Congrats on getting married! Awesome man.
This will probably settle down. One thing I find difficult at times is the selective leak belief where both leaks may come from one source but only 1 bit of it(whatever the person wants to believe is believed) that comes up allot. Over time I usually find I can ignore it. Nothing confirmed until CONFIRMED

And in the case of the Wiiu maybe a long time later
One place I can point you to where they talk more tech and have less bitching about the leaks themselves is the B3d Forums.
http://forum.beyond3d.com/showthread.php?t=62867&page=37
Lots of actual fact based ideas around the leaks and its cool to just see the though process of the people who actuall code and dev all in one space with far less...hmmm...time wasting I guess would be the word.
Anyway congrats on the marriage man! ( if its you getting married and you are not just randomly helping someone else