Moving to get away from that kind of stuff
. During morning rush hour how bad does it get. If I have to go over the Pattullo bridge or Number 1.
The four crossings around Surrey/Delta are (from east to west)...
The Port Mann Bridge (the number 1)
The Pattullo Bridge
The Alex Fraser Bridge
The George Massey Tunnel
Port Mann is a toll bridge. AFAIK, traffic's pretty light on it. Some people go out of their way to take it because it's faster, others go out of their way to avoid it because it's more expensive.
The Pattullo bridge is getting old and falling apart and crowded with people trying to avoid Port Mann, so they're talking about knocking it down and putting up a new toll bridge. This will push some traffic back to Port Mann as it'll become even harder to avoid paying tolls.
The Alex Fraser is a nice bridge. Fairly new, no tolls. It'll probably get worse once Pattullo goes down though. Also George Massey. Everyone's problems are going to get dumped on Alex Fraser.
The George Massey tunnel is my favorite. It's all dimly-lit with yellow-orange lights, and you get no radio signal so all you hear is the suddenly-echoing sound of all the cars. It's creepy. And some water occasionally drips in from the river overhead. It's probably going to collapse soon, and they're going to replace it with some boring bridge. Some boring
toll bridge.
IMO, it's a good idea to live/work on the same side of the river, if you can. Cross the bridges for fun on the weekends, don't commit to crossing them twice-a-day for work.
If it was me, I'd try to find a nice place in Surrey. I rag on Surrey, but it's getting nicer with every year, and Delta is too quiet for my tastes.