was basically double overlap. I wish I hadn't bothered with that 2nd girl at all tho cos it was basically her ambition in life to be a skank. She wasn't all that experienced when I met her but a couple of years later she was bragging about all the sex she'd been having, and I was like "good for you..."
Gucci Messiah
Banned
Criticizes people for posting confessions on the internet
Posts a confession on the internet
Gucci Messiah
Banned
You are literally the worsti can get pretty much get any girl to cheat. i have the looks, the body, and the charm for it. consider it a blessing, but i had literally NO game as a child.
one time, maybe a few years ago, i went over to fuck this one lady. we've been using each other for booty calls for a little over a year, but this is the first time i actually went to her house. it was around 10am and her husband had just left for work. she invited me in, and we were making out and caressing each other when we hear the front door burst open. the dude yells out something about forgetting his wallet, so she throws me under the bed. i'm watching as the guy comes back into the bedroom with his shiny brown leather shoes walking around looking for his wallet. i'm praying my ass off he doesn't need to look underneath the bed. my heart is racing! i'm sure the guy was much older, at least in his 30s or 40s while i was only about 18 at the time.
thankfully i don't get caught and i continue getting that sweet married pussy.
i've charmed young girls that have never had a lover like me, to older women bored of their current stale relationship. i've had women that PAY ME for sex or just even a blowjob. you read that right, i've been PAID just for going over and giving them some good dick. one girl from los angeles, a nurse, had been paying me anywhere from a couple of $20s to a couple of $100s. not because i'm a whore, but because they legitimately wanted to buy me nice things as a thank you. i may cause them to cheat, but i don't dog anyone and treat every girl with respect.
and yes, i've had two girls at once. more than once. be jealous
i would share more stories, because honestly i've had a really crazy life. but generally speaking, GAF is filled with hating ass judgemental assholes who still think i'm some fucking punk ass insurance scammer. oh, and apparently it's funny that i think men should be able to drive their families around and not rely on buses. lmfao. losers on this site make me laugh
Last time a girl told me they "just kissed", it was much more lol. Although we wernt going out at the time, so whatever.
SuperEpicMan
Banned
I honestly don't think I would have it in me to cheat on my girlfriend. I think if you are someone who can, then maybe you do not belong together.
Vermillion
Banned
i can get pretty much get any girl to cheat. i have the looks, the body, and the charm for it. consider it a blessing, but i had literally NO game as a child.
one time, maybe a few years ago, i went over to fuck this one lady. we've been using each other for booty calls for a little over a year, but this is the first time i actually went to her house. it was around 10am and her husband had just left for work. she invited me in, and we were making out and caressing each other when we hear the front door burst open. the dude yells out something about forgetting his wallet, so she throws me under the bed. i'm watching as the guy comes back into the bedroom with his shiny brown leather shoes walking around looking for his wallet. i'm praying my ass off he doesn't need to look underneath the bed. my heart is racing! i'm sure the guy was much older, at least in his 30s or 40s while i was only about 18 at the time.
thankfully i don't get caught and i continue getting that sweet married pussy.
i've charmed young girls that have never had a lover like me, to older women bored of their current stale relationship. i've had women that PAY ME for sex or just even a blowjob. you read that right, i've been PAID just for going over and giving them some good dick. one girl from los angeles, a nurse, had been paying me anywhere from a couple of $20s to a couple of $100s. not because i'm a whore, but because they legitimately wanted to buy me nice things as a thank you. i may cause them to cheat, but i don't dog anyone and treat every girl with respect.
and yes, i've had two girls at once. more than once. be jealous
i would share more stories, because honestly i've had a really crazy life. but generally speaking, GAF is filled with hating ass judgemental assholes who still think i'm some fucking punk ass insurance scammer. oh, and apparently it's funny that i think men should be able to drive their families around and not rely on buses. lmfao. losers on this site make me laugh
At the same damn time.
I belive its not whats in you... everyone could cheat... it just need to be the right circumstances for a person to commit to it.
Hope that's not you on the youtube channel I found. It makes your dickish post towards all of GAF that much more enjoyable.
Lucian Cat
Kissed a mod for a tag; liked it
I once thought like this. I thought I would never have it in me to cheat. But then I did. Sometimes we don't know what we're capable of
ThoughtsOfSpeaking
Banned
In my case, I couldn't care less if my exes found about what I did in the past. It was years ago. They have moved on with their lives and so have I.
does it bother you to find out you was cheated on years after the fact especially if your in a long term stable relationship with someone else?
Eve was made from the rib bone of adam. So it was either masterbation or he had sex with his daughter.
I'm an expert
Formerly worldrevolution. The only reason I am nice to anyone else is to avoid being banned.
i can get pretty much get any girl to cheat. i have the looks, the body, and the charm for it. consider it a blessing, but i had literally NO game as a child.
one time, maybe a few years ago, i went over to fuck this one lady. we've been using each other for booty calls for a little over a year, but this is the first time i actually went to her house. it was around 10am and her husband had just left for work. she invited me in, and we were making out and caressing each other when we hear the front door burst open. the dude yells out something about forgetting his wallet, so she throws me under the bed. i'm watching as the guy comes back into the bedroom with his shiny brown leather shoes walking around looking for his wallet. i'm praying my ass off he doesn't need to look underneath the bed. my heart is racing! i'm sure the guy was much older, at least in his 30s or 40s while i was only about 18 at the time.
thankfully i don't get caught and i continue getting that sweet married pussy.
i've charmed young girls that have never had a lover like me, to older women bored of their current stale relationship. i've had women that PAY ME for sex or just even a blowjob. you read that right, i've been PAID just for going over and giving them some good dick. one girl from los angeles, a nurse, had been paying me anywhere from a couple of $20s to a couple of $100s. not because i'm a whore, but because they legitimately wanted to buy me nice things as a thank you. i may cause them to cheat, but i don't dog anyone and treat every girl with respect.
and yes, i've had two girls at once. more than once. be jealous
i would share more stories, because honestly i've had a really crazy life. but generally speaking, GAF is filled with hating ass judgemental assholes who still think i'm some fucking punk ass insurance scammer. oh, and apparently it's funny that i think men should be able to drive their families around and not rely on buses. lmfao. losers on this site make me laugh
Hm.. I mean.. here's some general comments. This is a thread where we share stories and, for the most part, people make an effort to not judge others, at least in written form. You type up an interesting story that's fun to read and a good contribution to the thread, but you sandwich it in between telling us how unbelievably awesome you are and how unbelievably terrible we, your readers, are. There are a million posts and posters here, I honestly have no idea who you are but random dude #52345 on gaf. You choose to bring up your posting history (and I do now remember reading that insurance thread) for absolutely no reason other than to show you have an insecurity over how you're viewed on an internet forum.
The truth is no one here has any reason to doubt, or believe, anything anyone posts. Excluding obvious examples, we take everything everyone here writes at face value because we have no real way to verify it. You can tell us you've driven expensive cars, eaten the finest of foods, slept with 100 women at the same time, and all I can do is make a split decision about whether it's bullshit or not and move on to the next post. Now I'm not saying I don't believe your post, I'm saying your post comes off as someone who is trying to justify in every which way that if someone don't read this post as "wow this guy is so cool" then they're a jealous, hating, judgmental loser.
I'm assuming you're a younger person in life, so here's some simple advice - chill out. I'm sure you've lead an interesting life, but so have others, some more interesting than your's. There's no reason to make it into a competition, especially not in a pointless arena like GAF.
When working as a clerk at the returns department at an electronics store, I once got a customer who seemed strangely insistent that while I helped him transfer his SMSs to a new phone, I should probably open up a few of them... I did, and they were mostly messages from his gf saying things like "I'm so horny, you'll get to lick this when you get home" with enclosed pics of her spread pussy. I couldn't even tell if she looked good because you really couldn't see anything else. When I gave him back the phone he sniggered and asked me if I'd seen anything I liked. I said no with a straight face and he seemed very disappointed. That was a weird day.
Mister Wilhelm
Member
To summarize, "I'm so fucking cool and I ruin people's lives for fun but you won't get to hear about all my amazing stories because I am too insecure to be judged by strangers on the internet."
This.
Also "I've just posted to show off how awesome I am, but I didn't share anything because I didn't read the OP. And you are all haters."
slick7rick strikes again!
each post he makes gets more idiotic and hilarious, then when people call him out on it you get an equally idiotic and hilarious reply.
With the topic at hand It's something I don't think I could do myself and its not happened to me yet *touches wood...* But at least most of you here seem to be humble about it and you realise that it wasn't right but it happened, instead of being condescending jerks about it and keeping score of how many people have cheated with you.
each post he makes gets more idiotic and hilarious, then when people call him out on it you get an equally idiotic and hilarious reply.
With the topic at hand It's something I don't think I could do myself and its not happened to me yet *touches wood...* But at least most of you here seem to be humble about it and you realise that it wasn't right but it happened, instead of being condescending jerks about it and keeping score of how many people have cheated with you.
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