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[ourumov]

Ok, let's explain the situation. It's not the first time I go out nor it will be the last but I don't go out for at least a year. I have a friend who wanted to go out (since his girlfriend has left him) and asked me to go with him. He has already warned me that he "will go for broke" regarding girls so I can already see me being alone in a strange place.
When I used to go out, I used to go with more than just one friend so you had always someone to talk to. Besides we went there more for the fun of dancing than any other thing.
It's not that I am the kind of guy who just stands at the center of the disco dancing with the prettiest girl nor I am the one who rests near a wall doing nothing. But the case is that I have the feeling I will get bored very fast...and I cannot say him not. I'll try to dance camoufled between the mass...
But anyways what do you do when you are not going to go to "attack" females ??

Just before anybody jumps with gay arguments, please forget them. I don't feel very good for starting a conversation with a girl for just getting sex for one night...I am not that kind of person.

 

[Warm Machine]

Be his wingman.

 

[Deleted member 1235]

get drunk dance around and talk loudly to people. If you don't actually want to score, just pretend like you do to fit in.

ITS VERY IMPORTANT TO FIT IN.

 

[Trevelyon]

It's simple, get absolutely shitfaced before you leave & the night will fly by.

 

[Mama Smurf]

Disco? Is this the 70s? Just kidding, I get a feeling English might not be your first language.

I don't think much of clubbing myself. I can't dance and don't enjoy my attempts at it, I'm not the sort of guy who can pull a girl in a club (I mean, I'm sure I could if I really tried, I just don't want to, it's not my thing pulling random birds) and it's not like I can hear my mates to talk to them....so unless I'm completely pissed out of my head, I don't have much fun. Much prefer a pub or a bar myself.

EDIT: I do what Trevelyon suggested if I actually want a good night. Though it can all go horribly wrong that way.

 

[ourumov]

These are good ideas...But I don't drink...I'll try to make another friend come, an old pal so I can have some conversation...

 

[Funky Papa]

But anyways what do you do when you are not going to go to "attack" females ??

If the disco is a calmed down one I order a long drink and enjoy the music while thinking on my business. Otherwise you are bound to boring, sorry to say that.

I don't feel very good for starting a conversation with a girl for just getting sex for one night... I am not that kind of person.

Hey, I respect that, but you can flirt without having sex. Sometimes it is ten times better and it can led to interesting results. I did a great friend with my stupid disco conversations.

But I don't drink...

Order a ginger ale. I am addicted to that shit.

 

[ourumov]

Order a ginger ale. I am addicted to that shit.

Ginger Ale rocks !

 

[Warm Machine]

There isn't any liquor in Redbull and Vodka

 

[ballhog]

Rub your crotch against random chicks. Act like its their fault.

 

[Jill Sandwich]

Get in the middle of the dancefloor, pull your t shirt over your head and punch the air for 4 hours. Occasionally buy a drink.

 

[way more]

I suggest you start drinking. It's really relaxing to just sit back and watch others and you can get into good conversations.

 

[ourumov]

Thanks a lot. Thinking on this thread while I am there will save me from any kind of boring moments.

 

[Saint Cornelius]

The Hustle! The Freak!