Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend[IMG]
★½
This book was a mess for me. It's easier to talk about what it was not about than what it was. It was not about a young boy with autism. It was not about the struggles that children on the spectrum deal with, or how their families cope. It wasn't really about a person at all, at least not in the traditional sense.
It was about an imaginary friend who exists almost independently of his creator. The imaginary friend travels places his creator hasn't visited and therefore couldn't "create" in this imaginary world. The vast majority of the book is spent following this imaginary friend as he selfishly looks for ways to preserve his own existence at the expense of the little boy who created him. [SPOILER]He repeatedly (and I do mean repeatedly) struggles to decide if he should help a young boy escape from a kidnapper, since that might mean he will cease to exist. WTF?[/SPOILER] Entire chapters are spent with the imaginary friend talking to other imaginary friends about whatever the author felt like putting on that specific page. [SPOILER] There's a mini-UFC brawl between two imaginary friends, one being a 7-foot tall giant with a uni-brow. There are asides where the imaginary friend witnesses the death of someone he considers a friend but is in fact a complete stranger. The entire kidnapping thing feels totally out of place in the book.[/SPOILER] Definitely a kitchen sink approach.[/QUOTE]
Like I said, I really wish you had liked it =( It’s my favourite book, so just sad it’s a miss for you. Your first comment is so confusing though, it just seems like you expected something completely different?? It is about those things in a way, it’s just not presented as a sort of self help book, nothing like “the reason why I jump” for a quick example. [spoiler] It does deal with the struggles Max faces, and how their families cope, as it is clearly presented that Max’s parents are often fighting and at different terms with how they think Max should be helped, etc, it is just told through the eyes of Budo, presenting a unique scenario[/spoiler]
[spoiler] Your second point, Budo does travel to places he is familiar with, that is established early on, the gas station, the hospital, etc etc, and later on Budo clearly says he will get lost because he is not sure where to go, so he is not all-knowing, but he was “imagined” to be very smart. And a MAJOR theme of the book is the struggle Budo has of his own existence. He loves Max very very very much, he wants to be around forever, and even during the kidnapping, he struggles with thinking that while Max is in trouble, it would mean Budo stays forever. Near the end though, that VERY pivotal moment happens, when Max asks Budo “Are you Real?”. This is the culmination of everything, Budo wondering how to answer in what it ultimately means for him, knowing the right choice has to be made, and being brave for that choice.
And Budo witnessing what happens in the Gas station is very moving too, they are not strangers to him, he hangs out there a lot, and has grown to love them, and then mentions how much he will miss them when he is fading away. The epilogue confirms that of how much it means to him to see Donna again.
The kidnapping is no doubt out of left field, and very unexpected, that much I will agree with, and the book does venture to very dark territory for it. The book certainly has a fantastical element, or I guess “magical realism” tone with the world of imaginary friends, so it is not all doom and gloom. It pulls on a range of emotions.[/spoiler]
Sorry for the wall of black bars everyone =(